The piece of the puzzle that is missing to attract everyting you want !

[hainguyen99]

Chris, Your inner guidance system is your emotional system . It's always "on air"

[paradise-on-earth]

Wow thank you for your quick reply paradise-on-earth. I figured out this week that one's intuïtion, ones inner guidance is the key to a lot of things.

But I never felt I am in touch with my intuïtion or inner guidance system... Because of that I have low self a system and if I have to do social things in front of a lot of people I freeze up and can't be myself...I want to go and give seminars but because of these things I can't...How do you overcome low self a systeem, anxieties, fears, negative self talk...These are all roadbloacks. How would one overcome alle these things and get more in touch with the inner guidance system. I feel not connected to my intuïtion so what can you do to make the connection better I wonder...

Thx,

Chris

First, sorry, I´m no native speaker, I guess with low self a system you mean low self esteem? I don´t want to mock at all, just wanting to be clear here... so that we talk about the same

This conversation is quite fascinating to me. You seem to be pretty new to Abe, but also feel to me as if you get it very fast!
It´s all about taking one step after the other. You can´t do this all at once. You trained yourself into resistance and low self-esteem and fears over a long time, and you will need some time also to let it all go, again.

I would highly advice to learn about "the Grid", that´s Abe´s last and IMO best description of how to change believs and habbits. It´s not in any books of them, yet. You can google video-clips in Youtube with the searchword "Abraham Hicks, Grid". Also feel invited to read and play at this thread
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.p...G-Grid-Setting

Here I teach the best of Abe´s advices to achieve happines and overcome problems- the "going general" and the "Grid". Look at it and decide if you wanna give it a try, I´m there for you- for feedback.

Definitions aka Abe-quotes about the Grid, are assembled here http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.p...about-the-Grid

P.S. I can heal with my hands too, but how did you learn to channel and give regressions ?

[/QUOTE] As everything. When you´r fascinated in anything, when you think- and wish about something, in doing so you activate the subject, and LoA brings the teachers, the opportunitys, the ideas, the clarity. In the perfect steps, in the perfect unfolding.

[paradise-on-earth]

Chris, Your inner guidance system is your emotional system . It's always "on air"

Emotional guidance is not necessarily the same as "intuition".

It is Abe´s explanation of the guidance that our emotions give us, all the time. If you don´t know about it, please learn about it. It´s a REAL basic to this teaching. The EGS (=emotional guidance-system) is key to everything. The good-feeling emotions are "in the Vortex". And ITV (=in the Vortex) is ALL your power, joy, wisdom and clarity, also.

[hainguyen99]

Emotional guidance is not necessarily the same as "intuition".

It is Abe´s explanation of the guidance that our emotions give us, all the time. If you don´t know about it, please learn about it. It´s a REAL basic to this teaching. The EGS (=emotional guidance-system) is key to everything. The good-feeling emotions are "in the Vortex". And ITV (=in the Vortex) is ALL your power, joy, wisdom and clarity, also.

for your advice PoE, I'm learning to understand it now. 'Coz I think I can not ignore such invaluable guidance from the Sage-Within, who has lived thousands of lifetimes haha furthermore, the guidance is so simple and so easy to understand

[Hands in the Clay]

"The way you line up is about feeling your way there, not thinking you way there, you see. You don't think your way there, you feel your way there. You love your way there, you appreciate your way there, you bask your way there… And what's gone wrong with so many of you… you think creation is about mind, you think it's about dictating what you want clearly, you think it's about emphasizing it and goal setting and writing it down and training your mind. It's not about training your mind, it's about feeling your way to it. It's about feeling your way along the path. It's about following the path of enthusiasm. It doesn't light up visually, it lights up emotionally."

The Law of Attraction in Action, Vol. VI, DVD 2 (thank you, Qzi, good timing!)

[Hearts of Summer]

Chris, you've attracted a lot of great answers and clarity here. I just want to say that your and your neighbors focus on "what is" is also self-chosen. There are famous examples of lots of people who figured out a way to break out of the 'hood, out of poverty, into vast abundance. I'm sure they didn't do so by thinking they could never do it. You can look for examples of things you wish to see.

