"... I'll Not Ask Others to Become Different for Me ...
Let your Vibrational Escrow percolate, and you do your best to give it your undivided attention so that you become a Vibrational Match to it.
And then, when the Law of Attraction brings all of it together and brings you, because you're a match, together with it - then there aren't any bugs to work out.
Don't ask the person, or people, that helped you to define what you want to become what you want so that you can have what you want. (Oh, that was so good.)
Instead, let them be the Step One part of it (the asking part). Use your willpower and your decision to focus upon what you want - and then the Universe will bring you what you want. ..."

Abraham - Excerpted from Abraham's book, The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships