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    Drama is...

    DRAMA IS, deliberately or indeliberately, purposefully or by default,
    CHOOSING a vibration that is not in alignment with the way Source SEES IT.
    And HOLDING myself THERE, until it gets bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger.

    DRAMA IS; trying to FIX things with ACTION, rather than at the EARLY Stages through Vibrational Shifting.

    Drama is a pattern of behaviour.
    Drama is the umbrella RESULT, of being Insensitive in the Early Stages to your Emotions.


    Asheville, NC, April 2015

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    Amen!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Sunlover View Post
    DRAMA IS, deliberately or indeliberately, purposefully or by default,
    CHOOSING a vibration that is not in alignment with the way Source SEES IT.
    And HOLDING myself THERE, until it gets bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger.

    DRAMA IS; trying to FIX things with ACTION, rather than at the EARLY Stages through Vibrational Shifting.

    Drama is a pattern of behaviour.
    Drama is the umbrella RESULT, of being Insensitive in the Early Stages to your Emotions.


    Asheville, NC, April 2015

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    If the stove is hot we don't want you to IGNORE it,
    and touch the hot stove.
    That's not good for you.

    And we don't want you to ENDURE long standing negative emotion,
    because that's not good for you either.


    But we don't want you to beat up on yourself
    for having negative emotion,
    because that's like THROWING YOURSELF ON THE STOVE!
    That is exaggerating it, you see, and that's what true drama is.

    Asheville, April 2015

    (first part of the awesome quote, above)

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    drama-free Lemon!

    Paradise, thank you! Awesome!

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    I just LOVE all our cocreation!

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    We don´t want you to deprive yourself of alignment so much,
    that than something dramatic has to happen.
    And we think that pushing through,
    before you have prepared yourself vibrationally
    is going the hard way, about it.

    And it´s the way that almost everybody goes about it.
    Most people move through their lives, not in alignment with who they really are-
    and so, there is an edginess about almost everything they do-
    that is UNNECESSARY.
    You could be totally immersed in this energy of wellbeing!


    Phoenix, Febr. 2014

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    the whole transcript to post #1 and 2!




    Sometimes Esther will say "that person is really really hard.
    Its just hard. Its just hard. That person rings my bells, yanks my chain.
    That person is hard. And every now and again she says "TOO Hard"!
    "TOO Hard, not worth it! Too hard, NOT worth it!"

    -And you have to decide, when the path of least resistance says
    "too hard, NOT worth it".
    And when the path of least resistance says
    "too hard, BUT worth it".


    HS:
    I got to unconditional love, I did positive aspects!
    (but clearly she is ootv)

    A:
    Oh bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla
    I got there, but I cant stay there, I got there but I cant stay there.

    HS
    I got there but I cant stay there, and he is not a family member.
    And I got my mother back, and were going on the Alaskan cruise,
    whats better than that!

    Abe:
    There are a lot of things better than that.
    Day to day happiness is way better than that,
    control of your emotions way better than that.
    Temporary excitement because the cruise makes you feel better most of the time-
    PHHHEW!!
    Alignment, consistent alignment, ability to stay in alignment
    with who you ARE, that's all that MATTERS.

    HS
    And my friend Jane is here,
    and I don't want to take up all of your time....

    A:
    So we have some questions for you.
    You used the analogy of upstream downstream. So...

    HS
    Oh, your taping me? Don't order the Dvd! Don't order it!...sorry!
    laughter from audience

    A
    This gets better and better!!
    So, we have a few questions for you.
    These questions will set you free.
    The answers to these questions will set you free,
    so just relax and give us the easy answers that come.

    HS
    Can I smoke!
    Laughter. Sorry!

    A
    So, you introduced into this conversation today,
    an analogy that we used successfully for quite a while;
    upstream/downstream.
    And we always begin by saying, we love you so much,
    but it is almost like you take your canoe down to the rivers edge
    and you point it upstream, and you deliberately paddle upstream,
    complaining about how HARD it is.

    With some sort of feeling of accomplishment or virtue, in the struggle.
    And we say" just turn it downstream, just turn it in the other direction
    and just let the natural stream carry you."

    So, there is something that we know for sure about You:
    (talking to HS directly), that we want you to discover during this conversation.
    And that is; somewhere along your trail, you've picked up the belief,
    and a lot of people do, that there is ADVANTAGE in struggle.

    That there is advantage in sacrifice.
    That there is advantage in DRAMA.
    There's advantage in ENTERTAINING drama.
    That there is advantage in the STRUGGLE.

    And, because you believe that there is advantage in the struggle,
    that's your DEFAULT PLACE; that's where you go to.

    IOWs, as we have been visiting here with you,
    WE KNOW that intellectually, conceptually, you understand Law of Attraction.
    And you understand the upstream/downstream, and you understand the flow.
    And yet, at every opportunity, you turned upstream, BECAUSE...
    Now we really want to talk about this!

    There MUST be something IN IT FOR YOU!
    So, we want for you to figure it out, we will figure it out together.
    WHAT is IN IT FOR YOU.
    WHY does the turn UPSTREAM, FEEL like the path of least resistance to you?

    Why do you do that so easily?
    Did you have to defend yourself in a strong way when you were younger?

    HS
    Yes, there was a lot of drama, and I am used to drama, it feels exciting to me.

    A
    So there is an upside to it. IOWs you got a lot of attention here,
    your making people laugh.

    HS
    I'm sorry! I'm not faking it.

    A
    There is not a reason in the world for you to feel sorry.
    You have done nothing wrong, you are not in a wrong place.
    There is not a possibility of anyone getting in this chair who is faking it.
    Were smarter than that.

    So, what you are demonstrating is an exaggerated version
    of what everybody in this room feels some times!
    And that's why YOU are the spokesman for THIS conversation.

    SO, here's some upstream/downstream questions:
    I would rather feel engaged or unengaged?

    HS: Engaged.

    A: If engagement is upstream, I still would choose it over unengaged?
    HS doesn't reply.

    I would rather be engaged and negative, than unengaged and positive?
    -Stay with it for just a little, because the answer to that is YES,
    but we want you to think about WHY.

    There's momentum in that negative engagement!
    And momentum, you have, and a lot of people DO believe,
    that momentum is where the POWER IS.
    You believe, that you would rather be doing SOMETHING than NOTHING.
    Esther did it, too!

    Instead of sitting and centering, and doing a focus wheel,
    and reminding herself that things are always working out for her.
    Instead of taking the time to do that, she flew out the door,
    like a streak, and went down and presented her problem,
    with such forcefulness. IOWs she did it, TOO.

    Everyone does it every now and again.
    But the Question is- what is it about that.
    Because even Esther says "I gotta do something rather than nothing"
    And we say EEEWWK!!

    Something rather than nothing; why is that. WHY IS something
    RATHER than NOTHING, a DEFAULT position for so many of you?


    Because you have evaluated your SUCESS and your VALUE
    through the EYES of OTHERS, who are trying to get you to be CONDITIONAL
    and ACTION orientated, rather than ALIGNED and ENERGY ORIENTATED.

    So, there isn't anything WRONG with any of that!
    Except that NOW, your Guidance is showing you, that all of your life,
    this habit and things that you thought were the keys to success,
    NOW are NOT the Path of LEAST Resistance.
    So you are UPENDED.

    Don't feel bad, we do that to virtually everyone who enters this room.
    Because the things that you were doing when you didn't know about LOA,
    often are not in alignment with what you will do AFTER you know.

    IOWS, understanding your point of attraction, CHANGES EVERYTHING.
    Understanding why you have emotions, changes everything.
    Understanding who you really are, and what you really want, changes everything.
    Understanding what downstream IS, changes everything!

