30 days of seeing the Vortex-version of people- and my relationships with them

[honeypie]

Cool picture!

[paradise-on-earth]

YES!!!

[paradise-on-earth]

Specifically negative
-I´m feeling really good about my daughter´s partner
- No I don´t.
He´s creepy, manipulative, desinterested, slow, cheap, silly, dumb, awkward and uneducated. Eeeew!!!!
Sounds horrible and it is.
I can´t stand him!
My tolerance is GONE.
I don´t know where to look when he´s around.
I don´t wanna meet him anytime anymore.
He´s the opposite of what I wish for her.
He´s the opposite of what she wishes, in so many ways.
I feel so disempowered.
I would like to kick him out, but I can´t.
I would like to yell when he´s there.
I´m sad for her.
I can´t stand her sadnes and dissappointment
I want this very very different!!!

generally negative
-I´m feeling really good about my daughter´s partner
- I want this to be very different.
I want to find true peace in this.
I want to see my daughter happy again.


generally positive + new GRID
-I´m feeling really good about my daughter´s partner
- I´m happy that it got unbearable.
I´m happy that I realized that I need to focus on the bounce.
I´m happy how we all managed it, till now.
We all did really good!
I LIKE that she found so much enhightened clarity.
She definitly knows much better now what she wants in a relationship!
I really really like this!

I really like also that he was fair and he really tried.
I liked the contrast for the sake of clarity and awarenes.
This will serve ALL of us incredibly good.
It was life, that tought us here. WOW!

My new grid about my daughters partner, us and her and him in relationship, is:
I want this to be joyful for all of us.
I want us to have fun and exploration together.
I want it to feel joyful and appreciative.
It feels interesting and even fascinating.
The whole family is in it with joy.
It feels good.
It feels like gaining.
It feels like support and upliftment, inspiration and fun.
It feels like birds of one feather.
It feels like doors, opening.
It feels SO GOOD.
It feels like another person in our love-bound!
It feels like wonderful opportunitys.
It feels like YES, MORE!
It feels like wow, another son!
It feels free in the same time.
It feels like trust and pride.
It feels like a great match.
It feels really, really good!


specifically positive
-I´m feeling really good about my daughter´s partner
- I do.
I like the Vortex-version!
I´m curious how this will play out.
I feel huge relief.
I feel eager to keep on with this grid.
It feels like a fascinating task and a sure success- for all of us.
It feels perfect!

[paradise-on-earth]

Thanks for this one again, Ana

[paradise-on-earth]

30 days of seeing the Vortex-version
of people- and of my relationship with them
Day 5

[paradise-on-earth]

Specifically negative
-I am in wonderful peace with my Mom.
- Well...
I would love to trust her again.
I would love to express myself towards her again.
I feel withdrawn.
I feel offended if I´m open.
I feel judged.
I feel seen permanenty from OOTV and this drags me down.
I want a very different grid here.

generally negative
-I am in wonderful peace with my Mom.
- I have a sh* grid going here.
I want this to change around.
It sucks.


generally positive + new GRID
- I am in wonderful peace with my Mom.
- I did well.
I stopped explaining and fighting.
I was strong enough to withdraw.
But now I want MORE.
I want this to turn around into something good and sweet and joyful!
I´m grateful that I could learn to withdraw with her.
It brought me so much peace.
It brought me clearity.
It brought me deliberatenes and a certain level of peace, of success.
Now it´s time for more

I want to feel open and gentle towards her.
I want to feel unhurtable.
I want to feel completely lined up.
I want to feel GOOD in this!
I want to feel my love for her strongly and unconditionally.
I feel us laughing.
I feel us open.
I feel us gentle.
I feel us interested.
I feel us in sweetnes.
I feel us lightened up.
I feel our joy.
I feel our love.
I feel our relief.
I feel our joy.
I feel our ease.
I feel our jokes.
I feel our loud laughter.
I feel our true connection.
I feel our deep, joyful touchednes.
I feel GOOD!

I SO LOVE HER

[Ilovejazz]

I just love your 30 days of focus threads, Elke!

[chillinjoan]

[paradise-on-earth]

Joan, WHY IS THE CAFÉ- THREAD CLOSED?????
(you don´t seem to look on your board for my notifications)

[honeypie]

Which thread is that?

Never mind, saw it, unlocked it.