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    Marc, what do you mean by i focus on parts i dont have immediately instead of what I do have? Like I am focusing on things that I want to change or that I want to be living instead of how I can feel better? Ive been working on feeling better thoughts today and I got to say ive been happier than usual, hopefully its not me turning insane from giving up lol, but I have felt happier and more at ease.

    I can definitely feel the difference between powerlessness and boredom, no doubt. But maybe like between Discouragement, Blame, Worry, Doubt, and disappointment, I cant find where I am in there you could even add overwhelment, even though I know that feeling but it usually comes after stressing so much about where I am. I hope that made more sense.

    I have also been looking into the books and I am either going to do with Money and the lOA, or APoE. I haven't made my mind on that yet.

    I will also start a new thread now, I didn't want to just make a boat load of threads, thank you for letting me know though. And youre right, I did notice that feels worse than how I felt, so I know I'm not as low as I thought since I can feel worse. So if I took that and understood it the right way, that's a good thing to notice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    Marc, what do you mean by i focus on parts i dont have immediately instead of what I do have?
    Let's look at what we were just talking about. You recognized that you were able to tell the difference between what feels good and what feels bad, which is great. Instead of focusing on that, you immediately jump to, "The problem is..." You spend a lot more energy explaining what you CAN'T do, which just adds more energy to it.

    Like I am focusing on things that I want to change or that I want to be living instead of how I can feel better? Ive been working on feeling better thoughts today and I got to say ive been happier than usual, hopefully its not me turning insane from giving up lol, but I have felt happier and more at ease.
    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    I can definitely feel the difference between powerlessness and boredom, no doubt. But maybe like between Discouragement, Blame, Worry, Doubt, and disappointment, I cant find where I am in there you could even add overwhelment, even though I know that feeling but it usually comes after stressing so much about where I am. I hope that made more sense.
    You do the same thing here.

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    you probably think I am crazy, but is it normal to not really understand?

    When you said I did the same thing here, I'm not sure how to attach quotes the way everyone does, but I felt I was just explaining where I cant feel where I'm at on the scale until I just get overwhelmed and give up, that's when I know where I'm at, and I want to know before that happens.

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    So after 2 weeks of not posting or being around the forum I figured I would give a sort of update, along with some questions as anyone who knows me could imagine lol.

    I have been feeling a lot calmer more though the day, not so overwhelmed or anything like that, but more of a neutral feeling, not the greatest feeling, but still not the worst so that's a success to! I do still have my down moments, when I really worry about what I am going to do with my life, and I try to just ride those waves and go general about them and really just leave it to the universe to show me what to do with my life when the time is right, with divine timing. I can admit I do probably think about that a little more than I should, so that is something I have been working on trying to soothe those thoughts.

    I have no idea if this has anything to do with the LOA, I know it doesn't, but it might effect the way I look at things and such. I was just recently diagnosed with ADHD, I am currently working with my psychiatrist to find a medication that helps me stay focused and get motivation. I was thinking maybe that is why I over think everything, and makes everything feel so much harder to me and just simply makes me focus on a million things at once. Is there anything that Abe suggests for things like this? Should I be looking at things differently? I feel like once I get a medication that works for me, things will fall into place a little better, I know it wont make it perfect, but I really do feel like itll help me to feel better, and that what I am aiming for right?

    There is a lot more that's been going on and such, but I figured since these are on the fore front of my mind, I mine as well get these out there first, and see if I can get some help or opinions on what to do with these such things.

    I really do look forward to getting back into the flow of the forum and being active on it again, it helps so much when I'm able to talk things through even if it takes a wrecking ball to drive it through my skull lol.

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    And by the way, with the ADHD it kind of has me all over the place, but also makes me hyperfocus on things also which is basically me over thinking stuff. I also lack the motivation, which is why I was seeing if Abe suggests anything for that specifically. I do feel like if I could just get an overwhelming feeling of motivation everyday, especially first thing in the morning, I feel like I could start to tap into inspired actions with the motivation. Because right now, the inspired actions just arnt showing. Scratch that, the inspired actions are there, I am just not on the same frequency as them, I need to align myself so I can see the solutions and see the actions my inner being wants me to take.

    I am just looking to see if Abe suggests anything for me to do to try and get that motivation to be overwhelming so I can have the feeling of attracting the inspired actions, and just aligning myself with so much inspired action for so many different subjects that I wont know where to even start!!

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    You see it backwards.

    Your ADHD isnīt CAUSING you to be all over the place,
    but your habit to focus all over the place results in the label "ADHD".

    Whenever you use any excuse why you "are like you are", you are arguing for your limitations.
    I just now heard a clip where the HS argued that people with mental disabilities canīt focus so well, because they lack the hormons.
    Abe explained that itīs the other way round: EVERY body is a chemical factory and can build what ever matches the vibrational setpoint. And so- the hormons donīt get built by their body, when they choose a lackful focus.

    You CAN always choose a focus or thought, that feels a bit better/as relief. ALWAYS, no exception. Period.
    And so, you CAN get from everywhere to everywhere, eventually.

    Itīs about tiny, reliefgiving steps.
    Itīs about now, now, now, now.


    A happy life
    is just a string of happy moments.

    But most people don't allow the happy moment,
    because they're so busy trying to get a happy life.

    Abraham-Hicks

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    Do you meditate? Meditation is very helpful for training your focus. I also find appreciation and pivoting extremely helpful no matter where I am on the scale.

    Really, where you are is blessing. You have so much you can learn here that will yield huge benefits in your whole life moving forward. Truly, you have so much to appreciate.




    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    And by the way, with the ADHD it kind of has me all over the place, but also makes me hyperfocus on things also which is basically me over thinking stuff. I also lack the motivation, which is why I was seeing if Abe suggests anything for that specifically. I do feel like if I could just get an overwhelming feeling of motivation everyday, especially first thing in the morning, I feel like I could start to tap into inspired actions with the motivation. Because right now, the inspired actions just arnt showing. Scratch that, the inspired actions are there, I am just not on the same frequency as them, I need to align myself so I can see the solutions and see the actions my inner being wants me to take.

    I am just looking to see if Abe suggests anything for me to do to try and get that motivation to be overwhelming so I can have the feeling of attracting the inspired actions, and just aligning myself with so much inspired action for so many different subjects that I wont know where to even start!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    And by the way, with the ADHD it kind of has me all over the place, but also makes me hyperfocus on things also which is basically me over thinking stuff.
    Let me start by saying there's nothing wrong with trying meds to see if they can help. That said, I agree with PoE that the ADHD isn't the CAUSE of what's going on, it's a label for the result of your focus. As you get better at practicing thoigjs that feel better, things will shift.

    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    I also lack the motivation, which is why I was seeing if Abe suggests anything for that specifically. I do feel like if I could just get an overwhelming feeling of motivation everyday, especially first thing in the morning, I feel like I could start to tap into inspired actions with the motivation.
    That's sort of like saying that it would be easy to feel prosperous if you had a big pile of money in front of you. Maybe that's true, but you're going at thigs in a backward way. How you feel is a RESULT of your focus. You're not going to get a rush of inspiration when you're focused on things that worry you. Inspired action comes when you've found ways to feel BETTER without needing the conditions to change.

    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    Because right now, the inspired actions just arnt showing. Scratch that, the inspired actions are there, I am just not on the same frequency as them, I need to align myself so I can see the solutions and see the actions my inner being wants me to take.
    Right, those are just different ways of saying the same thing. In other words, you're still holding out for things to shift so that you can feel better, when you need to feel better first and then things shift.
    Quote Originally Posted by greenergrass View Post
    I am just looking to see if Abe suggests anything for me to do to try and get that motivation to be overwhelming so I can have the feeling of attracting the inspired actions, and just aligning myself with so much inspired action for so many different subjects that I wont know where to even start!!
    Yes, their suggestion is the same as ours - you've got to find ways to feel BETTER. When you're able to do that, the action is easy and obvious.

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    The quotes below are from this collection, it might be helpful...
    "Mental Disorders"



    ADHD (Attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder)


    HS asks about Abeīs input about what is going on
    when children have ADHD?

    Abe:
    Theyīve got too many people in their business.
    (big cheering)
    AND THAT`S ALL.

