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    You have no idea what others REALLY are thinking,
    to begin with!

    "You've just got to let your guard down,
    by no longer putting those conditions in place,
    like what others think.
    Or what you think about what others think.
    Because you don't even know what others are thinking.
    You can't even begin to know what others are thinking!

    It's such a mixed bag.
    You don't know what others are thinking,
    but you've trained yourself into a perspective
    of what you think others are thinking.
    And you are the one who can change that, too."



    --Abraham, 2/15/14, Long Beach, CA

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    Don´t present yourself to others, but to your SOURCE.

    To a HS who has built up a persona of being a "realist" (actually more a pessimist)
    to protect himself from others judgements:


    You didn´t move past that feeling of caring about the way you´r being
    presented, the way you´r being perceived, from what you are presenting.

    And so, we´r just asking you to make ONE small switch of attention:
    We want you to present yourself to your Inner Being, who UNDERSTANDS you.
    Who KNOWS you. Who ADORES you. Who ACCEPTS you, fully.

    And all of that
    (negativity) will just begin to fade away.



    North Los Angeles, August 13, 2016, from the clip
    Abraham Hicks 2016 - Being an optimist is the way to the Vortex (new)

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    Trying to be understood by people can be a futile attempt, though...


    Nobody can understand you;
    no one will ever really get you.
    Give up trying to get them to get you.
    You’re not going to make them understand.

    You cannot explain yourself to anybody,
    because nobody can get your point of attraction,
    and the harder you try to explain to someone
    who’s not getting it who you are, the less you BE who you are.

    You let them train you into THEIR awareness of you.
    You don’t want THEIR awareness of you.
    You want YOUR awareness of you:

    your warm, loving, appreciative wellbeing version of you,
    the one that your Inner Being holds and tends to
    and knows and flows to you.

    Boston, Oct. 2014

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    Stop condemning yourself!


    We do not believe that anyone could sit in a room like this…
    and hear someone like Abraham,
    who knows the perfection of who you are,
    telling you how good you are,
    how wonderful you are, how really right you are,
    how really expansive and ever-changing you are,

    and we don’t think that any of you could get it even close
    to the way we know it and mean it.
    What we hope to do is to incite within you
    a desire to train yourself into that dominant thought.

    We want you to train yourself into self-appreciation.
    And you just do it one little thought at a time.

    Want to talk some more?

    Guest:
    No - that’s perfect.


    Abe:
    One little thought at a time.
    We want your mistakes -
    whatever they may be - to strike you as humorous.

    [When it comes to] your opinion of yourself, no matter what,
    we want you to look for redeeming features.
    We no longer want the insecure masses who have surrounded you,
    who have used your errors as their justification for feeling better,
    who have convinced you that you are unworthy and inappropriate
    and flawed in this way and this way and this way,
    as you don’t measure up to who knows what standards -

    we want you to just stand and sort of shake yourself off
    and begin saying, “I really don’t give a rip what any of you are thinking,
    because none of you have concentrated upon me fairly.
    None of you have really known — none of you know who I am,
    none of you know how I am from Source,
    none of you have walked in my shoes.

    Nobody knows. Nobody knows.

    I have accepted this feeling of un-appreciation unfairly,
    and I’ve practiced it,
    and I’m no longer gonna do it.”



    — Abe San Francisco, CA, 3/16/02

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    The way you feel about me
    doesn't have anything to do with me.
    It has to do with your own alignment.

    Abraham

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    Critics


    If you make your relationship with your Inner Being
    your top priority, and you deliberately choose thoughts
    that allow your alignment,
    you will consistently offer the greatest advantage to the others
    with whom you interact.

    Only when you are aligned with your Source,
    do you have anything to offer another.


    If your behavior is influenced by your desire
    to keep another person happy,
    you will lose your Connection to your Source.
    And it is not possible for you to be happy,
    unless you are in alignment with your Source.

    Without that alignment, you have nothing to offer another.

    Our daily meditation process will help you
    to consistently release resistance
    and to come into alignment with the power and clarity
    and love that is really who-you-are—
    and then anyone who you hold as your object of attention will benefit.


    Rather than attempting the impossible task
    of trying to behave in ways that please others,


    show them the ease of finding your consistent alignment.
    You will always find happiness inside your Vortex.
    And the happiness that they are seeking is inside their Vortex.


    --- Abraham
    Excerpted from Getting into the Vortex Guided Meditation CD and User Guide

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    Don´t care if people get you!

    The thing is, the greatest creators on your planet
    were always dreaming of something beyond what was.

    And when they where able to accomplish it, THEN they are called masters. But when you are still in the gap- they call you delusional, you see.

    So the world only wants to recognice your brilliance, AFTER you have maintained your positive expectation, and have accomplished the consistent frequency which allows it, until it´s manifested into your experience.

    You just can´t listen to he peanut gallery!

    At the time they´r calling you delusional, once you have accomplished it, then they call you greedy, for having more than they have! So, you just have to leave everybody else out of the occasion- and master your gap.

    Take pleasure from your gap.


    Phoenix Dec. 2013

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    Nobody else knows your reason for being.

    You do.

    Your bliss guides you to it.
    When you follow your bliss,
    when you follow your path to joy,
    your conversation is of joy,
    your feelings are of joy —

    you're right on the path of that which you intended
    when you came forth into this physical body.


    ---Abraham

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    "When you're in the vortex and being looked at
    by those who are not, you look like a freak.
    We probably should have told you that in the beginning."

    Abe



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    About Supportgroups


    We´r not saying that you cannot know uplifting people,
    and we don´t say that you cannot be good for one another.

    We´r just saying that support-groups are, for the most part,
    NOT conducive to self-empowerment.
    They are more conducive to NEEDING SUPPORT!

    Because the self-empowered don´t go there.
    Only the disempowered go to support-groups.


    from the clip Abraham Hicks - Writer Has A Novel Rocket Of Desire

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