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    Quote Originally Posted by Wild and Beautiful View Post

    a couple weeks ago, had a huge swearing fit, a huge release of frustration, of I couldn't give a goddam damn anymore

    and within 5 minutes there was my manifestation

    sitting beside me, breathing, smiling, looking as beautiful as ever
    just like that

    I was sorta stunned : )

    I'm not really into drama, but being goddam-pulling-my-hair-out-frustrated makes me oh-so dramatic!!
    (and yeah, a miracle occurred)

    much much love
    xxx

    And when you finally LET GO- then weeeeeeeeeeee!

    Itīs described here, I SO LOVE THIS QUOTE...



    When something really matters a lot,
    it tends to get really an inordinate amount of your attention.
    And when itīs moving into the direction you donīt want it to move,
    than that inordinate attention increases the momentum.

    And the thing that is so confounding about it, to you,
    that thing that makes you feel that disgust and rage, is-
    a part of you knows, that it doesnīt have to be that way.
    A part of you knows, that you are smarter than this,
    a part of you knows that if you just could get hold of it
    and apply yourself in a different way-
    you could turn it around!

    We want you to make MOMENTUM your friend, too!

    The thing we so want to convey to you
    in a way that you can really feel it, is that sliding in opposition
    to what you want DOES NOT INDICATE BAD CREATION.

    It indicates strong determination!

    If you really want something, and you are focussed in opposition to it,
    itīs really really uncomfortable.
    If you donīt care at all,
    then your opposition-thought doesnīt hinder you, at all.

    And so, when you feel strong about something, as you do
    there is very very very good news, in that.
    And the good news is:
    There is strong, strong, strong, strong, STRONG momentum!

    Now we want to help you understand something about momentum!
    Because, so far in this conversation,
    it felt like weīr talking about momentum, thatīs taking you into the OPPOSITE direction
    of where you want to be!

    But momentum -ahhhh- momentum is NEVER EVER taking you
    into the opposite direction of where you want to be!

    HEAR THIS!

    Momentum is ALWAYS source energy,
    moving TOWARDS something you really really want!

    But in opposite vibration,
    in opposing personal thought-vibration,
    the momentum that is really leading TOWARDS where you want to go,
    feels AWFUL while you are pulling against it!
    Now, did you get that??

    THIS MOMENTUM -this is not a downward-slide, that you are upon,
    this is an onward slide,
    this is the Universe, lining everything up, to give you everything
    that you want!
    THATīS WHATīS REALLY HAPPENING!

    But where you are standing within it,
    and almost everybody would understand it-
    you are pulling in such opposition that it FEELS to you,
    that the momentum is going in the opposite direction-

    because youīr taking score of current manifestations
    instead of understanding the power of the momentum!

    It would be a little bit like,
    if you would be garnering the empathise, that you where going to
    shoot something far far far out into space- but so far,
    the rocket hasnīt been launched.
    So, itīs just sitting there- in a resistant state!

    Iow, it wants to go, but they got it all strapped down,
    and so it looks like itīs going to tear the whole launchpad up,
    if somebody wonīt cut it loose and let it GO-

    and THATīs what we want you to focus on, here!
    This momentum, that feels like downward-spiral,
    is NOT a downward-spiral.
    Itīs an upward-spiral, that you are not flowing with, yet.

    Thatīs all that it is.


    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks - Being snatched from victory by the jaws of defeat

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    Quote Originally Posted by WellBean View Post
    I didn't see this thread yesterday! Hello!!

    This is what I've been doing the last few days that I think fits in here, and it's been a great vibe lifter. I do it for both positive feelings so I can reach for even better and for pivoting.

    A positive one would be -- let's say I'm feeling pretty good. I say something like "I am feeling as good as I am right now, and I love knowing that I can feel a little better and a little better because there is a never-ending flow of good feelings here for me!"

    A negative one might be that I'm not feeling good, but if I hold the other end of the stick, I am feeling AS GOOD AS I AM right this minute. In other words, we can never fully turn off that flow. Even if I was sick, I am feeling as healthy as I do right this minute (I haven't croaked), or as loving as I am, or as loved as I am, or as wealthy as I do.

    So acknowledge that "I am where I am" in the WANTED direction, then open up to the stream by enjoying knowing there is always more.

    I am as healthy and radiant as I am right now, and I love knowing I can always feel a little more healthy and a little more radiant, and there is a never-ending stream of radiant health that flows to me.

    I am as joyful as I am right now, and I love knowing that I could feel even more joy!! There is an unlimited supply of joy for me!!

    I feel as good as I do about this project, and I love knowing that I could feel a bit better and that there is an overflowing abundance of ways this could work out.

    My house is as clean as it is in this red hot minute, and I feel as good as I do about it, and i love knowing I could feel a tiny bit better if I wanted to, and it's possible to feel really really good.


    It feels pretty cumbersome as I type it out but it sure gets my boat pointed downstream and feeling in the flow of wellbeing.
    I donīt know if I really get what youīr saying...
    For me it means, that I click into "What decided, what I vibrated, brought me HERE. So, that is RIGHT *for me*. Itīs authentic,
    it is what I am ready for,
    Itīs what I am "getting" - what matches me, what is vibrational in my vicinity.

