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    Mind your own business.
    Itīs actually the fastest way to your highflying disc.

    San Francisco, July 2013

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    About relationships

    "My Life Is about My Relationships"...
    You will never find yourself in a point in time, when the subject
    of relationships is not an active part of your now experience,
    for everything you perceive or notice or know,
    is because of your relationship with something else.

    Without a comparative experience, you would be unable to perceive
    or focus any kind of understanding within yourself.

    Therefore, it is accurate to say that without relationships,
    you could not exist at all.

    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    Other's Opinion Are Less Important
    Than My Personal Guidance System...


    You did not intend to use the opinions of your parents to measure against
    your beliefs, desires, or actions in order to determine the appropriateness
    of them.

    Instead, you knew (and still remembered, long after you were born) that it
    was the relationship between the opinion (or knowledge) of the Source
    within you and your current thoughts, in any moment, that would offer you
    perfect guidance in the form of emotions.

    You did not intend to replace your Emotional Guidance System with
    the opinions of your parents even if they were in harmony with their
    Emotional Guidance System in the moment of their trying to guide you.

    It was much more important to you to recognize the existence of your
    own Guidance System, and to utilize it, than to be deemed correct by,
    or to find approval from, others.


    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    Transgender


    HS is curious about transgender, using the example of Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner.
    He understands gays and autism in the context that Abe teach- that those
    come forth to be unconformable and to teach unconditional love and
    acceptance by that.

    Abe:
    Not so much to teach it, but to LIVE it.

    HS:
    To live it! To just be an example of it.

    Abe:
    Well, you cannot help but teach, through the clarity of your example.
    But to LIVE it is really the emphasise, that we...
    GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION,
    to find your alignment, and BE it, in the face of
    controversy and disapproval.

    -To be unconditional, in your choices.

    Itīs not so easy to BE, as humans, with so many people looking at
    you and the more famous you become, the more they want to hold
    you to those standards that they need to hold you to.

    Seems like the perfect plan: To come forth, get everybodies attention
    - and then, NOT BE what they want you to be!
    (laughter)
    Which gives them the opportunity, to find alignment, even if you
    donīt be, what they want you to be. WHAT A GIFT!
    What a gift to say, "now Iīve got you to like me- how do you like
    me NOW?"

    (HS still is mixed up, talking about why those take so much pressure,
    and that being gay is easy for him...)

    Abe:
    Did you stop looking for approval because youīve got it, or did you
    stop looking for approval because you got tired for looking to get it
    from those, who couldnīt give it?
    (repeating this sentence several times).

    HS:
    I canīt figure this out...

    Abe:
    YES you can!

    HS:
    I LIKE being an individual. I actually like pushing peoples buttons.
    And I like being unique! I like keeping people guessing, and I like
    being a little excentric, and and a little off... the thing is, my sister
    and I, coming into this world, we kinda flipped the gender roles,
    if you will. She is an older sister and she was an amazing athlete (...)

    Abe:
    (Abe agree that this was an arrangement the two made from nonphysical, and
    it was for this reason: you said...)

    ..."Lets go and live happily ever after
    on our own terms!

    And let other people deal with it OR NOT, thatīs not any of our
    business!
    Letīs go and live a little unconditional love!
    Letīs find the resourceful resources of source- and not look for it
    in all the wrong places!
    Letīs not ask others to be the source of that, which we are."

    That conversation is getting boring to you today, because weīve
    been saying it so many times in so many ways, but ALL of you came
    into this physical experience for the intention of having a really
    delicious physical experience, in your UNIQUE WAY.

    None of you came intending to conform.
    No matter how conformed you appear to be!
    NONE of you are very good at conforming.

    You are all so uniquely yourselves, but most of you donīt know it,
    because you have been ATTEMPTING to conform, because it goes
    better for you, and your parents and teachers make that known to you,
    pretty early on.



    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks-Understanding transgender! (The best!)

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    Trying to understand others

    If there is anything we want you to give you, in response to the strong
    question that you offering her, it is
    that there is NOTHING THAT IS MEANT TO BE- other than
    that
    YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR EXPERIENCE,
    and
    you get to choose it, as you go along!


    And what we MOST want to give you, in answer to this very powerful
    question, is that youīve got to find some way- and youīr gonna argue
    with us, just a little bit- and weīve got to explain that, too- youīve got
    to find some way, to make it ALRIGHT with you- and you say, it is-
    to make it alright with you, that ANYONE CHOOSES WHATEVER they
    want to choose.

    So then your next question is: "Itīs not that I disagree with what
    anyone else is choosing, I just want to UNDERSTAND it."
    And we say: YOU CANīT!

    You canīt understand.
    Because you donīt know, what the vibrational intent was, coming in!
    We tell you- it was living happily ever after. You donīt know, what life-
    experience was like. You donīt know, what someone else puts into
    their Vortex.

    YOU ONLY KNOW FOR YOURSELF.

