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    "When someone has not found their own steadiness,
    what others are doing seems very important to them!
    "Donīt rock my boat!
    If you rock my boat, I canīt be steady."

    -When the truth of it is,
    you are the only boat-rocker in YOUR world."


    Abe, Phoenix Febr. 2014

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    We didn't say:
    when you feel good you are allowing good,
    and when you feel bad you are allowing bad
    -although it may translate into your experience in that way.

    There is only a Source of Well-being—
    which you are allowing or not.

    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: Ashland, OR on July 20, 2002

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    The Thoughts I Think Determine the Relationship I Attract

    You are the thinking, Vibrating attractor of your experience;
    and the thoughts you think determine everything about the life that you live.

    As you turn your attention toward the positive aspects of the personalities
    and behaviors of others with whom you share your planet, you
    will train your point of attraction in the direction of only what you desire.

    Not only does the power of your thought determine
    which people make their way into your life,
    but the power of your thought determines
    how they behave once they get there.



    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    I Can Attract Relationships That Agree with My Desires


    People are not finding it difficult to find the mate of their dreams
    because that person is not out there,
    but because of their own contradiction to their own desire in the thoughts
    they offer about the subject every day.



    When you consistently offer thoughts about your future relationship
    that feel good while you think them, that means you are consistently
    matching the desires that you have discovered as you have lived life.

    And under those conditions, only someone in agreement
    with your desires could come to you.
    Under those conditions, no need for control is necessary.



    Through each exposure to interacting with others, you launch continuous
    rockets of desires of what you prefer.
    And only when you are a Vibrational Match to the culmination of those
    desires will you allow your rendezvous with someone who matches
    those intentions that you have gathered along your physical trail.



    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    Trying to understand others

    If there is anything we want you to give you, in response to the strong
    question that you offering her, it is
    that there is NOTHING THAT IS MEANT TO BE- other than
    that
    YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR EXPERIENCE,
    and
    you get to choose it, as you go along!


    And what we MOST want to give you, in answer to this very powerful
    question, is that youīve got to find some way- and youīr gonna argue
    with us, just a little bit- and weīve got to explain that, too- youīve got
    to find some way, to make it ALRIGHT with you- and you say, it is-
    to make it alright with you, that ANYONE CHOOSES WHATEVER they
    want to choose.

    So then your next question is: "Itīs not that I disagree with what
    anyone else is choosing, I just want to UNDERSTAND it."
    And we say: YOU CANīT!

    You canīt understand.
    Because you donīt know, what the vibrational intent was, coming in!
    We tell you- it was living happily ever after. You donīt know, what life-
    experience was like. You donīt know, what someone else puts into
    their Vortex.

    YOU ONLY KNOW FOR YOURSELF.

    And the thing about trying to get to the bottom of what makes
    somebody else tick, is that in the process of trying to get at the bottom
    to what makes somebody else tick- you tick out of sync with
    who YOU are!

    Because as you try to integrate with your experience, and understand
    where they are coming from- letīs try to understand Terrorism, for
    example! Well, in the attempt to understand it, you activate in yourself
    things that keep you out of whack with who you are!

    Iow, in your desire to understand why anybody else is living the way
    that they are- in every moment that you are doing that, YOU are not
    syncing up with who YOU are, and you are not receiving the guidance
    about who YOU are, and why YOU are here!



    from the clip Abraham Hicks-Understanding transgender! (The best!)

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    Free of allergies

    You want to control your RESPONSE to the environment,
    around you. You donīt need to ask anybody to be perfect-
    you just care about YOUR RESPONSE to their perfection,
    or imperfection!

    And the same is true of this other
    (being allergic).
    There are all kinds of things around you, that have the potential
    of bothering you- or not!

    You have to prepare yourself, to not be bothered, you see!
    Until eventually, you can stand strong, WHERE EVER YOU ARE.
    -Following impulses.

    from the clip Abraham Hicks ~ Feel your way free of allergies

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    Being faced with demands?
    GIVING and TAKING
    from the stance of the Receiving-mode


    Doesnīt the Good that comes to some come through others?
    (...) Often God (...) utilizes your open valve to give to others, through.
    Doesnīt that make sense? Havenīt you been inspired to your giving?

    Havenīt you been at the right place, in the right time- and hasnīt it felt
    so wonderful, that you canīt even begin to explain, how the good it
    feels- because, when you are tapped in to the resources, and they are
    flowing through you to some object of attention that you have,
    and that person is also in the receiving-mode, they they are RECEIVING
    through you, and youīr RECEIVING, too!

    Iow, no wonder that this feels good!
    Thatīs how it all fits together!

    But what if that felt good, and then you started to read books,
    about how inappropriate it is for others to make demands through you.
    You say, "But wait, it felt really good until I thought about it from that
    perspective! And now... yeah, he is pretty bossy, and he is pretty
    demanding and pretty entitled, and that is pretty sexist..."
    -and then you get into a place where you are NOT in the receivingmode.

    But your culture is still saying: "Well, this things should be performed
    by you!" And we wanna say to you:
    ANYONE who is giving to ANYONE, in any other personal state than
    the receiving-mode, is gonna get depleted and resentful.


    Because itīs not how the laws of the Universe work!
    But it also is wrongheaded, it is not accurate with the laws of the
    Universe when you say "I shouldnīt be giving to others! I should only
    be receiving for myself!" Do you know who is the BIGGEST RECIPIANT
    of what you give to someone else?

