What would Abraham say to me?

[Freetobe]

Hi beautiful people

My mother has been suffering from panic attacks for a lifetime.Recently i've been trying to explain Abraham's teachings to her and she seems to understand them for a while but then....she falls back into her fears.I can't bear her suffering and i know i move away from myself this way.What can i do,or say to help her or should i give up helping her altogether?.I can't be indifferent to her suffering but doing so my mood is influenced by her complaining.

Tell me something

[Hands in the Clay]

You would do well to read The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships. That's where Abe tell us everything about maintaining alignment within the relationships that cause such great expansion for us. A book that is the perfect tool to help us understand the connections we have with others. That way you get it directly from The Source, as it were.

[admodi86]

I think firstly you should try to go general about your mother's situation. First try to feel better yourself. That's where all your power lies. You told about the teachings to your mother and she did give it a thought. Isn't that itself a step forward? It takes time to practice for some. Plus even if she doesn't understand these teachings or apply them, so what? She is an eternal being. She can never get it wrong. She can never get it done. And most of the people don't really know much about these teachings or energy or LOA. At least your mother has you in her experience. This increases the chances of her getting it. But first, YOU have to get it...... Everyone gets out of the vortex now and then. The only thing with her and many others is that she does that in some extreme way. It's okay. Perhaps she will try to feel better. Her amazing EGS is always guiding her. She is source energy focused in human body. You know these teachings, you know how powerful it is to feel good no matter what. Don't make your mother the reason for your being out of the vortex. Your concern about her is understandable, but you have got to find a way to feel better irrespective of her situation. Find better feeling thoughts. Find relief about this subject. And above all, your mother creates her own reality.

[Freetobe]

Seeing her suffer gives me bad feelings and i don't want to feel out of the vortex,it isn't pleasant,it thwarts my attempts to get into the vortex.
Ok,i visualize her being well and it gives me joy and pleasure.
Instead of focusing on her suffering i deliberately "choose" to find better feelings thoughts.
I have to feel good and hope my example of well-being will be helpful to her,sooner or later and however i have to accept that she creates her own reality and that she's a an eternal being and that she can't get it wrong.

[tonycat]

Abraham would say to you...

"Choose what feels good to you and leave everybody else to choose what they want. Don’t spend any time saying, “They should choose differently and they’d feel better.” Instead say, “They’re choosing whatever they’re choosing; I’m choosing what I’m choosing, and I’m feeling good while I’m choosing it.” And let that be the end of it. Be certain that you are connected to your Source Energy, and let everybody else figure it out for themselves. Some of them will adore you, some of them will hate you — and none of it has anything to do with you." -Abe 5/8/01

[Freetobe]

Thanks so much Tonycat for paraphrasing Abraham
Whenever i read its words everything seems so logical and clear and simple

[DailyJoy]

When she seems to "fall back into her fears" that is just a habit that is not yet broken. It is not failing to move forward; it is not failure. It is merely returning to an ingrained habit. If she and you just look at it and say, "Well, here I am again." I am not finished with my re-routing of this path I no longer wish to walk -- and then re-group progress will be made.

[Thea]

Hello Freetobe . I feel interested in your question.
If that's not too big of a jump for you emotionally, maybe I would pratice your Vortex version of her : imagine her stable, carefree, distracted by some amazing new focusing in her life, smiling often, telling you about great things she recently noticed in her day to day life. I would also concentrate on the benefits I would feel if she was morphing into a different state of mind. I would write few lines about the comfortable relational feelings I want to experience with the people I interact with.
This thread topic reminds me of the Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD Relationship part : Abraham-Hicks translates something like : if the quality you seek in another isn' t there, then practice it anyway.
But if you feel effort imagining this, going general about the main vibration you want to feel for yourself in your own life would be easier.

[Freetobe]

Hi Thea

I've already been praticing my Vortex version of her over the last few months and i saw her improve very much.My sister who came here on holiday said "mom looks like re-born".Now i understand it had really worked.Recently she has fallen into her fears again and that's because i've been focusing on other subjects lately (on myself,my metamorphosis).
Thank you very much Thea and Dailyjoy and Hands in Clay.