Like PoE my background and studies have been deep and varied throughout the years. As a psychologist once upon a time, I know more about the subconscious than the average person I think Abe's teaching that the subconscious does not create is very helpful to me. Consider why the subconscious would be part of human programming if it were there to "trip you up". Wouldn't make much sense, would it? I do believe if there is a lot of resistance in the conscious, then the subconscious is sort of a "operating system" or as you say; it can also be a "overflow" place where things we don't want to deal with consciously go (Abe talks about putting a "happy face sticker" over our real emotions). We can also see teachings of "ego" being equated with "subconscious". Abe says to love the ego and to get over the idea that it is "bad". It's all about what YOU want to create and where you want to put your focus. If you train your conscious mind to feel what you want to feel, the rest of the system is "programmed" with the same. And, as everyone is saying pay attention to your emotions and to what you are thinking and how those thoughts make you feel. That is the work.

PS HitC that is a perfect quote!! Thank you!! and it is the piece to MY puzzle of this week - so thanks Chris for this thread too! YAY

[Chris1976]

Thanks for your answers...Quote "It's not only thinking your way there, but feeling your way there. You love your way there, you appreciate your way there, bask your way there" All the LOA and Secret teachers tell that and also Abraham...You have get aligned, send out the right feelings, get into the vortex and everything...But I never hear Esther talk about people who are despressed, never had succes in their lives and consequently formed negative beliefs about a lot of things in general. She does simply say feel good, send out the right emotions, be in the flow, be in the vortex and manifest...She is saying throw away negative beliefs and programming people have been programmed with from childhood to adulthood for years.

All these believes are held in the subconsious...Every LOA teacher and teachings says and knows that...Where do the negative beliefs and convictions come from. They entered the mind first during upbringing, then they go in the subconsious and the subconsious projects it back into the mind for the rest of your life...For examle people who have high selfesteem are mostly the succesful ones. People with low selfesteem mostly are not succesfull, because they do not think they are worth it having succes. Where their low selfesteem comes from most people don't know...

I know a lot of people with low selfesteem and most of them think they are born with it...I never hear Esther say things about these people. Like Esther I can say to these people go in the vortex, be aligned, feel the right emotions and you can manifest what you want...But they never will, not even because they don't believe it, but because deep down they don't think and feel they are worth it. What is the solution for people feeling not worth it. I never heard Esther say something about this..Yes there are a few people from the hood, the slumps that obtained abundance, but these are only a few, on millions and millions of them that did not...

Paradise on earth said "The good-feeling emotions are "in the Vortex" Most people in bad situations, with a lot of worries about finances or whatever haven't felt good in years..You can tell them to go in the Vortex , Magic box or whatever, their negative feelings and ideas they had for years won't be vanished when they are in the vortex...This is exactly the problem with the majority of people in this world. They cannot change their negative toughts, convictions, low selfesteem and their fears in an instant. I am looking for a solution for this to help myself and all the poor people in my neigbourhoud...Esther saying go in the vortex and manifest does not cut it...I am looking for solution to help people around me with low selfesteem, depression. Surely these thing have to be fixed first before they can be in a good mood, feel happy get aligned and
be able to manifest

Quoting Hearts of Summer: "As a psychologist once upon a time, I know more about the subconscious than the average person I think Abe's teaching that the subconscious does not create is very helpful to me. Consider why the subconscious would be part of human programming if it were there to " trip you".

If the subconsious is not responsible for creating and not responsible for holding beliefs and convictions according to Abraham what does the subconsious do ? Hearts of Summer, as a psychologist I imagine you must know a lot of the mind indeed. Hypnotist know even more about the subconsious...I know a clinical hypnotist would has been working for decades with people and their subconsious getting good results. He hypnotises people to surpass the conscious mind to work with the subconsious mind...He is also into the Law of Attraction so I asked him about his experiences and how the consious and subconsious mind relate to each other. This is what he said:

I would have to degree most strongly with Abraham Hicks about the sub--conscious mind and it's role in making changes. The sub-conscious mind is vital to making any change. Having worked with clients as a clinical hypnotist, I have noticed that if people do not want to make a change on a sub-conscious level then they do not make the change. The hypnosis works with the sub-conscious mind to make the changes which then filter in to the conscious mind. You can change beliefs by concentrating on the conscious mind but it's much harder and requires more force of will. Working on changing beliefs through the sub-conscious mind is much easier and much more subtle. Unfortunately, the conscious mind often tends to be a hinderence in making changes because it sabotages and questions.

I really wish someone can help me with this, cause I am struggling to apply this. I so want to help the poor people in my neigbourhoud, but first I have to succeed in applying the LOA myself before I can help other people.

Thanks,

Chris

[CreatorChristine]

Question, Chris:

"Do all these 'poor, depressed' people you are wanting to help have to be happy and successful before you can allow yourself to feel good?"

