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    You can tell if you are helping others
    by the Joy that YOU feel.

    Abraham-Hicks

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    Where you are is RIGHT, not WRONG.


    It is so easy to say:
    No, wait! I donīt wanna be here, or: I didnīt want to be here-
    or: This went wrong.
    But if you could just say, and MEAN:

    Where I am is just right, given ALL that I want.

    I might not understand it.
    I might not be sensitive enough, to the
    vibrational path to UNDERSTAND the benefit, of all of that...
    You can even say: I wanted an easier route.
    Or, I wanted a route that felt more this way, than that way.

    But if you can just accept, that where you are
    is RIGHT, not WRONG.
    That is the thing we wanna say to you!!

    Where you are, no matter where it is, in relationship to
    where you want to be, is RIGHT! Not wrong!

    Itīs RIGHT. Not wrong.

    Because, you are starting where you are!

    And when you are accepting that it is right, than
    immediately, you turn in the direction
    of what you want!


    from the clip Abraham Explains Benefits Of Old Resistance...

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    Abe:
    SERVICE is so important to understand!
    Selfishness is SO IMPORTANT to understand.
    We ask you straight out: is it easy to be with them, right now?

    HS: No.

    Abe:
    Than thatīs not the path of least resistance, is it!
    Do you think itīs wrong for you to do, what is easiest?

    You think that itīs wrong to do something that is the easiest,
    for you- because source is calling you into that direction,
    and having youīve been saying all along, that you want
    to do whatīs BEST, iow, donīt you want to follow the guidance
    thatīs coming forth, from source?

    And is it plausible that source would EVER be leading you
    in the wrong direction?
    And isnīt it logical, that what feels good, IS good?
    And do you have any ability, to make someone else feel good,
    just because you do?

    And is it your job, because you feel good, to go back
    and not feel good, with them? Is THAT what "service" is?

    Thatīs what most people think, service is!
    Most people think, what service is, you feel as bad as I do.
    Otherwise, you are not "with me".

    And what you wanna say to them is:
    "If thatīs what service is, Iīm never gonna serve.
    If thatīs whatīs "being with you" is about,
    then Iīm not ever gonna be with you.
    Because, Iīm gonna be ALL that I am, before
    I turn my attention to you."


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    Donīt do too much for them!


    "You can be so "good" to some, that you disable them completely.
    You can be so "good" to some, that they become almost demanding
    of more, from you!

    Itīs like you start a trend, where they get used to getting their sustenance,
    coming from you - and then, when you have the nerve
    to stop it in some way, then they become sometimes outraged!
    Because, you cut them off from the good that hey deserve-
    and that they have demanded THROUGH YOU!

    Well, itīs time for you to allow them to discover
    that- like you, and like everyone-
    they have a stream of care and attention and resources,
    that is going directly to them, FROM SOURCE.

    And you are going to let them discover that, for themselves.
    And you stop holding yourself responsible for things,
    that you CANīT CONTROL!

    -That where never any of your business,
    to begin with."

    2015.06.20 - Denver

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    Do you REALLY want to suffer with them??

    Maybe someone has convinced you,
    if they're miserable- it's wrong for you not to be miserable, too.
    But after a while life has to show you
    that being miserable isn't fun
    and it doesn't get you what you want.

    What we're asking all of you all-day, everyday is:
    "How much misery are you willing to allow yourself"?

    Abraham

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    So, when life causes you to ask a very powerfull question-
    even maybe from a place of pain or suffering,
    do you think you are offering benefit to the world at large?
    Whether you are receiving yourself or not?
    You think there is benefit from it? -Every time!

    So, that is why we canīt get it wrong.
    Whatever we live- itīs a gift to the universe.

    SF, February ī12

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    Your happiness is the most significant contribution
    that you could make.

    In your reaching for happiness, you are opening a vortex
    which makes you an avenue for the Well-being to flow
    through you.
    And anything that is your object of attention under those conditions,
    benefits by the infusion of your Well-being.


    Excerpted from: Boston, MA on October 10, 1999

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    When you manage to stay connected
    to your Energy stream, you always win.

    And you know what, somebody else doesn't have to lose,
    for you to win. There is always enough.


    Excerpted from Los Angeles, CA - Sunday, February 2nd, 1997

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    What happens when you always jump through their hoops...

    You believe that they will approve of. So you hold back from anything that might sour the deal [laughter from audience]. So you just present yourself sort of haltingly and awkwardly [abe makes a few awkward sounds, to audience laughter]. It’s sort of LIKE that.

    -A false premise of who you really are, in order to just solicit the best from them and it works pretty good. And then you look over there and they want you to be different so you conform again. And you look over there and your peers that you’re growing up with want one thing from you. Your mother wants another. Your father wants another. Your lover wants another.

    Everyone who knows you is using you in different ways in order to satisfy their impossible craving to focus on something you’re doing in order to feel good
    [enthusiastic responses from the audience]. And you are a complicit partner in that!

    [...] If you’re willing to go out of the Vortex in order to please them, they—do you notice how much needier they become? Have you ever tried that? You please them and then they’re needier. And you please them and then they’re needier. And then you please them and then they’re needier. And then you please them and they’re needier, and then you have an extra marital affair
    [sounds of surprised appreciation from audience].

    ...When all along, if you had just pleased YOU...!!

    -Abe

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    Wellbeing, wellness, WELLNESS is
    what’s beating your door down.
    Wellness is what wants in.

    And in the moment that you release anything
    that doesn’t feel good, you relax-
    and that’s the only thing that comes in, you see.

    You can not find vibrational harmony with something
    that feels good and let something bad in. Ever.

    -Abe

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