    But, it takes some TIME to allow it to change, and for sure,
    for sure, for sure, for sure, you WILL NOT make the change
    while you are choosing to be hard on yourself.
    You just cant beat up on yourself.
    We cant break through that.

    We cant love you enough to get through your screen of being mad at yourself.
    So, you gotta just decide to give some of that up!
    You gotta begin saying things, like we were wanting our counselor- friend
    to do with his team members that he was talking about,
    we want you to be able to say:

    "I am where I am and where I am is alright."

    And in the same way, when Esther got that colour swatch home,
    and she laid it across her clothes, the clothes that she wore
    were all in alignment, and the clothes that she never wanted to put on,
    were the ones that were out of alignment.
    IOWs you intuitively KNOW.

    And so, you've come into alignment, you've activated your guidance.
    Things you USED to get away with, you CANT get away with ANYMORE.
    Because you know too much, you cant go back.

    Its working for you, your not failing.
    Your coming into alignment with Who You Are.
    We used to say people almost every seminar, in the beginning,
    that the thing that people would most often say to us is
    "That is it normal for all hell to break loose in my life when I begin doing this work?"

    And the answer is YES,
    because the things that you used to do out of determination and HABIT,
    the ACTION ORIENTATED things, DONT WORK
    in this VIBRATIONAL BASED, LAW OF ATTRACTION,
    and UNDERSTANDING WHAT YOUR GUIDANCE IS TELLING YOU, WORLD.

    ITS a DIFFERENT ORIENTATION, and you have got to make the jump.
    And there isn't anything in the world wrong with negative emotion,
    we want negative emotion to be a GOOD THING.

    If the stove is hot we don't want you to IGNORE it, and touch the hot stove.
    That's not good for you.
    And we don't want you to ENDURE long standing negative emotion,
    because that's not good for you either.

    But we don't want you to beat up on yourself
    for having negative emotion,
    because that's like THROWING YOURSELF ON THE STOVE!
    That is exaggerating it you see, and that's what true drama is.

    DRAMA IS, here's a good definition for you.
    DRAMA IS, deliberately or in-deliberately, purposefully or by default,
    CHOOSING a vibration that is not in alignment with the way Source SEES IT.
    And HOLDING myself THERE, until it gets bigger and bigger and bigger
    and bigger and bigger and bigger.

    Drama is trying to fix things with ACTION,
    rather than at the EARLY stages
    through vibrational shifting.

    Drama is a pattern of behavior.
    Drama is the umbrella-result,
    of being insensitive in the early stages to your emotions.


    Asheville, April 2015

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    We would never move forward in the face of negative emotion.
    There are many people who would teach you otherwise.
    They say, you've got to face fear to get over it.

    And all they do is desensitize themselves to the point
    that they get themselves into situations
    where they have no idea what's going on,
    and the end of them comes rather abruptly...
    And then everyone calls them brave.

    Abe

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    about our TRUE power.


    "The power of your mind
    is the power that matters.

    And all the other stuff you do,
    is just for the pleasure of enhancing
    what you´ve really done with your MIND.

    And all the real power is the FOCUS.
    And for you, to call that "nothing" could not be further from accurate."

    from the clip
    Gaining money without working - Abraham Hicks

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    "What wall??"

    Guest:
    Well, you probably already know what I’m about to tell you,
    or at least something about it. And I’m really happy to say,
    after a lot of work and a lot of soul searching,
    I finally climbed the wall.


    And got to the point where it’s working, in a glorious way.
    And to do that, I had to make a major paradigm shift in my life
    and in my thinking.
    And I had to come here and tell you what that change of attitude was,
    because it was the crux of my problem.


    Abe:
    Before you go further, do you think you climbed a wall?

    Or, do you think YOU JUST FIGURED OUT HOW
    TO LET THE WALL JUST NOT BE THERE?

    (laughter
    )
    2-9-02

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