Because that is what this in truth comes down to for you. You cannot help a single one of them as long as you are so focused on what you see as "wrong" in their lives, as long as you are convinced that they are broken and in need of fixing, and are using this perception as an excuse to feel bad for them and about them. And I think you will agree that that belief of yours is anything BUT "subconscious" - it is very much at the forefront of your awareness and your consciousness. It is active in your vibration, and thus Law of Attraction MUST bring more of that into your experience. Now, this is not to say that you must turn your back on them and ignore their plight. But as long as you are seeing them as helpless in their suffering due to some "subconscious" bullshit, as long as you are seeing them as powerless over what they think and feel, they cannot help but be just that, at least in your experience. And as long as you are needing them to "overcome" ANYTHING in order for you to feel better, you are stuck, and you're not helping them one bit. However, once you get to the place where you can at least feel HOPE of them experiencing a shift and a coming into their own sense of Power - even without the outer circumstances changing and even without them yet having "overcome" some ominous "subconscious beliefs" - then you will begin to see evidence of it.

Regarding this specific belief in the power of the subconscious: If this is what you choose to believe, then this is what will be your experience. If this is what you choose to believe, you will of course manifest a prevalence of "evidence" backing this belief up. If you truly understand Law of Attraction, then you understand the Truth of those statements. So why don't you take about 10-15 minutes to lighten up a little and play with the thought that it just might not be so? Why don't you play with thoughts like, "What if the subconscious is not really such an indomitable force in our beliefs and creations? What if what Abraham say is true and we really only do have to pay attention how we FEEL and to the thoughts and beliefs that are active in our minds? Wouldn't it be nice if it were actually a whole lot easier to change deep-seated beliefs than I have been taught to believe? What if what clinical psychology is calling 'subconscious' beliefs are actually merely thoughts that are so habitual that we are not consciously aware of them, but that we can with a little focus easily become consciously aware of in order to shift them? What if this is not all as big and bad as I have been thinking it is?"

Now, you might be wondering, "What does this have to do with my question about how I can help these others change their self-esteem and negative expectations?". But see, I'm not talking to THEM - I'm talking to YOU, and before you can help them shift their beliefs, you have to learn how to shift your own. If I were talking to THEM, I'd perhaps be telling them how to approach and shift their own lack of self-esteem. But since I'm talking to YOU, I'm telling YOU how to approach and shift your own perception of their lack. Make sense?


Christine

[CreatorChristine]

And another little puzzle piece for you, Chris ...

Even if you can teach your friends to "overcome" low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness, that is no guarantee that they will allow themselves to experience abundance in the way you envision it. Because an equally strong "stumbling block" to allowing abundance is negative judgment (resentment, jealousy, blame etc.) of those who already are wealthy. People will repeatedly sabotage and torpedo their own success if they believe "success" means becoming like those whom they despise. In effect, becoming wealthy and successful would mean even lower self-esteem to someone who for example thinks wealthy and successful people are cheating, exploitative scum. You cannot joyously be and live that which you criticize. So you might want to consider helping your friends to feel better not only about themselves, but also about those already living abundance.


Christine

[Chris1976]

Thanks Christine for helping me piece the puzzle together....I agree with you ... Even I can help people overcome low selfesteem and feelings of unworthiness there is jealousy, resentment and blame. In the USA you have the American Dream and if one drives in an expensive car some people will say good job, how did you achieve that. In my country none of that, most people will cut your head of if you stick it above the cornfield if you are succesful. Most will say he or she is a showoff.. But still besides all that the essence of what Abraham is saying "Feel Good"...Lot of people I know haven't felt good in years and are not able to be in a place of good feelings...Other LOA teachers and teachings at least come with solutions to solve these problems. T

They say use Emotional Freedom Techniques, NLP, Hypnosis to clear blockages and change beliefs and convictions. Even the teacher of the movie The Secret where Esther orignally was part off tell this. It confuses me because almost all others teach about the subconsious and changing beliefs. I never heard Esther mention how to deal with low selfesteem , unworthiness or other problems or changing long held beliefs...These people are not able to feel happy and feel good. So according to the teachins from Abraham they have no chance...I find this a great stubling block in the Abraham Teachings as opposed to other LOA teachers who give at least some sort solutions to deal with this problems...If everyone was able feel good all the time the whole world would attract what they wanted. The sad reality is that the majority of people do not live abundant lives, which is a shame...I want to help people but I am stuck with the teaching of how to make sad and depressed people feeling good. It is near to impossible...How does one go around that ?

Grtz,

Chris