    And the thing about trying to get to the bottom of what makes
    somebody else tick, is that in the process of trying to get at the bottom
    to what makes somebody else tick- you tick out of sync with
    who YOU are!

    Because as you try to integrate with your experience, and understand
    where they are coming from- letīs try to understand Terrorism, for
    example! Well, in the attempt to understand it, you activate in yourself
    things that keep you out of whack with who you are!

    Iow, in your desire to understand why anybody else is living the way
    that they are- in every moment that you are doing that, YOU are not
    syncing up with who YOU are, and you are not receiving the guidance
    about who YOU are, and why YOU are here!



    from the clip Abraham Hicks-Understanding transgender! (The best!)

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    Be selfish

    By paying attention to the way you feel,
    and then choosing thoughts that feel the very best,
    you are managing your own vibration,

    -which means you are controlling your own point of attraction —
    which means you are creating your own reality.

    It's such a wonderful thing to realize that you can create your own reality
    without sticking your nose in everybody else's, and that the less attention
    you give to everybody else's reality,
    the purer your vibration is going to be —
    and the more you are going to be pleased with what comes to you.


    Excerpted from: Boca Raton, FL on December 08, 2001

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    Rascal


    So, what youīr wanting to say to him, is:
    "You know what? Youīr a real pain.

    But you help me so much, because
    in your uniquely being you, I have discovered
    what unconditional alignment really is.
    And I thank you for not jumping though hoops,
    to be a condition that pleases me.
    Because then, you could be my only object of attention.
    And my life is so much more broad, than that!"

    This is a long-standing,
    nonphysical soul-intention-relationship.
    He said: "I will NOT be easy to live with."

    And you said: "I donīt need easy! I have the whole world
    to focus upon, to bring me into alignment.
    Truly, together we will teach each other,
    what UNCONDITIONAL experience is really all about."


    Boston, June 2015
    for me :x


    You will never feel free,
    until you are free of trying to control the way
    others feel about you.

    Denver Aug. 2014
    Even better!

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    Stop looking for other peopleīs agreement!


    Is one desire better than another? -No.
    Who gets to choose? -You do.
    Can you make one choice now and another choice later? -Absolutely.
    Is it likely that your choices will continue to change and evolve? -Yes.
    Is there somebody watching you and keeping score of what you
    choose? -No.
    Will there be punishment if you accidentally make the wrong choice?
    -No.

    In other words, the punishment -- there is not anything offered like
    that -- but the suffering that you see as punishment is nothing greater
    than the negative emotion that you feel in any moment as you're
    disallowing your true self to flow through you. That's as bad as it gets.

    That guilt or anger or blame or frustration or
    depression that you feel-
    because you're choosing thoughts that aren't in vibrational harmony
    with who you are. That's as bad as it gets.

    So is there a great law that says monogamy is more spiritual than
    having many sexual partners?
    -No. There is no such law.
    Are there people who would be more joyful in monogamy? -Absolutely.
    Are there people who would be more joyful eating frog legs? -Absolutely.
    Who gets to choose? -You do.

    How do you know if you're making the right choice? -You can feel it.
    Will your choices evolve? -Absolutely.
    Can you make wrong choices? -No.
    Will other people agree? -Never.
    Are you going to be able to stand on your head in enough different ways
    to please them? -No!
    Any one of them? -No.
    Is that your job? -No.

    Then what is your job? -To feel good.

    What does that mean? -Seek harmony with who you are.
    Does that mean that the god within me wants me to have lots of sexual
    partners? -No.

    That means that the god within you wants you to find harmony between
    your desire and your belief. In other words, that energy wants you to
    create a clear path for it to flow. And you can't do that by saying,
    "that's wrong," because every time you see something is wrong, you
    stop the flow.

    Does that mean you have to embrace all things? -No.
    It just means you must stop pushing against those things that you don't
    want to include, because every time you push against them, you don't
    stop them, you include them, and now you're out of sync again and you
    say "it's your fault, you evil perpetrators of sin and violence and crime.
    If you would stop being so bad, I'd feel better."

    And we say that's true, but that's never going to happen.

    You must allow them to be that which they are while you selectively sift
    that which lines up your energy. And when you're in alignment with your
    source, all things are possible.



    Abe, 2/7/98

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    It doesn’t matter what anybody else is doing with their vibration,
    it only matters what you are doing.


    You cannot desire something—and notice that it isn’t coming—
    without offering two contradictory vibrations that won’t let it come.


    Excerpted from Boca Raton, FL on 1/15/05

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    Because others cannot vibrate in your experience,
    they cannot affect the outcome of your experience.
    They can hold their opinions, but unless their opinion
    affects your opinion, their opinion matters not at all.

    A million people could be pushing against you
    and it would not negatively affect you- unless you push back.

    That million people pushing against you are affecting
    their millions of vibrations.
    They are affecting what happens in their experience.
    They are affecting their point of attraction,
    but it does not affect you-
    unless you push against them.


    Excerpted from Orlando, FL on 2/21/98

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