    So, it is RIGHT for me. I douldnīt deal with something that is no match for me.
    I couldnīt deal with something, that is too big or too small for me.
    What is, is just RIGHT for me.

    And in the moment I stop struggling against "what is"- as they say- I turn into the stream and am free and feel good, again!

    Because, I always feel good when Iīm heading towards the Vortex, already!
    I donīt need to be THERE (even it feels even better there ).
    But itīs enough to GO THERE!

    Thatīs so easy.
    Nothing to bang into place. Just releasing the struggle.

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    Just felt drawn here and I saw your last two sentences. I think now I know why I felt pulled to share...this is my general focus today....
    Just for today I expect the very best for myself!

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    Quote Originally Posted by paradise-on-earth View Post
    I donīt know if I really get what youīr saying...
    For me it means, that I click into "What decided, what I vibrated, brought me HERE. So, that is RIGHT *for me*. Itīs authentic,
    it is what I am ready for,
    Itīs what I am "getting" - what matches me, what is vibrational in my vicinity.

    So, it is RIGHT for me. I douldnīt deal with something that is no match for me.
    I couldnīt deal with something, that is too big or too small for me.
    What is, is just RIGHT for me.

    And in the moment I stop struggling against "what is"- as they say- I turn into the stream and am free and feel good, again!

    Because, I always feel good when Iīm heading towards the Vortex, already!
    I donīt need to be THERE (even it feels even better there ).
    But itīs enough to GO THERE!

    Thatīs so easy.
    Nothing to bang into place. Just releasing the struggle.
    I love the word Authentic!!

    My approach is to focus on the downstream direction and then letting the stream carry me. Instead of focusing on the degree to which I'm resisting, I'm pivoting and focusing on how much I'm allowing -- it's the same "what-is" but am I facing upstream or down?

    As you said in the first post, if we are trying to fix "wrong" things, we are pointed upstream. But by declaring myself as Right as possible already, i am letting go of the struggle. By acknowledging that my desires are eternal and my flow is endless, where I am in the stream is far less important.

    I love the idea of authentically being here, wherever I am. Thanks for that.

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    Nice thread as always PoE! I am understanding this more myself.
    A couple of things that have come to mind of late that have felt like relief are that I am where I am, I cant get it wrong, I have asked and it has been given. I dont have to try to feel better or even pivot from negative emotions. All my emotions are are guidance and even in negative feeling instances, by acknowleding that they are just guidance and that my IB sees things differently is relief in itself, without effort included. I am kind of now appreciating (though not fully yet) the negative emotions I feel and have and am thanking them for showing me that I am seeing things differently than my IB knows them to be.

    I am also enjoying letting everything go, knowing that I am not doing anything wrong. I know that I love my desires and the idea of them coming around in physically manifested form, but it also feels so good to just let them go and BE where I am now, knowing that I am not doing anything wrong, that I have asked, that it is given and letting everyone and everything be as it is. It is peaceful and easy knowing that I have desires, knowing that I want them, knowing I am lining up with them and just chilling out and enjoying the journey.......I am not doing anything wrong and all is working out for me, but rather than focusing on the "working out for me" I am more interested in just being where I am, as IT IS WHERE I AM, and that is good enough for me. It doesnt mean I dont want to be over there, but I am looking forward to the unfolding, letting my now be good enough and letting the manifestations (first emotionally, then physically) show me my alignment with ME and MY NOW, not to get over there.....and that is a big thing for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hey_boo View Post
    Nice thread as always PoE! I am understanding this more myself.
    A couple of things that have come to mind of late that have felt like relief are that I am where I am, I cant get it wrong, I have asked and it has been given. I dont have to try to feel better or even pivot from negative emotions. All my emotions are are guidance and even in negative feeling instances, by acknowleding that they are just guidance and that my IB sees things differently is relief in itself, without effort included. I am kind of now appreciating (though not fully yet) the negative emotions I feel and have and am thanking them for showing me that I am seeing things differently than my IB knows them to be.

    I am also enjoying letting everything go, knowing that I am not doing anything wrong. I know that I love my desires and the idea of them coming around in physically manifested form, but it also feels so good to just let them go and BE where I am now, knowing that I am not doing anything wrong, that I have asked, that it is given and letting everyone and everything be as it is. It is peaceful and easy knowing that I have desires, knowing that I want them, knowing I am lining up with them and just chilling out and enjoying the journey.......I am not doing anything wrong and all is working out for me, but rather than focusing on the "working out for me" I am more interested in just being where I am, as IT IS WHERE I AM, and that is good enough for me. It doesnt mean I dont want to be over there, but I am looking forward to the unfolding, letting my now be good enough and letting the manifestations (first emotionally, then physically) show me my alignment with ME and MY NOW, not to get over there.....and that is a big thing for me.
    Awesome!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by paradise-on-earth View Post

    And when you finally LET GO- then weeeeeeeeeeee!

    Itīs described here, I SO LOVE THIS QUOTE...

    When something really matters a lot,
    it tends to get really an inordinate amount of your attention.
    And when itīs moving into the direction you donīt want it to move,
    than that inordinate attention increases the momentum.

