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    "What am I doing wrong???" THAT is the only thing thatīs wrong!!!

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    Your question -"What am I doing wrong???"
    -THAT is the ONLY thing thatīs wrong!!!

    Abe



    I had a HUUUGE lightbulb-moment in the last 20 hrs, and I wanna share!
    I finally really really UNDERSTAND the quote above, on a level that I -hopefully- may release *my fixing mode*, now.
    I can say this better

    I chose to release my fixing mode.
    I can say this better:

    I decide to focus on what I WANT.
    I decide to focus on the joy that is there to be celebrated.
    I decide to focus on my Vortex- Version,
    on my dreams and desires, that are vibrationally DONE and there for me, to tap into them.
    I decide to be the UNCONDITIONALLY loving- and living person that I really am!
    Because I can, and itīs so much more fun than anything else.


    I just posted this on another thread:

    I had huge contrast in those last days, what was not so easy on the one hand,
    while Iīm proud to say that I just KNEW, without doubt, that behind the pain was such a huge nugget for me to find and reap.
    And this morning, it fully dawned to me.

    Of course, Abe talk about this ALL the time, but I never understood it as I now do:

    Whenever you see "where you are" as less than good", THAT
    is the cause why it canīt get better.

    When you think you need to fix something, that automatically means, you feel that something is broken.
    And in EVERY ATTEMPT to fix it, you enhance the stance of you, being broken.
    Or you, not having the thing you want.

    So, when we are in fixing-mode, we automatically dig in, and enhance the problem.
    It clicked for me, when I found this quote:


    It is so easy to say:
    No, wait! I donīt wanna be here, or: I didnīt want to be here-
    or: This went wrong.

    But if you could just say, and MEAN:
    Where I am is just right, given ALL that I want.
    I might not understand it.
    I might not be sensitive enough, to the
    vibrational path to UNDERSTAND the benefit, of all of that...

    You can even say: I wanted an easier route.
    Or, I wanted a route that felt more this way, than that way.
    But if you can just accept, that where you are
    is RIGHT, not WRONG. That is the thing we wanna say to you!!

    Where you are, no matter where it is, in relationship to
    where you want to be, is RIGHT! Not wrong!
    Itīs RIGHT. Not wrong.

    Because, you are starting where you are!
    And when you are accepting that it is right, than
    immedeately, you turn in the direction of what you want!


    from the clip Abraham Explains Benefits Of Old Resistance...



    THIS is the answer, *for me*. I did an awesome job of soothing myself- since years, now.
    It was good.
    It was needed.
    It was RIGHT.
    But there comes a time, where even the soothing becomes upstream.
    To decide, that where I am is GOOD- that is needed to get fully ITV.
    Thatīs the TRUE "making peace".
    Thatīs the turning-point, where things really can shift, from absence to presence of the wanted.
    Itīs radical and itīs the paradigm-shift, that I did NOT fully accomplish, until now.

    NOW I UNDERSTAND IT.
    And now letīs practice!


    Wishing you all a wonderful, charmed, lovely weekend!

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    "How does somebody squelch a dream?
    The only possible way that you can squelch a dream
    is by offering a vibration in opposition to it
    and practicing the opposing vibration-
    so that itīs so big, that itīs always present.

    But now letīs say it in amore vivid real way:
    "I havenīt been squelching my dream,
    Iīv been at war with my dream!"
    Cause you canīt squelch it!
    "Iīve been preventing myself from realizing my dream!"
    -better terminology!

    "Iīve been practicing a vibration, that is opposite to my dream,
    and I practiced it long enough, that it comes easily to me.
    And if my dream would just die, I would be in peace.
    But my dream wonīt die.
    My dream wonīt die- because itīs who I really am."

    And this is why weīr saying to you, friends:
    Youīve got no choice if you wanna feel good,
    OTHER than to stop the battle against your own desires and dreams!
    And the way you stop your battle,
    is by feeling for the thought that feels BETTER."


    from the clip Abraham: Too afraid to dream






    Give IN!
    Give in to the success of your dream,
    and watch the resources of the universe back you up.


    Give in to it! Give in to it!

    Give in, to the inevitable achievement
    of ALL that you have vibrationally already become.

    You know, it wouldnīt be painful, if you hadnīt become it.


    Stamford, 2011


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    Indeed POE

    Haven't you ever felt so bad, and gotten so frustrated that you just yelled from the bottom of your heart: "THAT'S IT!!! I GIVE UP!!! NO MORE !!! I'M DONE!!!"?

    I have, several times, on several things, and each and every time it meant releasing the resistance automatically, with ENORMOUS power, and in doing so, also automatically the floodgates opened and my desire started STREAMING IN.

    The difficult part about this is that you cannot really do this on purpose. You have to wait until you feel so bad that there's no other choice anymore but to give up. There's such enormous power in that.

    And that point is exactly that "accepting where you are".

    Of course I don't mean you can't reach that state using other tecniques that are less contrasty

    I prefer the dramatic way of course


    Belana

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    Sweeeet moments!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Belana View Post
    I prefer the dramatic way of course


    Belana
    I HEAR YOU!!!!

    But I came to the place where I was SO SICK AND TIRED of drama and pain that I could not even do THAT anymore!!!
    So I circled in my "wisdom", making fun of myself, and lovingly soothed myself more- taking time, time, time (and YOU know how impatient I always was...) until I finally bumped into this quote, and there the big light was going on, so to speak.

    I AM SOOO CURIOUS about what is going to come now!
    While I feel a giant, awesome, huge PEACE...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunlover View Post
    Sweeeet moments!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by paradise-on-earth View Post
    I HEAR YOU!!!!

    But I came to the place where I was SO SICK AND TIRED of drama and pain that I could not even do THAT anymore!!!
    So I circled in my "wisdom", making fun of myself, and lovingly soothed myself more- taking time, time, time (and YOU know how impatient I always was...) until I finally bumped into this quote, and there the big light was going on, so to speak.

    I AM SOOO CURIOUS about what is going to come now!
    While I feel a giant, awesome, huge PEACE...
    It is totally irrelevant HOW we get to that point, the dramatic way or the easy way It's the END RESULT we're after, the LETTING GO of the resistance, and the TOTAL ACCEPTANCE of being who we are, where we are and what's going on in our lives


    Belana

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    This is so wonderful POE!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Belana View Post
    It is totally irrelevant HOW we get to that point, the dramatic way or the easy way ...
    I donīt fully agree While I ADORE my results, I want the joy in the journey.

    But you are right- we are where we are, and bless what works!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Penguin View Post
    This is so wonderful POE!
    It is! I am soaring HIGH. I feel like I really finally, got the last nugget. And now I realize, how big my resistance still was!


    And itīs ALL GOOD!!!!

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