    Because, they get an impulse, they get the flow- and then somebody
    says, "Ah, ah, ah, ah!!! Thatīs NOT what you are supposed to be doing,
    right now!" -So, they are getting short-circuited.

    They getting impulses, which are disallowed by people, that are around
    them. Ahh, isnīt that a WONDERFUL thing to acknowledge?
    -So, whatīs the result? Give them lots of drugs, so that they canīt focus
    on what they want!
    Thatīs what society does:
    "Donīt follow your impulse. Your impulse is all over the place!"

    OF COURSE their impulse is all over the place! They are TITITO, they
    are gtting lots of impulses about lots of things!
    LET THEM FLOW!
    Compliment them of their fast moving mind.

    Rather than offering them discouraging words of not being able
    to focus on some DUMB thing that they donīt WANT to focus on!

    Think about it, do you remember what it was like, to be in those
    classrooms, where they wanted you to think about stuff, that didnīt
    matter to you? When they were in the process of wearing you down,
    and disconnecting you from your own guidance-system?

    So what you wanna say to anyone that you know, got it:
    "Good for you!! I want some, too.
    (big laughter)
    I want lots ideas to flow, and also a belief of being able to move i!"

    (...) Letīs talk not about a child, but with an adult with it. (...)
    So, there is a desire thatīs focused upon a vibrational condition that
    is not moving them to what they want. So, theyīve got split energy.
    And in their split energy, the desire of them is SO strong, but the
    split energy is preventing it- and THATīS why they are responding,
    in the way that they are!

    So itīs sort of, most any of you who come in an audience like this,
    to visit with us, and we say to you, that you want something and
    believe it, than IT IS. Than itīs easily accomplished!
    But if you want something and you doubt it, then there is a tug of war
    going on, inside of you!

    And so, that is really what is at the heart of this diagnosis!
    There is split energy, which is a tug of war, which manifests in
    someone appearing to be unhappy, or overrode, or "out of control".
    And we understand why there is societies desire to slow
    your desire down!

    Because the truth is- if you didnīt want that thing you donīt believe
    you can have- you wouldnīt have tension!

    (...) We really want you to feel the impact of this:
    If you didnīt want that thing you want, that you donīt believe- there
    wouldnīt be tension. But here is the big important thing:
    You CANīT STOP wanting!

    Your life has caused you to put it in your Vortex, and your IB is
    calling you towards it. Thatīs like saying to your IB: "Life caused me
    to become this vibrational version of me. But I donīt want to become
    it, because society doesnīt believe that I should.
    Or, I donīt believe that I should!"

    So this is a big deal that weīr talking about, here.
    This is THE diagnosis of split energy!

    So the question is, how can I help someone soothe their energy?
    How can I help myself, or help anyone else, to stop that contradiction?
    And the answer is:
    Get GENERAL about the subject.
    The answer is:
    Be a SOOTHER, not a disciplinarian.
    Be a SOOTHER, not a dispenser of drugs.

    Because what the drug does is, cause them to diffuse the focus
    on their desire. And so it might look like itīs helping- but it REALLY
    isnīt helping. Itīs just slowing the creative process!

    The answer to everything (...) is:
    Split energy is the reason for everything that you
    donīt like.
    And aligned energy is the reason for everything that
    you DO like.

    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks ~ ADHD - I want some too


    same interaction from above, continued



    Reinforce them! (at the example of ADHD)


    If your powerful intention was to acknowledge yourself,
    what the IB of that child
    (or any person with ADHS) is knowing,
    and then to reinforce THAT!

    -Reinforce the rightness! Reinforce the goodness.
    Reinforce the progress. Reinforce the adventure.
    Reinforce the purpose for being here! Reinforce the joy of the variety!
    Reinforce the newness of life! Reinforce the RIGHTNESS of whatever
    they are choosing.

    Reinforce the autonomy of them.
    Reinforce the self-empowerment of them.
    Reinforce the decisions of them!
    BACK THEM UP in their decisions!
    Back them up, in their right to decide!

    You see- all of that would go away.
    Itīs JUST frustration, from a spirit who KNOWS
    who he is, who some pieces of society is not
    allowing him to be, in that moment!



    from the clip
    Abraham Hicks ~ ADHD - I want some too

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