The Single Life with Abraham

[chillinjoan]

How has Abraham affected your life as a Single person? What changes entailed? How does it make you think about dating now?

[GaiaMaria]

I'm still working on that particular subject since I've had a lot of resistance in that area of my life. But is has changed in the sense that I now feel READY for love. And that's a pretty big step, I feel.

[GaiaMaria]

(Holy source, did I actually manage to give a short, concise answer instead of a long-winded tale there? Why, miracles never cease! )

[chillinjoan]

Knocked the wind out of ya, did I?

Being ready for LOVE is huge Maria! Becoming Who You Really Are, is key to me regarding dating. If you don't know who you are, how are they going to know.

[David]

Fabulous thread starter on this forum!! Thank you!

For me, I don't know where to begin. I don't have the time to reply to this, but I want to start. Hopefully others will chime in. Perhaps this thread should be moved to the main forum. It's a good one for us all.

All I can say is that Abraham has been an INTENSELY "coupled" experience for me. All the love within it is a match to being in love. When I met Abraham my whole relationship life changed profoundly. I met and married, and had 2 very extreme relationships due to my involement with Abraham and community. So, the short version is that Abraham has profoundly affected my single life.

It as obliterated it. (I think!)

That's a start.

[chillinjoan]

THAT'S IT David !

We all Fall Head Over Heels in Love with Abraham, teaching us how to love another. Knowing Abe, gave me confidence (like I needed more, right?), how to pre-pave and think about what I want to see in people, attracting those only. I have got one King-size order in (no pun intended)

[artmom]

I don't know yet because I was just introduced to the Abraham material very recently, but I do know that being single having drawn this knowledge and re-remembering to me is infinitely more fun and supportive than being single and not being consciously connected to Source and to the fun and inspiring way Abraham gets the messages across through Esther, and now, finding this forum too!!! Fantastic!!

[SingingInTheRain]

so far the biggest difference is tho i do want a partner later in life, i'm not desperate or needy. i already deeply feel loved and enjoy my "single" time. i enjoy the driftwood and love imagining and anticipatin my perfect partner. i can honestly say that, even though i know this won't happen since i'm a delberate allower, but if a lover never came into my life again i would still absolutely enjoy it. And that feeling is so delicious.

[Merry]

Well let me think...I know what I don't want, so I know what I do want...and so I am not just settling for just anyone. Actually I think I am becoming very picky...no no not that one...no no not that one...oh he seems pretty nice...oh hes married...next. I am though having fun with it all...and I have noticed a lot of loving relationships starting to flourish all around me...a few marriages in the older group of friends I have...and so I am taking that as driftwood...and I am appreciating the loving relationships I am seeing.

Dating itself...I have stopped that for the time being. I was meeting too many what I considered to be losers...(things that in my opinion would be what I consider off to me...like when he gambles all his money away and then says he wants to move in with me after I have only known him for a couple of days because he is being evicted...well not my cup of tea) and realized it was at a time when my vibrations were off...so I decided to just be on my own for a while...and the universe helped me stay that way...I needed the time to align...kind of get myself together...be at peace with my own person...the space where I could be by myself a lot and concentrate on my LOA studies, spend time on end just writing in my bopa (which I am still doing because I love that process)..and now I am happy where I am and am ready to move forward with whatever and it does not matter what the whatever is.

I am now at the place where I am waiting for the oh its you...I have been waiting for you...man of my vortex...knowing as soon as he walks into my life...actually I am pretty sure (ok I know and I know that I know) he has already walked into my life...but once again he is married...though that does not mean he will stay that way...I just have to align with the version of him in my vortex that is already with me...or maybe someone else might come along and sweep me off my feet...either way...right now I am just going to have fun with it all. If it happens it happens...and if it doesn't it doesn't. I am letting the Universal Matchmaker...make the arrangements. While I would like a relationship...I don't need it this red hot minute...and I realize the Universal Matchmaker might need a little extra time to bring me exactly what I want...since after all...like I said I am being a little picky.

I am full of joy and happiness on my own...and if a physical co creator comes along for the fun we can have together...the passion...the companionship...the conversations...well that would be great...and if not...well then that is just great too. Well being is after all mine...no matter what happens.

[toadypants]

Well let me think...I know what I don't want, so I know what I do want...and so I am not just settling for just anyone. Actually I think I am becoming very picky...no no not that one...no no not that one...oh he seems pretty nice...oh hes married...next. I am though having fun with it all...and I have noticed a lot of loving relationships starting to flourish all around me...a few marriages in the older group of friends I have...and so I am taking that as driftwood...and I am appreciating the loving relationships I am seeing.

Dating itself...I have stopped that for the time being. I was meeting too many what I considered to be losers...(things that in my opinion would be what I consider off to me...like when he gambles all his money away and then says he wants to move in with me after I have only known him for a couple of days because he is being evicted...well not my cup of tea) and realized it was at a time when my vibrations were off...so I decided to just be on my own for a while...and the universe helped me stay that way...I needed the time to align...kind of get myself together...be at peace with my own person...the space where I could be by myself a lot and concentrate on my LOA studies, spend time on end just writing in my bopa (which I am still doing because I love that process)..and now I am happy where I am and am ready to move forward with whatever and it does not matter what the whatever is.

I am now at the place where I am waiting for the oh its you...I have been waiting for you...man of my vortex...knowing as soon as he walks into my life...actually I am pretty sure (ok I know and I know that I know) he has already walked into my life...but once again he is married...though that does not mean he will stay that way...I just have to align with the version of him in my vortex that is already with me...or maybe someone else might come along and sweep me off my feet...either way...right now I am just going to have fun with it all. If it happens it happens...and if it doesn't it doesn't. I am letting the Universal Matchmaker...make the arrangements. While I would like a relationship...I don't need it this red hot minute...and I realize the Universal Matchmaker might need a little extra time to bring me exactly what I want...since after all...like I said I am being a little picky.

I am full of joy and happiness on my own...and if a physical co creator comes along for the fun we can have together...the passion...the companionship...the conversations...well that would be great...and if not...well then that is just great too. Well being is after all mine...no matter what happens.

Ohhh, Merry, I just came across this, over a year after you wrote it, but it really feels good. Glad I saw it!