How do i stop crying?

[tinkerbell32]

I think im going through a kinda of depression and i know this is because of a guy i stopped dating 2 weeks ago.
Im mean i was only dating him for 5months but i really liked him and i felt he was a good guy. But he only wanted to be 'exclusive' because of his career, yet we were more than that. I finished with them as i found him emailing another girl a sexy mesage. And i guess what hurts the most is its been a week since i heard from him and i want him to at least fight. But hes not and all i think about is him being with other girls.
I mad with myself for the energy im usiing. But i manifested him. I miss our dates, our talks, walks, dinners etc. I want them back.

Im having problems getting myself to a place of 'allowing and trusting'. And i know that all these tears are keeping me away from what i want.

I actually have great things happening in my career but am finding it very hard to appreciate. Where's if i was truly honest. Having a loving partner in my life, is really want i want right now more than ever.

Thanks for your help. I have cried nearly everyday for 2 weeks! Puffy eyes are becoming larger as we speak!

[Twilight Mikkala]

I think im going through a kinda of depression and i know this is because of a guy i stopped dating 2 weeks ago.
Im mean i was only dating him for 5months but i really liked him and i felt he was a good guy. But he only wanted to be 'exclusive' because of his career, yet we were more than that. I finished with them as i found him emailing another girl a sexy mesage. And i guess what hurts the most is its been a week since i heard from him and i want him to at least fight. But hes not and all i think about is him being with other girls.
I mad with myself for the energy im usiing. But i manifested him. I miss our dates, our talks, walks, dinners etc. I want them back.

Im having problems getting myself to a place of 'allowing and trusting'. And i know that all these tears are keeping me away from what i want.

I actually have great things happening in my career but am finding it very hard to appreciate. Where's if i was truly honest. Having a loving partner in my life, is really want i want right now more than ever.

Thanks for your help. I have cried nearly everyday for 2 weeks! Puffy eyes are becoming larger as we speak!

DEAR HEART TINKERBELL CRYING IS RELIEF,MAKING YOURSELF WRONG? WHY NOT MAKE PEACE ,SOOTHE YOURS,,WHAT AM I LEARNINGFROM THIS POINT?IF YOU WANT A RESPECTING LOVING RELATIONSHIP,YOUR ON THE RIGHT PATH?WHO WANTS TO TIME SHARE A MAN?SOUNDS LIKE SPARSE CROPS TO ME ? YOU MADE A VOXTEXY CHOICE HERE ?AND YOU CAN FIND A WONDERFUL MAN WHO WANTS AND ADORES YOU AND YOU ONLY, VISE VISA? YOUR BEATING YOURSELFBLAMING YOURSELF TRY GETTING MAD AND BLAMING HIM, OR ANTHING BUT YOURSELF FOR A STEP UP EMOTIONAL LADDER.THIS BEING OVER AS YOU HAVE ENDED IT BRINGS YOU CLOSER TO SELF REGARD? SELF CONNECTION FIRST,EVERTTHING ELSE IS ICING ON A HAPPY CAKE ABE DOES GREAT EASY WORK ON THE TAPE IM TIRED OF BEING FAT MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND WARM HUG OF SOOTHINGNESS? BE SELF KIND..... PUPPY TUMMY ,,, YOUR PATIO FRIEND

[Evey]

I think the part that is causing you the most split energy (and grief) is that you are second guessing your decision to break up with him. You looked for evidence that he was not being what you wanted, you found it, you took action to let him go. Now you can make room to start to feel better and start getting ready for the next one that will want to play the role that you want. So you have some getting ready to do. You can do this this. You can tell the story of how he helped you know what you want better and how you said goodbye and how now you are getting ready for a better match. Take the bounce. You made a decision. Feel good about it. You can always line up with that decision. No regrets. Face towards your vortex...get some sleep. Drop thoughts about this. It is history. Time for better....start getting ready.

No more second guessing yourself--on any subjects. Line up. Line up. Line up. Start looking for evidence of the next better things.

[patricia b]

How do you stop crying? BY DECIDING TO STOP.

Enough already.

Life is full of so many experiences. Why wallow in a disappointing one?

NEXT!

[transformation1111]

Tears are a beautiful thing, they do release resistance in your vibration - so you body is helping you out, helping you to feel better .
Trouble is sometimes the tears go on and on and they feel like they are crying you, instead of you crying them -swamping you and the ocean is swallowing you up. Its more that the vibration (unwanted) has become so active and strong that it feels like it envelopes you.

Your sadness feels like it is because a,b & c has happened to you. He did this, I felt this, he is not in my life anymore and now I feel sad.
I felt happy, and joyful and loved and lovable when I was with him and we did a, b & c together, I miss him and those things because they made me happy. He was the source of my happiness. Now he is gone.

But the sadness is really because you have disconnected yourself from you, from your inner being. You are missing your own alignment with you and using this guy as the reason, excuse for your sadness. The outer world is a projection of you internal vibrational frequency and alignment - the outside world is a mirror of physical manifestations of your own inner world.

You have become more because of this relationship you have expanded and he has expanded, nothing is ever a mistake or a waste of time. From your inner beings point of view this guy has been a positive experience in your life - your inner being only focuses on the positive and the expansion. He has been the catalyst and birth place of expansion for you and of you, in becoming and more knowing your of preferences, clarity in what you do want - a stronger desire for what you do want. So while your inner being is dancing in the positive, your physical being is focused in the negative - which translates to you splitting your energy - and you think you are missing him, but you are really missing your connection with you.
Can you feel good and positive and joyful in a moment, probably not - but you can find a thought that brings relief from where you were, a thought that feels a little less resistant than the last place you stood, Keep reaching for something that feels better, and your vibration will naturally shift into a better feeling place and you will then have access to better feeling thoughts.

blessings always and in all ways robyn

[Marc]

how do you stop crying? By deciding to stop.enough already. Life is full of so many experiences. Why wallow in a disappointing one?!

this.

[Kellismom]

Here are some helpful posts from other threads I've saved:

Your job is to find your 'happy' without a need that circumstances change in order to be happy.

This is the very heart of what Abe is teaching. True, lasting, reliable happiness comes first ~ then circumstances, people and events match up with your happiness and everything expands. Most of the people on the planet are trying to make things work in a backwards approach, by finding the things, people and circumstances that will then allow them to be happy. Sheerluckholmes

The feeling of connection that people are looking for, the exhilaration of being with someone with their hearts soaring, really is not a function of the person you are with, but instead it is a function of your own connection with YOU. We would prefer to think of soul mate as you mating, or consciously connecting with your own soul or source or Inner Being. When you in your physical moment and time are offering a similar vibration to your Inner Being , you have indeed found your soul mate, And if you consistently do that, the people who will gravitate to you will be enormously satisfying" -A­BRAHAM