    And the thing that is so confounding about it, to you,
    that thing that makes you feel that disgust and rage, is-
    a part of you knows, that it doesnīt have to be that way.
    A part of you knows, that you are smarter than this,
    a part of you knows that if you just could get hold of it
    and apply yourself in a different way-
    you could turn it around!

    We want you to make MOMENTUM your friend, too!

    The thing we so want to convey to you
    in a way that you can really feel it, is that sliding in opposition
    to what you want DOES NOT INDICATE BAD CREATION.

    It indicates strong determination!


    If you really want something, and you are focussed in opposition to it,
    itīs really really uncomfortable.
    If you donīt care at all,
    then your opposition-thought doesnīt hinder you, at all.

    And so, when you feel strong about something, as you do
    there is very very very good news, in that.
    And the good news is:
    There is strong, strong, strong, strong, STRONG momentum!


    Now we want to help you understand something about momentum!
    Because, so far in this conversation,
    it felt like weīr talking about momentum, thatīs taking you into the OPPOSITE direction
    of where you want to be!

    But momentum -ahhhh- momentum is NEVER EVER taking you
    into the opposite direction of where you want to be!

    HEAR THIS!

    Momentum is ALWAYS source energy,
    moving TOWARDS something you really really want!

    But in opposite vibration,
    in opposing personal thought-vibration,
    the momentum that is really leading TOWARDS where you want to go,
    feels AWFUL while you are pulling against it!
    Now, did you get that??

    THIS MOMENTUM -this is not a downward-slide, that you are upon,
    this is an onward slide,
    this is the Universe, lining everything up, to give you everything
    that you want!
    THATīS WHATīS REALLY HAPPENING!

    But where you are standing within it,
    and almost everybody would understand it-
    you are pulling in such opposition that it
    FEELS to you,
    that the momentum is going in the opposite direction-

    because youīr taking score of current manifestations
    instead of understanding the power of the momentum!


    It would be a little bit like,
    if you would be garnering the empathise, that you where going to
    shoot something far far far out into space- but so far,
    the rocket hasnīt been launched.
    So, itīs just sitting there- in a resistant state!

    Iow, it wants to go, but they got it all strapped down,
    and so it looks like itīs going to tear the whole launchpad up,
    if somebody wonīt cut it loose and let it GO-

    and THATīs what we want you to focus on, here!
    This momentum, that feels like downward-spiral,
    is NOT a downward-spiral.
    Itīs an upward-spiral, that you are not flowing with, yet.

    Thatīs all that it is.


    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks - Being snatched from victory by the jaws of defeat
    perfect and beautiful paradise-on-earth thank you xxx

    sums it all up so perfectly!
    very very deep ~for Abraham
    had to read it a few times, to feel it
    love their loving support

    I knew, just knew, that nothing was wrong, that it was all working out for me
    I had just let the frustration of the lack of manifestation get to me, on that particular stick
    and I was slightly pissed

    so the swearing and cursing helped - alot : ) ha ha ha

    was good to let go

    I find I am caring less and less about the specifics of 'particular' things manifesting
    and I have let my grip go on how I think it should be
    and instead I am happy to just go along for this wild ride
    because I know that my source knows exactly what I want
    and I will not be disappointed, ever
    I have too much love and support from the Universe to ever be disappointed

    and daily now, I get thrills, so exciting, beyond what I could ever imagine
    manifestations coming out of nowhere, surprising and delighting me no end

    yeah, I might get pissed occasionally, and slightly frustrated
    but I'm cool with that
    it's a very rare thing
    and this fine tuning is nice nice work
    I am enjoying it
    alot : )

    thank you so much : )
    xxxxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by hey_boo View Post
    I am looking forward to the unfolding,
    letting my now be good enough
    and letting the manifestations (first emotionally, then physically) show me my alignment with ME and MY NOW,
    not to get over there
    .....and that is a big thing for me.
    yes hey_boo
    letting my now be good enough
    that is beautiful

    I did that a little while ago
    focused on just being happy every day
    after listening to the Abraham youtube clip - Amazing New Process !!!
    and just that small act of looking for happy things changed nearly everything faster than anything else I was/had been doing

    I thought, if I'm not there (yet), I may as well be happy as much as I can be

    has been good

    much love
    xxxxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by WellBean View Post
    I love the word Authentic!!

    My approach is to focus on the downstream direction and then letting the stream carry me. Instead of focusing on the degree to which I'm resisting, I'm pivoting and focusing on how much I'm allowing -- it's the same "what-is" but am I facing upstream or down?

    As you said in the first post, if we are trying to fix "wrong" things, we are pointed upstream. But by declaring myself as Right as possible already, i am letting go of the struggle. By acknowledging that my desires are eternal and my flow is endless, where I am in the stream is far less important.

    I love the idea of authentically being here, wherever I am. Thanks for that.
    ahhhh... yes, feels so good!

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    hey_boo, fabdoc, WaB! Wow, itīs awesome to feel us all flying side by side. What an awesome time of awakening- and really GETTING this...
    and feel others, being with you. !

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