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    Quotes about being lonely


    When you feel Lonely,
    it's not because there are not other like-minded people for you to play with.
    It's because
    you have separated yourself from Who-You-Really-Are.

    You're lonely for your own connection.
    If you're ever lonely, it's for your own connection.
    It's not for other people.




    Seattle, August 2013


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    No crowd on the leading edge?



    Hot Seat:
    I feel in some ways like I’ve raised my vibration so high,
    that sometimes I feel like, “Oh, shit. I’m the only person here.”
    Lonely at the top kind of thing.

    Abraham:
    But here’s the thing. That intellectually sounded pretty good.
    However, these are the flaws in it.
    When you are really in alignment, you are blended with the whole of who you are,
    and that is the opposite of lonely. That’s full!

    So if you are feeling a moment of detachment or loneliness from others,
    it’s not because you’ve achieved a high vibration,
    and there’s nobody else there with you.
    It’s because you have been high, you know what that feels like,
    and now you’re not.

    And what you’re lonely for, is your alignment.

    Every time. Every single time……. Esther says, “I’m a vibrational snob."
    Meaning, that once you have felt the fullness
    of all of you being present in the moment,
    nothing else will do.


    But your loneliness is not about, you see,
    you never did want to fill that void with other people.
    That is truly looking for love in all the wrong places.
    That’s looking for alignment in all the wrong places.

    When you find alignment, you’re happy by yourself.
    When you find alignment, you’re happy when you are with others.
    When you find alignment, there’s an unconditional happiness.

    You don’t need people to behave or perform in any certain way
    in order for you to feel good.
    You just feel good- because that’s what you’ve practiced yourself into, you see.

    So if you are still feeling some loneliness, that’s all right.
    It just means you’re still working the kinks out
    of this steady alignment thing… Nothing is worth any struggle.
    If there is struggle involved, there’s resistance involved.
    Do something different!

    When you have found alignment with Source,
    when you have found the perfection
    of personal blending with who you are,
    looking for it in a conversation with a friend is going back.

    Trying to find somebody that gets you, is going back-
    because it’s not their job to get you.
    It’s their job to get them.
    And almost always, it’s looking for a little validation.
    Let’s talk and let’s revel. Oh, that is delicious!
    We know what you are talking about.

    When you’re tuned in, tapped in and turned on, and you are visiting
    with somebody else who’s tuned in, tapped in, and turned on,
    that’s what happens in these gatherings.
    You come, you get more and more in alignment
    and the group consensus gets higher and higher-
    and wonderful things happen.

    We’re not trying to talk you into being alone.
    We just want you to understand that you don’t need to be
    with anyone else to have full alignment.
    And in full alignment, others who have full alignment will join you.

    So here’s what’s happening to you.
    You found that alignment so often that you recognize it,
    you know it when you see it.
    And now, you are sort of manually trying to manipulate
    your relationships into flying around with high flyers.

    Hot Seat: Yeah.

    Abraham:
    But you can’t do it that way. You gotta fly high-
    and let Law of Attraction bring you the high flyers.

    Hot Seat: Yeah!

    Abraham:
    You don’t want to try to micromanage.
    Because if you try to do it, now you’ve got this,
    “May I please have your resume?” My what?
    “Your vibrational resume. Just complete these questions.
    Choose A, B, C or D. I’m usually happy. I’m usually ornery.
    I care a lot about what you think.
    I don’t give a rip about what you think.
    Just fill in the ones that apply to you.”

    And then you go through this long list, until you drive yourself crazy.
    And you find no one who’s a perfect vibrational match to you.
    Because everybody’s got some freaky thing about them,
    that’s going to make you nuts.



    Atlanta, November 2014

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    Feeling excluded


    "That feeling of being excluded, always...
    you think youve been left out of that party, over there.
    Thats not what it is!
    Your leaving YOURSELF out of your own party!

    The ONLY thing that makes you feel like a victim, or feel vulnerable,
    or feel misunderstood, or feel not appreciated,
    or feel not brought into it, is:
    Your not allowing yourself alignment, with who you really are!

    When your in alignment with who you really are-
    your invincible! Your hardy!
    YOU are the one, thats saving the bear, then, you see!

    (...) No one can exclude you from anything.
    But you can choose thoughts that exclude you,
    from your stream, or your power."


    from the clip
    Abraham Explains That If It Feels Good, It's Always Right!

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    HS:
    "Why cant I be myself in front of other people?"

    Abe:
    "The answer is- because you have allowed yourself
    to be the way THEY need you to be,
    so that they can feel better.
    And that is more important to you,
    than feeling the way YOU need to feel,
    in order for you to fill up with the alignment, that is really you."


    Denver Aug. 2014



    You will never feel free,
    until you are free of trying to control the way
    others feel about you.

    Denver Aug. 2014

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    You will never find yourself in a point in time
    when the subject of relationships is not an active part
    of your now experience, for everything you perceive or notice or know
    is because of your relationship with something else.

    Without a comparative experience, you would be unable
    to perceive or focus any kind of understanding within yourself.

    Therefore, it is accurate to say
    that without relationships you could not exist at all.


    ---Abraham

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    "You really do want the universe to match you up
    with people who are in alignment with your intentions.

    And what goes wrong in this relationship-thing is,
    that you’ve never really allowed yourself
    to think and believe and be
    the way you think you want to be.

    You’ve got mixed energy all over the place
    about that subject, you see."


    Atlanta, Oct. 2011

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    I love the feeling of loving you.
    And how you feel about me is irrelevant.
    I love the feeling of loving you!


    Abe



    You do not need the others to comply!


    HS describes that she has a wonderful vibrational relationship with a lover, without him, knowing about it.

    Abe:
    Yes, because its what your flowing!
    Not necessarily whats flowing back.

    HS:
    Yes! For so many years, I kept flowing appreciation to this person,
    I dont wanna stop!
    It felt so good, just to be in appreciation for them!
    Im wondering if Im on the right track, just knowing,
    that I have a version of them, that I can appreciate!

    Abe:
    You are! And the thing that is SO refreshing about this conversation,
    is that we feel that your not saying: "And is that gonna result in
    something tangible?"

    You have discovered the Essence,
    and the Power of focusing in love,
    and in appreciation.
    And you are feeling the profound benefit,
    that it is offering to you.

    And just remember, that your point of attraction
    is established by what you broadcast.
    And so, that broadcasting of that,
    causes a point of attraction,
    that will bring back to you, when you are ready
    and if you are wanting,
    all of the manifestation which is equal to this,
    which you are broadcasting.

    HS:
    That feels really good!

    Abe:
    It does, doesnt it!
    You see, you are one of the FEW conversations,
    that we have ever experienced,
    where you actually HAVE your priorities in the right place!
    There was no ulterior motive:
    "allright, Ill be happy IF it will bring me what I want."

    Because you realized, that the being happy IS what you want.

    HS:
    Yes! I LOVE being happy. And I LOVE being in a state of appreciation!
    And I LOVE that Im in charge of that!

    Abe:
    Yah. So natural to you. Yes! Really good!


    Alaskan Cruise, July 2015


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    In other words, do you know how many men would flock to you …
    if they knew that you would allow them to be as they are...?

    Abe

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    What if they dont want what I want?


    When we say,
    THERE IS NOTHING
    THAT YOU CANNOT BE OR DO OR HAVE,

    were not kidding you, not even a little bit!
    Because the power of focus is everything.

    But what happens is you complicate it by saying:
    But there are other people who are the creator of their reality
    and what if they don‘t want me to be in their reality?
    What if I want them to be in my reality, but they don‘t want me ...
    in other words -what if I want it,
    but they dont want it? Who wins?

    And we say:
    "Its not a matter of any sort of competition.
    Its a matter of YOU, achieving vibrational alignment
    with what you want
    - and the universe will deliver it to you,
    somehow- some way.
    (snip)

    We, in the past, have qualified this kind of conversation by saying
    that if you focus upon the essence of what you want,
    and you dont get bogged down in the details, that as the details fill in,
    they will be more pleasing to you even in the details,
    that you originally thought that you where reaching for.

    But that is unsatisfying to most people.

    Because, they think that this is our run-around.
    They think, that is our way of just appeasing you,
    and saying you‘re NOT really gonna get what you want,
    but you‘re gonna get something that youll like pretty good
    - so just "go after something that you like pretty good, and that will come"
    but thats not what were saying, either!

    We are saying to you,
    that- WHATEVER IT IS! -
    that you focus upon, MUST COME TO YOU -unless you contradict it,
    with your own, contradictory focus.

    End of story."


    - Abraham Hicks.

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    See, you are not walking around and
    are feeling less than love.
    You walk around and are thinking thoughts,
    that GIVE you the feeling of less than love!

    Orlando, March 2013



    If nothing is more important to you than that you feel good,
    you can form a fantasy about someone who is in your life

    and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy,
    because Law of Attraction
    is a very powerful thing.

    Abraham

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