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    Ask why, not how

    When you say, “I want cars,” or “I want everything,” and you say HOW—just change that one question to why.

    Because the why will hold you in the momentum of your desire longer. The how, almost every time, will take you out of it.

    Whenever you ask yourself for an answer that you don’t have, you lose your connection. But when you ask a question that leads you further in the momentum of your desire, it allows the momentum of the desire to go further.

    ~ Abraham-Hicks, April 23-30, 2016, Cancun

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    “If you’re gonna be solution oriented,
    talk about why
    (you want what you want),
    why, why, why, why, why, and in doing so,
    you distract yourself from the issue.

    You hold yourself in a vibration of non-resistance
    [...],
    so the Vortex can take you in.”

    ~ Abraham

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    Anytime anyone says, "Why isnīt this not happening for me?"
    -THATīS why! -Because thatīs what they are focused upon.
    -The absence, of what they want.

    So you wanna say, why do you WANT to die?
    (in pointing at the famous story of Esther conjuring rain in a drought)
    -why do you want the rain?


    2016 04 23 to 30 Cancun]

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    the "famous rain-story", where Abe explained how we can use the WHY.


    (Esther said) "Abraham, I want some rain. I want some rain."
    And we said, Why?

    And Esther said, "Because the trees are clearly thirsty
    and the grass is really brown
    and the earth is hard and cracked.
    It really needs relief."

    And we said, Well now you've explained to us why you don't want it not to rain
    but you haven't explained to us why you want the rain.

    And Esther said, "Well, I want the rain because it's so refreshing.
    I want the rain because of the way it smells and feels.
    I want the rain because I want the feeling of it in the air.
    I want the relief of it on the trees.
    I want it on the ground.
    I want the rain because it is so delicious when it rains."

    And then it began to rain.
    Then it began to rain.
    Not 5 minutes later.
    Not 10 minutes later.
    Then it began to rain from what seemed like a clear blue sky.
    It seemed impossible but it was raining. It was raining.
    It was clearly raining."




    Seattle, Aug. 2012

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    The "WHY?" will hold you on the momentum of your desire, longer.
    The "HOW?" almost every time will take you out of it.

    2016 04 23 to 30 Cancun

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    So when you say, "Why do I want it?"
    And you go right to the emotional basis,
    in time- and we expect it from a lot of you!
    Soon you will day: "The reason that I want it,

    ...is BECAUSE.
    Because I want it!
    Because life pointed it out to me.

    I liked the way it smelled. I liked the way it looked.
    I liked the way it felt.

    I like the way it dovetailed, with me!
    Because, itīs the next logical step.
    because itīs natural, because Iīm worthy of it.
    Because itīs EASY. Because itīs natural.
    Because itīs sure. Because, because, BECAUSE!"

    NO justification!
    Because justification puts resistance in the occasion,
    and makes you feel like you have to work hard.
    No justification, no defending, no rationalisation.
    No defense against anyone.

    "I WANT IT, because."
    I want it, because, I came into this time-space reality,
    free to choose. And without even knowing I was choosing,
    I chose, and chose and chose and chose
    and filled the vibrationally reality full of my choices.
    Where my IB, where source stands, knowing
    ALL of my choices,
    and calling me to all of this choices.

    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks - Feeling Secure Regardless Of Circumstances

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    ...But do NOT ask "why" about the absence, itīs going specifically negative!



    Whyyyyy does it go wrong???


    "Thatīs the thing that Esther quite often says:
    "WHY donīt I do what I know how to do???"

    And we say-
    Because youīr alive,
    and because youīr in a body,
    and youīr human,
    and thereīs stuff around you,
    and there is some stuff, that when you look at, you donīt wanna see.

    And when you look at stuff you donīt wanna see,
    you feel bad. And when you feel bad,
    youīr not in alignment with who you are,
    And when youīr not in alignment -
    THATīs the moment where you take the picture!"


    (Abe tell the analogy, that we donīt take our photos when we are at our worst.
    We should take "the picture" when we are at our BEST!-)

    "Youīr just too hard on yourself.
    And youīr making too much (...) about this alignment.
    (...) You just gotta ease up.
    You just gotta chill out."

    San Diego 2013



    "WHY isnīt it working out for me???"
    -THATīs why!!

    Itīs the "why isnīt it working out"-question,
    THIS steady vibration,
    WHY it isnīt working out!


    SanDiego, Jan 2013

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    Wow. I enjoyed every post.! Thanx @paradiseonearth

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    my pleasure!

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    My desire is to have a like button for each post that we see in here 😊

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