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    thank you, Qzi!


    EVERYBODY can get exactly what they want!


    If you want something different than they want, and just mind your own business and focus on what you want, the Universe will find a way to give you what you want. But if you focus on what they want, which isn't what you want, then you have activated what they want in your vibration instead of what you want. And THEN, you get what they want, and you are mad at them because you think they always get what they want all the time.

    The reason they get what they want is because you activated what they wanted in your experience. You activated what they wanted, not by wanting what they wanted, but by giving your attention to what they wanted.

    If this one wants something different than this one, and this one ONLY focuses upon what he wants, Law of Attraction must bring it to him.
    If this one only focuses on what she wants, Law of Attraction must bring her what she wants:
    So now you've got two people, getting what they want.

    What usually happens is that he isn't pure about what he wants, because he is so busy thinking about what she wants. And she isn't pure about what she wants, because she is so busy thinking about what he wants. So now neither are a match to what they want, and neither of them are getting what they want, and both of them are blaming the other...

    You see it in elections all the time.

    You see it in almost every relationship. She's getting what you want and you're getting what she wants because you're often thinking more about what she wants than about what you want. "Stupid thing for her to want!"

    In other words, you work against yourself. And when you work against yourself, you often help your opposition. That's what we meant when we say, it happens in elections. A lot of politicians beat themselves. It's all about focusing.


    Stamford, CT 6/14/09

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    What if they don´t want what I want?


    When we say,
    THERE IS NOTHING
    THAT YOU CANNOT BE OR DO OR HAVE,

    we´re not kidding you, not even a little bit!
    Because the power of focus is everything.

    But what happens is you complicate it by saying:
    But there are other people who are the creator of their reality
    and what if they don‘t want me to be in their reality?
    What if I want them to be in my reality, but they don‘t want me ...
    in other words -what if I want it,
    but they don´t want it? Who wins?

    And we say:
    "It´s not a matter of any sort of competition.
    It´s a matter of YOU, achieving vibrational alignment
    with what you want
    - and the universe will deliver it to you,
    somehow- some way.
    (snip)

    We, in the past, have qualified this kind of conversation by saying
    that if you focus upon the essence of what you want,
    and you don´t get bogged down in the details, that as the details fill in,
    they will be more pleasing to you even in the details,
    that you originally thought that you where reaching for.

    But that is unsatisfying to most people.

    Because, they think that this is our run-around.
    They think, that is our way of just appeasing you,
    and saying you‘re NOT really gonna get what you want,
    but you‘re gonna get something that you´ll like pretty good
    - so just "go after something that you like pretty good, and that will come"
    but that´s not what we´re saying, either!

    We are saying to you,
    that- WHATEVER IT IS! -
    that you focus upon, MUST COME TO YOU -unless you contradict it,
    with your own, contradictory focus.

    End of story."


    - Abraham Hicks

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    You´r not creating your own reality on the backs of others!

    If anyone of you
    would just stand in clarity about what you want- and go as GENERAL as you can until you find complete alignment with what YOU want, and allow your own Grid to fill in-

    what you will begin to discover is:

    You create your own reality. You are the center of the Universe. But to those, who look upon you,
    it feels uncaring. It looks selfish.

    It looks, as if you don´t take the time to understand. And we´r not saying that you don´t want to collect data, and that you don´t want to know what other people want. But we are saying:

    You can´t consider what everyone wants,
    and hold your vibration in alignment with what YOU want.


    AND- the most important part of this- Your desire for their upliftment is already in
    your Vortex! You´r not trying to create your own reality on the backs of others!


    from the clip
    Abraham-He Wants To Talk About His Old Grid Being Relentless.

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    Hypothetically, people worry about everyone
    being selfishly oriented.
    "If everyone did exactly what they want to do,
    what kind of world would this be?"

    And we say, a really, really good one.
    Because if everyone did what they wanted to do,
    everyone would feel free.
    And if you feel free, you feel empowered.

    And every negative emotion that exists- hear this-
    every negative emotion that exists
    is because there is some sense of loss of freedom
    somewhere in there.

    -Abe 9/29/2004

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    Lawsuits?

    In most lawsuits, most people just use each other as their excuse to disconnect from the Stream.

    And then they just suffer until the one who is the least disconnected wins the lawsuit. But it is still an exercise in disconnecting from Source Energy that we think is never worth the price of the reward, no matter how great the reward of a lawsuit is.


    Excerpted from Buffalo, NY on 9/27/00

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    Your life is about YOU!


    If we were standing in your physical shoes, that would be our dominant quest:
    Entertaining Yourself,
    pleasing Yourself,
    connecting with Yourself,
    being Yourself,
    enjoying Yourself,
    loving Yourself.

    Some say, “Well, Abraham you teach selfishness.” And we say, yes we do, yes we do, yes we do, because unless you are selfish enough to reach for that connection, you don’t have anything to give anyone, anyway. And when you are selfish enough to make that connection—
    you have an enormous gift that you give everywhere you are.



    Excerpted from San Antonio, TX on 4/21/01

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    Nobody ever gets hurt, when you are on the highflying diss. Nobody ever gets hurt.
    Nobody ever runs over somebody,
    nobody ever gets hurt when you are on the highflying disc.
    EVER.


    Phoenix Dec. 2013

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    There is not another creating within your life experience–and you cannot create within the life experience of another.

    Each being who is in physical form is an individual, independent creator.

    -Abe, the book A New Beginning I

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    Not only are you not here because you want to “Save the World”–but you can’t.

    This is not your role–nor is it your ability–because each is the creator or attractor of their individual experience."

    -Abe 12/7/90

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    No one connected to Source Energy would ever harm another.
    It’s an interesting thing:
    More injustices, more discomfort, and more unhappiness is projected at others under the name of righteousness, under the name of law abiding, under the name of law, and under the name of religion, than all other things put together.

    In other words, don’t worry about it.



    Excerpted from Seattle, WA on 6/26/04

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