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    So wonderful. Such wonderful clarity.
    Thank you Paradise.

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    That is a good one!! My friends are all on this decluttering kick and I'm saying "I'm good!!" I don't need a system, I've got clarity and alignment, it works for me!!

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    songbird and Lesley thanks for sharing! I needed it, too! SUCH relief...
    Life is supposed to be FUN!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by WellBean View Post
    That is a good one!! My friends are all on this decluttering kick and I'm saying "I'm good!!" I don't need a system, I've got clarity and alignment, it works for me!!


    Itīs not the stuff, not even the getting rid of the stuff!! Itīs alllll about your own alignment- no matter if others "get it".

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    Yes, we are "de cluttering" our minds and hearts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by paradise-on-earth View Post


    Itīs not the stuff, not even the getting rid of the stuff!!

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    Itīs DONE!!!

    "Abraham, that doesn't make sense. You mean,
    I'm not supposed to do anything?
    I'm not supposed to better myself?
    I'm not supposed to change the world?
    I'm not supposed to fix things?
    I'm not supposed to improve?"


    You're not "supposed to." You just can't help that.
    -IOW, there's this inevitable, natural expansion.

    But what you could do is stop doing that stuff that you do
    that prevents the natural Well-Being from flowing to the worthiness that is you.
    Don't you feel different now? [to HS] Don't you feel different now?
    We want you to feel different now. 'Cuz it's all right. It's all right. [Big applause]

    You are accustomed to justifying your existence through behaviour-
    and this conversation that we just had was uncomfortable for you,
    because sometimes you don't feel safe or trusting
    in just sitting and being a PoA of Well-Being.

    But you gotta get there.

    We want you to trust that Well-Being is yours.
    That's who you are.


    --Abraham, Canary Islands Cruise, October 2014

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    Delegate it to the manager (the nonphysical helpers).
    You have this really good staff that will take care
    of everything for you. You just have to delegate it —
    and trust it.



    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: St. Louis, MO on July 18, 2000

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    Slow Transition and Pros and Cons


    Hot Seat:
    My mom is making a slow transition.
    I’m enjoying the process, but I get in that space like,
    “Should I be doing something? What are you waiting for?
    You’re free to go.”

    I love that she’s here, and I know that she’ll probably
    be messing with me after she leaves anyway…
    when people take that long to make the leap.

    Abraham:
    When you think about it,
    most people started that a long time ago,
    because most people have one foot in both worlds so to speak.
    Most people are not purposefully definitive about anything.

    So most people are offering split vibration about everything.

    And so the more decisive you are about anything,
    the more clarity there is and the more speed there is you see.
    It’s like: Should I go? No. Should I go? No.

    And for most the reason that they linger,
    even when they’re no longer actively engaged
    is because they have fear of the unknown.
    And everything that happens to everyone
    is a perfect response to the vibration that they are offering.
    Of course, you know that,
    but it’s the answer that we have to give first.

    Whatever anybody is living is a perfect manifestational response
    to the vibration that they are offering, no exceptions…

    We know the delight you will take
    when you become more purposeful about the vibrations
    that you are offering.
    Being decisive is such a wonderful thing.
    And being decisive meaning,
    don’t you know the feeling of trying to make a decision?

    Esther was trying to make a decision about something the other day.
    And it was a decision that sort of needed to be made
    and she knew that she hadn’t done the vibrational work.
    And so the impulse wasn’t coming.
    And someone was pushing her for a decision.

    And so she was weighing the pros and cons of it.
    Like the old way of thinking -
    a hundred-years-ago kind of thinking that she was thinking.

    So she took her notebook and wrote pros and cons
    and her brain froze!
    She could not perform that function
    because she’s left it so far behind.
    Because the pro and con game
    is the deliberate game of splitting energy.

    What you want to do is find the pro and line up with it.

    Relative to the subject of making transition.
    If a person isn’t practiced about being decisive,
    they’re not going to be decisive then!

    Hot Seat: That totally fits…

    Abraham:
    We’re talking about all of you.
    Until you really accept the eternalness which we all are
    and the never-leaving-ness-ness-ness-ness that we’re talking about,
    then this conversation has that nostalgic, uncomfortable feeling.

    But when you understand that everything is working out,
    and everything is perfect, and it’s all alright.
    And we don’t want you to feel guilty when you eat a cookie.
    We don’t want you to feel guilty about anything.
    We want you to look for the things that feel good
    and focus as much as you can about them
    and accept the perfection of all things
    and dovetail as best you can in the harmony that we know
    that you are always reaching for.

    And trust that the unfolding is perfect,
    regardless of what it is.


    It’s perfect as it is, and there is nothing
    that you should be doing differently about it
    except accepting the perfection of what is.

    And when you apply that to everything,
    please apply that to everything!
    -When you apply that to everything,
    where you stand in relationship with everything you want,
    is just right.

    And if you could accept that it’s just right.
    It’s happening just as you are vibrationally allowing it.
    And you, accepting that it’s just right, causes you
    to vibrationally allow it even more.
    Can you feel how that works?

    Really good.


    Albuquerque, March 2014

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    Life is not supposed to be boring!

    Everytime you come back into consciousness [after sleep]
    you have the new fresh slate, the new ability
    to push the reset button and find a vibration that feels good to you.

    And it is our promise to you,
    if you will find it and consciously acknowledge that you have found it
    and focus upon it with the deliberate intent of continuing to feel the feeling,
    the momentum of it will increase
    until you will not be living a boring life.

    We want you to go back, back, back into no resistance,
    no resistance, no resistance, knowing that Law of Attraction
    will then pick up the pace until there will be momentum
    that will lead you, or everything that you want -
    directly to you.

    You are supposed to be living
    the manifestations that you want.

    … [Your vortex] It must continue to grow.
    It is illogical, it is wrong for you to have put things into your vortex
    that aren’t being allowed by you,
    to come to your realization, actualization.

    That’s the thing that is causing you all of your stress.
    100% of your negative emotion exists,
    because you have created a reality
    that you are blocking yourself from.

    It’s not because someone else is preventing it
    and it’s not because you’ve done something wrong,
    and it’s not because of this condition or this condition or this condition.
    The only reason that you feel any negative emotion at all, is
    because you are expanded beyond what you are
    right now willing to allow.

    And the thing that is so interesting about that is
    that the reason you are disallowing all that you want
    to manifest into full realization,
    is because you are not willing to feel good! -Enough.

    You aren’t willing to feel good.

    Oh, no. I shouldn’t feel good over that.
    that lady is sick and that person doesn’t have enough money.
    Oh, there’s this going on and it’s just not normal,
    it’s just not normal.
    People would think I was nuts if they knew.
    I’m just happy, happy, happy all the time-
    with all this stuff going on.

    And we say, “Gotta give up what anybody else thinks.
    And you gotta care about how you feel.
    And then watch the momentum of your life, pinpoint accurately
    for you the perfection, the brilliance, the worthiness,
    the blessedness of who you are.

    And Esther did not know that a month ago,
    like she knows it now.
    Because she had not had the benefit of a magnificent manifestation
    punctuating her point of attraction.

    She didn’t even know she had that point of attraction going.
    Oh, she was happy and she knew she was feeling good,
    she was feeling good a lot and on purpose.

    She just didn’t know what feeling good like that
    for a consistent period of time would yield to her, you see.
    But when it yielded, then she thought,
    “Oh, oh, I recognize that. I recognize that.
    I held myself in happiness during the gestation period.”

    That’s all youīve gotta do.

    Boston, Oct 2013

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