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    Staying or leaving?


    HS is pondering whether he should leave his current relationship.

    Abe:
    It’s so much better to stay right where you are,
    and do what you’re really reaching for,
    which is connecting to the true love that is you,
    so that the true love that is you
    can be present in the car, in the house, in the bed, in the family, in the life.



    Atlanta (Oct. 2011)

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    Thank you skylark!


    When to act?

    Action is the natural—consequence isn’t the best word—
    but it’s the natural result of momentum.

    So you could be in the receptive mode of unwanted things,
    like feeling vulnerable or feeling sorry for yourself
    or just having had an experience that wasn’t pleasant.
    So you could be in the receptive mode from that vibrational place.
    And if you spend enough time there,
    there’s going to be enough momentum that you’re going to be
    inspired to some action.

    In the same way, if you are tuned in, turned in, tapped on,
    and you’re feeling really good, and you stay there long enough,
    momentum will increase,
    and there will be action that will be inspired.

    So the action is the natural result of momentum.
    The question is what was I in the receiving mode of?
    (...) We just want you to be a little more mindful,
    of what vibration you had started that led to the action.

    So we would not say it’s... what’s the difference between
    allowing or action; we would say,
    what is the importance of knowing when to act.

    And if you’re not feeling good, withdraw. Don’t act.


    ~ Abraham-Hicks, San Francisco, February 13, 2016




    Here is a whole quote-collection about inspired action:
    I love ACTION!

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    EGS is put together by me, based on Abeīs teachings...



    How ACTION translates, depending on where you are on the EGS


    You closed the gap. You have the "full leverage of the Universe". You can do the "impossible".
    Your actions are manifested joy, love and beauty.
    = Joy/Knowledge/Empowerment/Freedom/Love/Appreciation/Peace

    "Wild horses couldnīt hold you back to act!" You are passionatly in love for/with this actions.
    (Work with this. Plan, invent, research and design around it! Go into as many specifics as you are drawn to. Extreme sweetzone!)
    = Passion

    Your actions feel secure, joyful and stable. You "soar", you feel powerful and skilled.
    (Explore and act in this highly inspired specifics/details. Do it, talk about it, share it, write about it- milk it!)

    = Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness

    You are starting to really feel inspired to act. What you want to do feels possible, fun, easy and close.
    (go into specifics/details and explore/act in them as long as it feels good. Milk even more!)

    = Positive Expectation/Belief

    You get more and more glimpses of inspiration. Ideas, possibilitys and invitations flow to you. Trust them, give in as long as it feels good, play with them in an easy way!
    (Donīt force yourself anywhere. Stay somehow general. Recognize and milk- more inspiration will come, soon!)

    = Optimism

    Entry into Inspired Action
    (=the the Vortex)


    Sometimes, you feel "inspirational glimpses" of really WANTING to do some things. "Wouldnīt it be nice...?"
    (donīt rush into big action! Just play. Set grids of ease. Make yourself comfortable in just surrendering into the Vortex. Milk what you enjoy.)
    = Hope

    You are on the turning point. Action isnīt very calling, yet. Lean deliberatly towards what you want!
    (Look out for inspiration, interesting stuff, fun. Make grids about fun, joy. Look for the wanted side in work and actions.)
    = Contentment

    You are tired. No action calls you- neither through inspiration nore through motivation.
    (Donīt beat up on you! Delay, if possible.
    Soothe yourself with really staying general until you feel inspired again. Pet your cat. Watch a funny movie!)

    = Boredom, Tirednes

    You are inspired (!) to not do anything, but to delay. You donīt want "to go there any longer": GOOD!
    (go general: diffuse your focus, if possible: Delay what bothers you. If you can bear it, look at the wanted, but stay very general in it.)

    = Pessimism, Tirednes

    You arenīt inspired, and you hardly can feel motivation. What you "want to do" comes from a sad place of feeling lack, and from focus on unwanted.
    (Donīt do visualisations or affirmations from here. Donīt take action. GO GENERAL: Chill out, take a nap, just reach for ease, relaxation and flow.)
    = Frustration/Impatience/Irritation, Overwhelment

    The action you want to take maybe mislead already in a significant way. You donīt see the truth anymore!
    (Donīt look at "it" in this way! Donīt make decisions, donīt act, GO GENERAL!
    Dont go further into the unwanted details. Look for what you really want!)

    = Disappointment, Doubt

    You feel motivated to act, but in a lackful, not at all lined up way. You maybe want to act out negative impulses to feel some relief.
    (Donīt focus this way!
    Donīt make decisions, donīt take action. "Take back the thoughts!" (Abe)
    Go general big time-
    diffuse, look into any other direction, pick another subject!)
    = Worry, Blame, Discouragement

    You are highly motivated to take harsh, painful actions that include high risks of danger and destruction.
    (
    Donīt bear the danger in taking action/making decisions from here! "Take back the fists!" (Abe)
    Go general fast and deeply, diffuse, distract, look into any other direction, pick any other subject)

    = Anger, Revenge, Hatred/Rage

    All action that seems possible is annoying, destructive and painful in one way or another.
    (Donīt focus or even act this way at all, your IB does not agree in any way!
    Diffuse, distract, look into any other direction, pick any another subject, go much more general!)

    = Jealousy, Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness

    You donīt even feel motivated to act anymore. No action feels "right" or even possible.

    (No action IS right, from here! Donīt focus this way at all. Back off from doing things that scare you, get help instead!!!
    Diffuse/distract completely from the issue, let go, take a long nap, look into any other direction, pick any another subject, go much more general!)

    = Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

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    LoA is working powerful with you, right now.

    Because- you are intense in the questions that you are asking.
    You really, really, really, really REALLY want to know this.

    And all of us really really really really REALLY want you to understand this!
    Offering you impulses-
    and as you feel US, along with the impulse-
    it will feel interesting.
    It will feel exhilarating. It will feel exciting.

    Reach for those feelings!
    And if youīr not feeling any of those feelings-
    than DONīT DO IT!!!



    Dallas 4-28-12

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    The only problem with leaving and going someplace,
    is that you take yourself with you.
    You take your vibrational habits and patterns with you.


    Abe

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    Unconditional Love


    ...be that for (them) what you would like to be someone for you.
    But there is nobody for you, being that.
    But you donīt soak over it- you be that for them.
    You compliment them.
    You stroke them, you appreciate them.

    Even so itīs not coming from higher up, it starts with YOU!

    And so, your team feels good about their work.
    Even you donīt let on to them that nobody upstream is appreciating them,
    you just appreciate them so much
    that nobody CARES that no one upstream appreciates them.

    Until all, around you, are people being appreciated,
    they are feeling good,
    if anybody says something negative about your team,
    you never relay it,
    iow, you are never the bearer of bad news,
    you always synthesize and edit everything what comes to you
    and youīr ONLY delivering it to that people who are listening to you,
    in the way that you know will uplift them most.

    So, YES, theyīr not told the whole picture.
    They only get a very skewed picture of how things go-
    but they are HAPPIER in their work. They are producing more in their work.
    They are TITITO. They feel better in their work.

    And then, suddenly, your world becomes ALL ABOUT THAT!
    You donīt worry about whatīs upstream, either.
    Iow, you can turn the world around, where you are.

    Or you can use it as a catalyst that you want something else,
    and use your visualization to take you somewhere else.

    Itīs like ANY relationship, you can transform the one youīve got
    to something that feels better- or you can go to another one.

    BUT BEFORE YOU CAN DO EITHER OF THOSE THINGS-
    you have to go into a happy place.
    And it usually means- you have to use your imagination.


    Abe, Houston, 01/31/01

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    Why would you do anything other than LOVE?


    HS talking about contrast in relationship, not sure they should continue to be together or let go.


    ABRAHAM:
    "Are there still things about this girl that you appreciate easily?"

    HS:
    Yes!

    ABRAHAM:
    "And why would you choose anything else to focus upon?"

    SanAntonio, April 2013

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    This glorious, helpful rascal will stick WITH you, until you get it!


    Abraham:
    So what you want to say is,
    "I am not getting good stuff out of you,
    but its me thats not getting good stuff out of you.
    Its not you that needs to change,
    its my perspective that needs to change."

    And this glorious person is sticking with you
    till you get that, you see.
    Don't you love that?


    Because if you where gone to another new person,
    you'll be dissuaded for a while.
    You'll find other things, other conditional things that will satisfy you
    for a while
    -and you'll miss what this relationship is about.

    What this relationship about:
    Ahhh! Its how I got to know me.
    This relationship caused me to fall in love with myself,
    because she wouldn't.

    She did and she does and she is and she isn't.
    But she is not stable in that. Isn't that a lovely thing?

    HS: Yeah...

    Abraham: Yeah! It's a lovely thing.
    How long have you been together?
    Eternally!
    How long do you plan to be together?
    Eternally!
    What do you see in each other?
    Myself!


    -Abe

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    Where do YOU focus?


    Relationships have ups and downs.
    You have things you agree on and things you don’t agree on,
    but if you care about how you feel, you must see your partner
    through the eyes of Source.

    And if you consistently see your partner through the eyes of Source,
    then you consistently use your partner as an excuse to line up
    with Source Energy...
    And when you consistently use someone
    as your excuse to line up with Source Energy,
    you’re going to have a really good relationship
    with that person.


    And when you consistently use that person as your excuse
    not to line up with Source Energy, you’re going to come to resent them.
    You’re going to come to wish that you weren’t together, you see.
    The person -and we mean this in the nicest way-
    is irrelevant.
    You’re just using them as your excuse
    to line up or not line up.

    And when someone has the very delicious good fortune
    of being your object of attention and your deliberate reason to line up,
    oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, are you all in for a glorious, delicious ride!


    Abraham, Atlanta, 2008

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    WHOM YOU ADORE, ADORES YOU BACK.


    "You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations.
    In other words, you don't feel any way about anyone
    without their helping you to feel that way.
    It's really co-creation.

    We'll even go further, and bolder, and louder, and blunter.
    If there's somebody you don't like, they don't like you either !

    We have never seen it otherwise.
    We have never one time, ever, known someone
    to adore someone...
    that the one that they were adoring,
    didn't adore them back !

    Now, some are thinking... 'Oh, wait a minute.
    There was that man that I loved with all my heart and he didn't love me back.'
    And we say, you were offering him insecurity.
    You were offering him worry. It wasn't that pure vibration of love.

    When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on -
    when you are connected to your Source
    and holding someone as your object of attention
    and you are genuinely offering
    that feeling of love and appreciation
    -they can't offer you anything else!"

    -Abraham

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