Page 3 of 5 FirstFirst 12345 LastLast
Results 21 to 30 of 46

Thread: Abe about the "comfort zone"

  1. #21
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    When you try to force yourself in "moving out of your comfort-zone",
    you cause DRAMA.


    Outtake from the full transcript, below.


    If the stove is hot we don't want you to IGNORE it,
    and touch the hot stove.
    That's not good for you.

    And we don't want you to ENDURE long standing negative emotion,
    because that's not good for you either.


    But we don't want you to beat up on yourself
    for having negative emotion,
    because that's like THROWING YOURSELF ON THE STOVE!
    That is exaggerating it you see, and that's what true drama is.

    DRAMA IS, here's a good definition for you.
    DRAMA IS, deliberately or in-deliberately, purposefully or by default,
    CHOOSING a vibration that is not in alignment with the way Source SEES IT.
    And HOLDING myself THERE, until it gets bigger and bigger and bigger
    and bigger and bigger and bigger.

    Drama is trying to fix things with ACTION,
    rather than at the EARLY stages, through vibrational shifting.

    Asheville, April 2015




    Here is the full fantastic thing:


    Sometimes Esther will say "that person is really really hard.
    Its just hard. Its just hard. That person rings my bells, yanks my chain.
    That person is hard. And every now and again she says "TOO Hard"!
    "TOO Hard, not worth it! Too hard, NOT worth it!"

    -And you have to decide, when the path of least resistance says
    "too hard, NOT worth it".
    And when the path of least resistance says
    "too hard, BUT worth it".


    HS:
    I got to unconditional love, I did positive aspects!
    (but clearly she is ootv)

    A:
    Oh bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla
    I got there, but I cant stay there, I got there but I cant stay there.

    HS
    I got there but I cant stay there, and he is not a family member.
    And I got my mother back, and were going on the Alaskan cruise,
    whats better than that!

    Abe:
    There are a lot of things better than that.
    Day to day happiness is way better than that,
    control of your emotions way better than that.
    Temporary excitement because the cruise makes you feel better most of the time-
    PHHHEW!!
    Alignment, consistent alignment, ability to stay in alignment
    with who you ARE, that's all that MATTERS.

    HS
    And my friend Jane is here,
    and I don't want to take up all of your time....

    A:
    So we have some questions for you.
    You used the analogy of upstream downstream. So...

    HS
    Oh, your taping me? Don't order the Dvd! Don't order it!...sorry!
    laughter from audience

    A
    This gets better and better!!
    So, we have a few questions for you.
    These questions will set you free.
    The answers to these questions will set you free,
    so just relax and give us the easy answers that come.

    HS
    Can I smoke!
    Laughter. Sorry!

    A
    So, you introduced into this conversation today,
    an analogy that we used successfully for quite a while;
    upstream/downstream.
    And we always begin by saying, we love you so much,
    but it is almost like you take your canoe down to the rivers edge
    and you point it upstream, and you deliberately paddle upstream,
    complaining about how HARD it is.

    With some sort of feeling of accomplishment or virtue, in the struggle.
    And we say" just turn it downstream, just turn it in the other direction
    and just let the natural stream carry you."

    So, there is something that we know for sure about You:
    (talking to HS directly), that we want you to discover during this conversation.
    And that is; somewhere along your trail, you've picked up the belief,
    and a lot of people do, that there is ADVANTAGE in struggle.

    That there is advantage in sacrifice.
    That there is advantage in DRAMA.
    There's advantage in ENTERTAINING drama.
    That there is advantage in the STRUGGLE.

    And, because you believe that there is advantage in the struggle,
    that's your DEFAULT PLACE; that's where you go to.

    IOWs, as we have been visiting here with you,
    WE KNOW that intellectually, conceptually, you understand Law of Attraction.
    And you understand the upstream/downstream, and you understand the flow.
    And yet, at every opportunity, you turned upstream, BECAUSE...
    Now we really want to talk about this!

    There MUST be something IN IT FOR YOU!
    So, we want for you to figure it out, we will figure it out together.
    WHAT is IN IT FOR YOU.
    WHY does the turn UPSTREAM, FEEL like the path of least resistance to you?

