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    Questioner asks about immediate sexual bonding.


    Abe:
    The sexual bond/desire is a very big one,
    it is innate within you.

    IOW you were born with this powerful desire
    to continue to evolve.
    That sexual desire is right up there,
    with the desire for water or food.
    It is a very inherent desire from within.

    -We think that what happens sometimes is,
    that the individual has an incomplete awareness
    of what they are wanting or allowing.
    And by that we mean the sexual desire is a very strong one;
    something that they think about a lot, something that they like,
    so something that they do let in.

    But often they are not considering the other things
    that they desire as well.
    And so they let the sexual in, before they’ve even identified what they want.
    It’s sort of like finding out that the house
    doesn’t have enough closets after you’ve moved into the house.


    Questioner:
    But in the moment it does feel good,
    so shouldn’t it be something that they should do?


    Abe:
    If someone is having a sexual relationship with another
    and they are singularly focussed upon how good the sex is,
    so that they are not offering resistance,
    then through this relationship all of the things
    hat they have ever said that they want
    could be allowed.

    But they usually don’t do that.

    They usually focus on how good the sex is while the sex is happening,
    and then they focus on how burnt the eggs are when the eggs are burnt,
    or how unmade the bed is, or how unpleasant the conversation is
    or what’s wrong with your family.
    IOW they focus on all the other aspects.

    And so if there are a lot of other aspects that are focal points,
    that cause resistance then the relationship is not a stable relationship.

    You could be with someone who has 1, by your standard, really positive aspect,
    in this case let’s say it’s the sexual aspect,
    and 9 aspects that are really not to your liking.
    And if you were singularly focussed on the 1 aspect you liked,
    so that relative to this relationship,
    you are for the most part connected to source energy,
    you would illicit from that other only things that were pleasing to you.

    OTOH you could have a partner who has 9 things that you really like,
    sex being one of them and 1 thing that makes you nutty.
    And as you focus on that 1 thing that makes you nutty,
    you will destroy the relationship.

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    Sex is one of those impulses that comes forth
    from within, that cannot be denied.
    You can squelch it and contour it and regulate it,
    but it's an impulse that continues to come forth,
    sometimes more than others,
    but it continues to come forth.


    Abe

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    Our Spiritual Connection Isn't Diminished by Our Having Sex...
    Being physical does not separate you from Source,
    and having sex does not diminish your Spiritual connection.

    It is pushing against unwanted,
    and learning patterns of Vibration
    that are different from the Vibration of Source,
    that disconnects you from Source.

    There is nothing more Spiritual
    than to allow the true spirit that is you
    to flow through you into your physical life.
    The absence of Spirituality is not about the subject or the activity.

    It is about the Vibrational choices that you are making.


    --- AbrahamExcerpted from the book
    The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships.

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    Guest:
    So I came up here to talk about pleasure and sex. [Audience: yeah!]
    Because it has been resonating through every night
    we've been up at the Crow's Nest—[disco bar] "crowing."
    And it's just been great fun, and I'm seeing all this energy happening,
    and I've not heard you talk about that on the DVD's,
    so I wanted to get your thoughts about it.

    Abraham:
    Related to what? It's a big topic.

    Guest:
    It is. [laughs]
    Relating to relationships, and in congruencies of beliefs—
    so, as we become freer and freer, how does sex play into our lives?
    As we get more into alignment.

    Abraham:
    The most important thing to remember is
    that it never works to try to—in an action, sense,
    sort out all of the possibilities and define right behavior and wrong behavior.

    And that's mostly what people attempt to do around the subject.
    Instead, from the life experience that you have lived, define as best you can,
    what you want,
    and then become a vibrational match to what you want,
    and you will attract into your experience those who want that same thing.

    For example, let's take the subject of wanting one life partner
    or wanting many sexual partners.
    Very different stances relative to the subject of sexuality.

    So let's say you are someone who has defined through what you've lived
    and the relationships that you've watched unfold,
    and through your own experience,
    you now are looking for A person that you can be involved with completely.
    And make, at least from where you are standing now, your life partner.

    And you want to be true to that person in the sense that you will only be with that person,
    and you want that person to be true to you in that same sense.
    So, that's what you've decided, those are the thoughts you think;
    you don't give attention to other thoughts; that becomes your vibration;
    it's what's in your vibrational escrow; Source calls you toward it;
    you follow the impulse; you meet up with that person,
    you recognize one another,
    because that's the way you intended it to be, and you live Happily Ever After.

    But let's say, that while you want all of that,
    and while you believe it is possible,
    that you have been listening to what others are doing,
    and you do remember experiences that you've had,
    and you have experienced betrayal of people that you thought would be true to you,
    and so, even though that IS what you want,
    that's not the drum that you often beat.

    And so, you have something you don't want active in your vibration.
    So what you do want is over here---but what's active in your vibration is over here,
    in fact it's more dominant,
    so the people you keep attracting to you are the exact opposite
    of what you really want.

    Guest:
    Um-hum.

    Abraham:
    And you lose faith in humanity; you lose faith in your ability
    to get what you want; you begin saying things like,
    "The kind of person I want is no longer out there."
    When it isn't that the person isn't out there,
    it's that you're not a vibrational match to your own intention.

    So, there is not a right or a wrong way to approach this or anything.
    Your life has helped you define, from where you now stand,
    what you want, and it may be that you will intend it one way,
    and maybe live it that way for a while, and maybe change your mind.

    There is not one-right-right- way.

    But in order to have a satisfying experience,
    no matter what the topic of it is, you've got to be in alignment with --- You.

    So, again, we talked about this earlier----
    when you take the time to find vibrational alignment, then the action part of it comes easy.
    You get impulses, and as you follow the impulse, you end up at the right place at the right time,
    and life unfolds so easily.

    We were visiting with a woman recently—very recently—
    who said, "I am old."
    She basically said, "I am in my forties, [laughter from the audience].

    Guest: That's funny!

    Abraham:
    "… and I have just found the person that I want to spend my life with,
    and we only met 30 days ago, and we're engaged to be married, and our families are---
    especially my family-- very upset about this,
    because they think that I am moving too fast"

    And we said, "It wasn't really that fast. In your lifetime,
    you were identifying what you were wanting, and you have just now found
    a releasing of resistance, so you've allowed yourself to move to where what you want is."

    That's what relationships are about.
    Look at relationships as Law of Attraction and vibrational escrow
    and see the Love of Your Life in whatever form you want it to be, --there.
    [in vibrational escrow] with your Inner Being, and reach for Downstream Thoughts,
    and you'll go right there! And it doesn't take that long.

    You could have been looking for months or years or decades,
    and in the understanding of this Knowing, and in the releasing of resistance,
    and in no longer beating the drum of worrying about getting something that you don't want,
    you'll turn, and you'll find exactly what you DO want.

    Guest:
    Can we talk a little bit about self-pleasure, and how that plays into (no pun intended)
    the releasing of resistance, so to speak?

    Abraham:
    Well, it is as relevant or as irrelevant as you want to make it.
    In other words, there is nothing right or wrong about anything.
    The question that you want to ask yourself, relative to all subjects is,
    "During my action, am I having Downstream thoughts?"

    That's the only thing that you need to be aware of!

    And any time you are having Downstream thoughts,
    anything that is happening while you are having the Downstream thoughts
    is of advantage.

    But, so often, people try to use action to replace thought.
    And that is the thing that we are encouraging: Let your thought come first,
    and let whatever action is inspired, happen, but let the thought be thoughts of Alignment.
    And then there is always benefit.

    Guest:
    Have any of you experienced sex?

    Abraham:
    There is nothing that you experience that is positive in nature,
    that that which is nonphysical doesn't experience.
    In fact, even in meditation, sometimes people experience what they would call
    that sexual arousal or sensation.
    And that's what that is about.

    In fact, sexuality and alignment are not separate vibrations.
    But, again, you can take any subject and experience it
    from Upstream or Downstream. And you know the difference, you see.

    Guest:
    OK. Thank you.


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    Alignment is what makes you irresistible!


    Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with source,

    who actively seeks alignment with their broader perspective,
    who deliberately seeks and finds alignment with who-they-really-are,
    is more charismatic, more attractive, more effective, and more powerful
    than a group of millions
    who have not achieved this alignment.


    Abraham Hicks

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    PASSION
    "You only think you're looking for ease
    when you're overwhelmed.

    That's true of all of you.

    You're not looking for ease
    you're looking for something to be excited about
    and if you're not excited about it,
    it's not the right path.

    If it doesn't knock you over
    if it doesn't knock your socks off
    if it doesn't wow you
    if it doesn't make you wake up in the morning
    thinking about it

    then you're on the wrong path."


    Stamford, CT, 10/13/12

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    and more PASSION and ECSTASY


    "when youīv learned to manage your vibration,
    to sort of settle in for the sake of comfort of it...
    ...there is something SO MUCH BETTER than comfort.
    do you know what it is? EXHILARATION.

    But because comfort is much better than tension, there is a tendency
    to find a comfortable space and just sort of maintain that comfort.
    Which means, explore less contrast,
    because you wanna take fewer risks,
    because you donīt wanna go back to that uncomfortable place
    that you remember from before.

    So, our message is to you- you canīt go back.
    There is no going back.
    No worry about EVER going back to a less comfortable place.

    You are where you are, and moving FORWARDS,
    and there is so much MORE exhilarating experience ahead of you.
    And we donīt think that exploring contrast should even be categorized
    as risk-taking!


    Because, when you know who you are,
    when you know about the vibrational reality,
    when you know about your emotions (...)


    then THERE IS NO RISK, EVER!
    The potential for soaring in ecstasy
    is SO MUCH BIGGER AND BETTER!

    (...) here is our powerful message to you:
    Get into the Vortex,
    and then do everything you have time for."



    from the clip "Abraham Hicks ~ Are some stuck between physical and non-physical?"
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    "Itīs just
    triumphant, triumphant, triumphant!
    The orgasmic qualities
    of your life just build and build and build
    as you come together with the power
    and the creativity of the all-ness that is focussed with you,
    here and now.

    And THEN- your feeling of worthiness, your feeling of rightness,
    your feeling of goodness is just present all the time,
    and you just walk around

    radiating and glowing, and uplifting others-
    and finding those,
    who are a vibrational match!

    Abraham, Asheville 2011

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    YOU DONīT WANT IT TO END. The Joy is in the Journey!


    I so LOVE how Abe use such joyful ambiguidity to teach us what it is about...


    ON THE VERGE-NESS...
    On the verge-ness, on the verge-ness-
    is there anything better than that anticipation
    of something good, coming!?

    Now, now- stay with us! -You wanna say "Yeah, getting there!"
    But REALLY! If your always feeling that on-the verge-ness, on the verge-ness...
    friends, stuff has to get in!

    You canīt stay on the verge, without plenty of it, getting in.
    And plenty of it surprising you, and delighting you-
    and fulfilling you, and satisfying you-
    thatīs just the optimum place to be!

    On the verge of more good stuff. On the verge, now, now, now!
    On the verge, now, now, now- on the verge, now- something more....

    And EVERYTHING, EVERYWHERE YOU LOOK-
    there is something beautiful!
    There is something meaningful, there is someone
    saying something-
    EVERYWHERE YOU LOOK!

    There is not any place you could possibly look,
    when you got that on-the-vergeness-thing going on,
    that there isnīt a nugget. And another, and another, and another.
    Itīs just like grazing through that magnificent buffet.

    And you wanna make it last.

    You dont wanna eat it all at once.

    You just wanna nibble your way through!
    Because- you wanna stay there for hours, and hours and hours...

    and if you sit there and eat too much, being there wonīt be fun.
    So you wanna nibble. Just nibble.
    Here, and here, and here and here and here...

    And then, pretty soon- you get hold of something
    that you wanna go out with it,
    because itīs so good-
    you wanna eat more more more...

    Weīr talking about life, not food-
    but weīr talking about food- but you get the analogy...


    You wanna nibble your way through.
    On the verge of MORE.
    And when you feel on the verge... think of the emotional components of that-
    youīr on the verge-

    first: You KNOW itīs coming.
    And so, if youīr playing this right, there is no angst, about when it comes!
    Because, itīs coming!
    And when itīs coming- does it matter how long it takes to come?

    There are things that we KNOW that you want to hold off.
    You donīt want them to come.
    There are things that you like to stay on the verge of as long
    as you can hold yourself on the verge of them-
    do you know what weīr talking about?

    There are things that you donīt want to go over the top of too soon-
    you want to stay on the verge of them,
    Donīt you just love that delicious on-the-verge-feeling?

    (...) more, more, MORE. Thatīs the mantra of the Universe.
    And if you settle into this,
    EVERY moment is a delicious moment.
    Whether itīs a contented moment, or a passionate moment.

    They are ALL delicious moments.


    Orlando, March 2012.

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    Be Gods that play together...


    "When you align with source
    and someone else aligns with source,
    and you are playing together-
    you are source, playing together!"




    from the clip

    Abraham Hicks ~ Siblings and Twins



    As long as itīs fun- DO IT.

    Abe


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