    -YOU!
    Because, as it went through you, you benefitted by it!
    Iow, that satisfaction-factore is THERE!
    So you might wanna ask yourself, "Am I a giver, or a taker?" -Thatīs
    the way humans lay it out. "Am I a giver or a taker?" -Well, if you are
    human, you are some of all of that. And sometimes, you are on the
    receiving-end, and sometimes you are on the giving-end.

    But if you have practiced understanding what the art of allowing is,
    if youīve practiced being in the receiving-mode so, that you are
    PREDOMINANTLY in the receiving-mode, then the Universe will
    utilize you in all kinds of different ways, in order to be in the right
    place, in the right time, to assist someone else in this or that or the
    other.

    And then, it doesnīt feel like a giver, or a receiver. It feels like
    COCREATORS, who have RENDEZVOUSED. It feels like cocreation at
    itīs best. Because, you canīt be joyful in your gifted giving- which,
    at the core of you, is there- if youīr not giving! (...)

    ...Then
    (when you feel full of love, on the high flying disc)
    the feeling of GIVING and flowing is so strong within you.
    But then, you begin to analyze!
    Because you are wise in this deliberate creation!
    You really want them to understand THEIR receiving-mode!

    And so you become a wise parent, who doesnīt meet their demands.
    You meet them, when they are in the RECEIVING-MODE!
    You let YOUR inspiration to rendezvous with them and THEIR
    inspiration to rendezvous with you be the basis of that.
    And you donīt gather around you "demanding anybodies"!

    Demanding children, demanding employees, demanding employers,
    demanding boyfriends, -you donīt gather around you anybody,
    whoīs making DEMANDS- because you are in the RECEIVING-mode!
    And they donīt have access to you.

    When youīr in the receiving-mode, what they have
    access to is your INSPIRED GIVING,
    for which they are inspired to receive.

    And that is this most delicious, orgasmic, BEST EXPERIENCE of a
    lifetime! -To rendezvous with someone who is ready to be ready,
    while youīr ready to be ready. You see what weīr getting at?

    from North Los Angeles January 28 2017

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    Guidance-system for Dummies

    Abe:
    Give us a handfull of words, EMOTIONAL words on the
    not-good-feeling end of the chart, just one at a time- and we want
    to give you another word that expresses it better (...)

    HS: Unworthy.

    Abe: Disconnected.

    HS: Disappointed.

    Abe: Disconnected.

    HS: Fear!

    Abe: Disconnected.
    (laughter)

    HS: I got it!

    Abe: We like more!

    HS: Absolutely. Scared.

    Abe: Disconnected. That could take a while!
    (big laughter)

    HS
    (laughing): Frustrated!

    Abe: (...) You have assigned this more sophisticated emotional phrases,
    to explain. And in most of this phrases you are describing what somebody
    else is doing, that is causing you to feel that way.

    But when we tell you whatīs REALLY going on...
    now, give us some more words!

    HS:
    (laughing) Ok. Annoyed.

    Abe: Not ready to be ready.

    HS: Mad.

    Abe: Not ready to be ready.

    HS: Angry.

    Abe: Not ready to be ready. Give us a few more!

    HS: Confused!

    Abe: Didnīt meditate this morning!

    HS. Oh. Do we need more?

    Abe: We want more but you can use the same over and over again, because
    we plan to do the same!

    HS: Frustrated.

    Abe: Didnīt meditate this morning!

    HS: Foggy.

    Abe: Didnīt meditate this morning
    .
    You see what weīr getting at? -Didnīt start at the BEGINNING!
    Didnīt get ready, to get ready. And so, "I jumped over all of this, that I
    could have done- and jumped right to action and manifestation, and
    mad all kinds of flawed conclusions- ironiously placing blame, and reason
    upon things that have NOTHING to do with it.

    The ONLY thing that had anything to do with it was MY point of attraction-
    that would not let me connect to who I really am, and what I really want."

    (...) So, the next time you have an arguement with someone, and you are
    SO well-reasoned, you KNOW youīr right. Youīve got ALL the facts in
    front of you- and you open your mouth, and IF youīve meditated, IF youīve
    got ready to get ready to get ready to get ready- THEN most likely what
    youīre gonna say, if you would even rendezvous with someone, the only
    possibility that youīve rendezvoused with someone would be that you
    live with them, or something, because LoA wouldnīt naturally inspire you
    to be together-

    but, there you are. And as they are explaining to you their reason for their
    feeling what they are feeling, the words that would come from you, would
    be: "Oh man, I understand."

    But you WOULDNīT try to do the impossible, and pushing a noodle, of
    bringing them in to complete understanding what you understand- because
    while you are ready to be ready to be ready- THEY ARE NOT.

    And when you know that, THEN you wouldnīt feel frustration!


    2017 Long Beach January 21st from the clip
    Abraham Hicks 2017 - Strengthen your own vibrational platform

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    Your happiness is the most significant contribution
    that you could make.

    In your reaching for happiness, you are opening a vortex which makes you
    an avenue for the Well-being to flow through you.
    And anything that is your object of attention under those conditions,
    benefits by the infusion of your Well-being.

    Excerpted from: Boston, MA on October 10, 1999

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    You can't take sides against anything.
    If you would just leave the "against" part out;
    if you would just be one who is for things -

    you would live happily ever after.

    Excerpted from North Los Angeles, CA - Tuesday, March 7th, 2000

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