    Why do you do that so easily?
    Did you have to defend yourself in a strong way when you were younger?

    HS
    Yes, there was a lot of drama, and I am used to drama, it feels exciting to me.

    A
    So there is an upside to it. IOWs you got a lot of attention here,
    your making people laugh.

    HS
    I'm sorry! I'm not faking it.

    A
    There is not a reason in the world for you to feel sorry.
    You have done nothing wrong, you are not in a wrong place.
    There is not a possibility of anyone getting in this chair who is faking it.
    Were smarter than that.

    So, what you are demonstrating is an exaggerated version
    of what everybody in this room feels some times!
    And that's why YOU are the spokesman for THIS conversation.

    SO, here's some upstream/downstream questions:
    I would rather feel engaged or unengaged?

    HS: Engaged.

    A: If engagement is upstream, I still would choose it over unengaged?
    HS doesn't reply.

    I would rather be engaged and negative, than unengaged and positive?
    -Stay with it for just a little, because the answer to that is YES,
    but we want you to think about WHY.

    There's momentum in that negative engagement!
    And momentum, you have, and a lot of people DO believe,
    that momentum is where the POWER IS.
    You believe, that you would rather be doing SOMETHING than NOTHING.
    Esther did it, too!

    Instead of sitting and centering, and doing a focus wheel,
    and reminding herself that things are always working out for her.
    Instead of taking the time to do that, she flew out the door,
    like a streak, and went down and presented her problem,
    with such forcefulness. IOWs she did it, TOO.

    Everyone does it every now and again.
    But the Question is- what is it about that.
    Because even Esther says "I gotta do something rather than nothing"
    And we say EEEWWK!!

    Something rather than nothing; why is that. WHY IS something
    RATHER than NOTHING, a DEFAULT position for so many of you?


    Because you have evaluated your SUCESS and your VALUE
    through the EYES of OTHERS, who are trying to get you to be CONDITIONAL
    and ACTION orientated, rather than ALIGNED and ENERGY ORIENTATED.

    So, there isn't anything WRONG with any of that!
    Except that NOW, your Guidance is showing you, that all of your life,
    this habit and things that you thought were the keys to success,
    NOW are NOT the Path of LEAST Resistance.
    So you are UPENDED.

    Don't feel bad, we do that to virtually everyone who enters this room.
    Because the things that you were doing when you didn't know about LOA,
    often are not in alignment with what you will do AFTER you know.

    IOWS, understanding your point of attraction, CHANGES EVERYTHING.
    Understanding why you have emotions, changes everything.
    Understanding who you really are, and what you really want, changes everything.
    Understanding what downstream IS, changes everything!

    But, it takes some TIME to allow it to change, and for sure,
    for sure, for sure, for sure, you WILL NOT make the change
    while you are choosing to be hard on yourself.
    You just cant beat up on yourself.
    We cant break through that.

    We cant love you enough to get through your screen of being mad at yourself.
    So, you gotta just decide to give some of that up!
    You gotta begin saying things, like we were wanting our counselor- friend
    to do with his team members that he was talking about,
    we want you to be able to say:

    "I am where I am and where I am is alright."

    And in the same way, when Esther got that colour swatch home,
    and she laid it across her clothes, the clothes that she wore
    were all in alignment, and the clothes that she never wanted to put on,
    were the ones that were out of alignment.
    IOWs you intuitively KNOW.

    And so, you've come into alignment, you've activated your guidance.
    Things you USED to get away with, you CANT get away with ANYMORE.
    Because you know too much, you cant go back.

    Its working for you, your not failing.
    Your coming into alignment with Who You Are.
    We used to say people almost every seminar, in the beginning,
    that the thing that people would most often say to us is
    "That is it normal for all hell to break loose in my life when I begin doing this work?"

    And the answer is YES,
    because the things that you used to do out of determination and HABIT,
    the ACTION ORIENTATED things, DONT WORK
    in this VIBRATIONAL BASED, LAW OF ATTRACTION,
    and UNDERSTANDING WHAT YOUR GUIDANCE IS TELLING YOU, WORLD.

