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  1. Thread: The next step

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    Okay then. Now you know that what you're doing...

    Okay then. Now you know that what you're doing doesn't feel good. So the issue now becomes whether you're going to keep doing it, or find something that feels better. Now what you describe sounds...
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    So how does it FEEL to tell yourself that what...

    So how does it FEEL to tell yourself that what you want is inappropriate? Not only are you telling yourself that it's inappropriate, you've gotten someone who you've decided is an expert to confirm...
  3. Thread: The next step

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    You can call yourself "foolhardy," but contrast...

    You can call yourself "foolhardy," but contrast is designed to cause you to launch desires that are bigger than what you're up to speed with. You're handling things EXACTLY the way you intended. The...
  4. Thread: The next step

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    Once again, you are where you are and that's...

    Once again, you are where you are and that's okay. As I mentioned before, the benefit of the contrast you've been experiencing is that it's caused you to look at what you've been

    I think 36 days...
  5. Thread: The next step

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    That's not your job. Let me say it again so you...

    That's not your job. Let me say it again so you can hear it: THAT'S NOT YOUR JOB. FIGURING IT OUT IS NOT YOUR JOB!

    Your job is just to focus on the emotional things that you know fit. "I like...
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    But you DID want enough income to flow into your...

    But you DID want enough income to flow into your experience and this is simply the path of least resistance at the moment.

    And yet you are where you are. They're suitable for you in the sense...
  7. Start where you are. Maybe you don't believe...

    Start where you are. Maybe you don't believe right now that things ALWAYS work for you, but you just talked about how you USED to believe it. So at least things work out for you SOMETIMES. Or they...
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    Really? If your self-employment isn't going well,...

    Really? If your self-employment isn't going well, then another way to allow the Euro to flow into your experience seems like a positive thing. There are other positive aspects as well -- engaging...
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    Except that you don't control any of those...

    Except that you don't control any of those things. (and you're using the word "expect" differently that Abraham does.) It might be more accurate to say that you want others to behave in these...
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    If appreciation "doesn't get easier," then you're...

    If appreciation "doesn't get easier," then you're too far away from appreciation to start with. Same is true with positive aspects. If they're THAT hard to find, then it's too fluffy a process....
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    Great, pay attention to the fact that you're...

    Great, pay attention to the fact that you're making progress. As p-o-e points out, it's really important to celebrate the fact that you're making progress.

    It's fine that you're blaming everyone...
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    It doesn't have to be the "the person you want to...

    It doesn't have to be the "the person you want to be," it can be something you do deliberately to feel better. When you start pushing against certain spots on the EGS, that contributes to your...
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    No one is suggesting that you need to. We're...

    No one is suggesting that you need to. We're suggesting that Anger and Blame feel like relief when you're used to feeling Powerlessness or Guilt/Shame. When Anger and Blame don't feel like relief...
  14. Sure you can. You're not used to doing it, it...

    Sure you can. You're not used to doing it, it will take some practice, but it's something you CAN do. Abraham tells us that it can be helpful to talk about what we want and why we want it as a way to...
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    But that's what we're talking about -- the...

    But that's what we're talking about -- the inaccurate stories you're telling about those subjects is why you feel the way you do. You feel bad because you zero in on the things you don't like as if...
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    One of the things that Abraham reminds us is that...

    One of the things that Abraham reminds us is that we can't get it wrong. It's not the case that there's a "wrong" and a "right" path, which is why it isn't clear when you try to evaluate them that...
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    Remember that Abraham's suggestion for our core...

    Remember that Abraham's suggestion for our core intention is that "Nothing is more important than that I feel good." So if you can spend some more time taking a break from the thoughts you're used to...
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    That's not really vibrationally accurate. I'd...

    That's not really vibrationally accurate. I'd describe it differently -- when you're feeling Powerless, the vibration of Hope is far too big of a jump for you to make.

    I agree that if you're...
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    Except that the thinking DOESN'T just happen to...

    Except that the thinking DOESN'T just happen to you. It's something you're doing.

    Give us an example of what you're trying to find relief about and how it feels, and then the thought you're using...
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    p-o-e is right on point here. There's only one...

    p-o-e is right on point here. There's only one factor in your control -- how you feel. The good news is that it's the ONLY factor that matters. When you're able to feel better, EVERYTHING has to...
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    That's really a good thing because when you're...

    That's really a good thing because when you're really fed up with what you're used to doing, that's when you start to have the willingness to do something different.

    I'll echo WB here. It's...
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    Now it's understandable that while you have a...

    Now it's understandable that while you have a strong desire to have a different experience than what you've had, it makes sense that you've paid more attention to those conditions and that's where...
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    Not sure if you wanted feedback. Let us know if...

    Not sure if you wanted feedback. Let us know if you do... I figured I'd just drop something in on this last post.

    Notice that this is a scenario where how you feel still depends on what others...
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    You could ruminate and try to figure it all out,...

    You could ruminate and try to figure it all out, or you could just answer the questions I posed to you. How do you really feel about where you are? What do you think would be different if one of the...
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    No parent expects themselves to know everything...

    No parent expects themselves to know everything they'll need to know in their child's life ahead of time. No one would be a parent if they thought they had to figure out in advance what to tell their...
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