    ITS a DIFFERENT ORIENTATION, and you have got to make the jump.
    And there isn't anything in the world wrong with negative emotion,
    we want negative emotion to be a GOOD THING.

    If the stove is hot we don't want you to IGNORE it, and touch the hot stove.
    That's not good for you.
    And we don't want you to ENDURE long standing negative emotion,
    because that's not good for you either.

    But we don't want you to beat up on yourself
    for having negative emotion,
    because that's like THROWING YOURSELF ON THE STOVE!
    That is exaggerating it you see, and that's what true drama is.

    DRAMA IS, here's a good definition for you.
    DRAMA IS, deliberately or in-deliberately, purposefully or by default,
    CHOOSING a vibration that is not in alignment with the way Source SEES IT.
    And HOLDING myself THERE, until it gets bigger and bigger and bigger
    and bigger and bigger and bigger.

    Drama is trying to fix things with ACTION,
    rather than at the EARLY stages
    through vibrational shifting.

    Drama is a pattern of behavior.
    Drama is the umbrella-result,
    of being insensitive in the early stages to your emotions.


    Asheville, April 2015

  2. #22
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    If you are being swept into some current
    that is not comfortable,
    or not in harmony with your desire,
    you must remember, that couldn't happen if you weren't
    offering a vibration that matched it in some way.

    If you're vibrating differently from that,
    you're not having that experience.


    Abraham Hicks

  3. #23
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    Where do you have trained yourself to feel normal and "comfortable"?


    (Abe tell the story that long ago, Jerry had trained himself into a certain vibration,
    that made him feel weird when he came close to something better,
    as driving through Scottsdale/Phoenix, which is a rich zone "where the money flows".)

    (when being there...)...he was so out of his comfort-zone!
    Out of his comfort-zone, hear this words.
    Then years later, Jerry and Esther lived in Arizona,
    they spent all their time in Scottsdale. Thatīs where they wanted to be.
    And one day, they followed the navigational device, they ended up
    over there in that part of town (...) where he worked before,
    and they couldnīt wait to get out, of that part of town!
    They where now out of their comfort zone.

    So weīr just saying, make the VORTEX your comfort-zone!
    Make it your comfort zone by getting in there, and milking it,
    and practicing it, until IT`S NORMAL.


    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks ペ Make the Vortex your comfort-zone

  4. #24
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    "Pushing through" is unnecessary!

    "We donīt want you to deprive yourself of alignment so much,
    that than something dramatic has to happen.
    And we think that pushing through,
    before you have prepared yourself vibrationally
    is going the hard way, about it.

    And itīs the way that almost everybody goes about it.
    Most people move through their lives, not in alignment with who they really are-
    and so, there is an edginess about almost everything they do-

    that is UNNECESSARY.
    You could be totally immersed in this energy of wellbeing!


    Phoenix, Febr. 2014

  5. #25
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    Donīt work on ANYTHING, when it hurts!
    Donīt work on ANYTHING when youīr feeling negative emotions!
    Donīt try to solve a problem when youīr all activated about it!


    Long Beach, Jan. 2016
    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks 2016 - Practice the receptive mode and the old momentum will subside (new)

  6. #26
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    EAGERNESS feels comfortable!


    Iīm eager for
    whatever it takes from me,
    to line up with this.



    If you could stop being unhappy about the situation,
    thatīs causing you to change, to get to it!
    ...uhhh, THERE IT IS.

    Instead you wanna BLESS this resistance, because THAT is
    whatīs gonna help, to make the change in you.
    Thatīs getting you alll the way, to this things that you want-
    to all, that you want to be.

    If you heard that, we are so happy!
    YOU are the one, changing. You are becoming less resistant, all the time.
    And you know how youīr becoming less resistant?
    By moving through resistance.


    As you move through something that feels like struggle,
    you make more definition of who you are, and what you want.
    As things donīt go quite the way you want them to, you more clearly
    define what you want.
    Now here is the thing- uh, uh, uh, uh!!!!
    Your definition is not changing that. Thatīs all there.
    Whatīs changing is the RESISTANCE, in YOU!
    Did you hear it that time?
    Whatīs changing is the resistance in you. So you really wanna say:

    Just bring it on! Iīm EAGER to learn!
    Iīm eager to know. Iīm eager to grow!
    Iīm eager to become! Iīm EAGER!
    Iīm eager for
    whatever it takes from me,
    to line up with this.

    And then of course, do all the things weīve been talking about.
    Talk about that, talk about that. Talk about how you think that
    might feeeel. Use all the good words, and all the good visualizations
    that you can, about it.

    But MOST OF ALL (...) -in fact, itīs the most IMPORTANT MESSAGE
    of ANY WS that weīve ever conduct-
    JUST CHILL OUT!!!
    Step 3 is your primary work!


    Seattle, WA, 2016-07-09, from the clip
    Abraham Hicks 2016 -You are never letting go of our desire even when you release focus from it (new)


  7. #27
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    Path of least resistance

    The tendency is to try to figure out why this wasn't a match.
    That's like asking someone why they don't want to eat peas. [...]

    "The Path of Least Resistance," what does that sound like to you?
    "The Path of Least Resistance"..."the Path of Least Resistance."
    Not "The Path of Proving Myself."
    Not "The Path of Figuring Out Why Somebody Doesn't Like Me."
    Not "the Path of Understanding What Went Wrong."

    "The Path of Least Resistance."
    "The Path of Least Resistance."
    "The Path of Least Resistance."

    Don't make things hard; make things as easy as you possibly can,
    which means we would spend not one more minute trying
    to figure out why someone wouldn't be delighted with what you have to offer.

    Just accept that there was more resistance on the path
    than needed to be and now just look for the Path of Least Resistance.

    [...] Abe:
    "So, since I know for sure that I'm in synch with who I am
    and what I want and something that I thought was a relationship
    that I thought I wanted to pursue or proceed on because it didn't happen,
    I now know that, since I'm sure that I was in synch with Who-I-Am
    then that must be the component that's out of whack." This is big.

    Because until you are sure that you're in synch,
    you can't know what component's out of whack.
    And this is the thing that we're wanting to help you to clarify.
    Because--if we were standing in your physical shoes
    and anything that we thought we wanted wasn't coming into fruition-
    -we'd say, "Oh, good. More evidence that there's more vibrational adjustment for me to do."

    <snip> IOW, what you want is just going to flow to you.
    You don't have to try so hard.

    When you get in synch with Who-You-Are
    and what you're looking for in a relationship,
    it is our promise to you that another
    (and there are many who fit the vibrational equivalent)
    will flow easily and effortlessly into your experience.

    And that's what you're looking for you.
    You're looking for "the next logical step." Not "the next challenge."
    Not "the next thing to conquer or to overcome."
    You're just looking for "the next logical step."
    It will always come in a steady path,
    a steady trail of circumstances and events, leading you
    to where you want to be-
    but leading you to "where you are right now" wanting to be,
    "where you are right now" wanting to be,
    "where you are right now" wanting to be,
    "where you are right now" wanting to be.


    --Abraham, 4/19/14, San Antonio

  8. #28
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    The best of every moment
    is what you should reach for!


    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks - The Key to Good Relationships

  9. #29
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    "You CANNOT look at yourself in bogus ways
    AND be happy.
    You CANNOT argue for your limitations
    AND be happy.
    You CANNOT beat up on yourself about what you should have done,
    or even what you should be doing RIGHT NOW-
    AND be happy.

    You've GOT TO make peace with yourself,
    you've GOT TO make it alright where you are,
    it HAS TO BE alright that you don't make your bed
    and it HAS TO BE alright that you lay there ALL day,
    if you FEEL like it, it HAS TO BE alright.

    You HAVE TO STOP letting other humans who need you
    to do conditional things so that they can be happy,
    guide you away from what TRUE LOVE is, you see...."


    2014-10-18 Westchester, NY

  10. #30
    Beloved Woman paradise-on-earth's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
    Location
    Elfengarten, Germany
    Posts
    68,498
    The price you have to pay is EASE,
    not effort.


    Orlando 2014

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •