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    Momentum?

    There is something I don't understand about momentum.

    From my understanding, and from what I've heard from Abraham and read on these forums, there are basically two ways of manifesting something. The first way is by focusing on it regularly to line up your vibration with that thing, and releasing any resistance that gets in the way. This could be called the deliberate way. And as you focus on the thing, the momentum in regards to that goal is speeding up.

    The other way is more non-deliberate. From what I understand you can just ask for something, then focus on something totally different, just feel good, never think about the subject again and it will come into your life. But in that case there's really no momentum since you're not focusing on it. Do I have that right?

    So I have a lot of experiences with the first method, and not so much with the second.

    I only started to have more success with money when I decided I wouldn't stop focusing until I had a certain amount. I was persistent with it, and focused on the goal every day and just knew it had to come, and it did. There was lots of momentum, and it happened quickly.

    I've also noticed that if I don't give focus to something, it seems to wither. Last year I had a bit of time where I couldn't focus on marketing my business much, because I was distracted by other things. As time went on, I noticed less and less activity, because I was focusing on it less. But it was still a desire to have a successful business, so why didn't the second method above kick in when I was distracted with other things?

    And finally, I have experienced the non-deliberate method. I just manifested a new laptop because one day I thought, “I really need to get a new laptop soon.” I didn't even set it as an intention, but a few days later my mother called me telling me about a good sale on just the laptop I wanted.

    But the role of momentum still confuses me. What's the point of it if we can just totally get off the subject and allow it to come? Is there a positive benefit to speeding up momentum on a subject?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    There is something I don't understand about momentum.
    The piece you're reaching for really isn't about momentum, it's about the absence of resistance.
    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    From my understanding, and from what I've heard from Abraham and read on these forums, there are basically two ways of manifesting something. The first way is by focusing on it regularly to line up your vibration with that thing, and releasing any resistance that gets in the way. This could be called the deliberate way. And as you focus on the thing, the momentum in regards to that goal is speeding up.
    I'd describe it a little differently: In lining up, you're deliberately soothing your resistance so that when you focus on your desire, you're not contradicting it through your resistance.
    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    The other way is more non-deliberate. From what I understand you can just ask for something, then focus on something totally different, just feel good, never think about the subject again and it will come into your life. But in that case there's really no momentum since you're not focusing on it. Do I have that right?
    Not quite. When you ask, Source automatically responds. Your desire is in the Vortex and your IB is always calling to you. As long as you're not doing something to contradict your desire, it comes naturally. It's not necessarily not deliberate, it's just not as direct.
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    So I have a lot of experiences with the first method, and not so much with the second.
    You likely have more experience with the second method than you realize. There are lots of things that you desire that you don't think about and in your absence of resistance, they come. The sun comes up every day and you don't spend a moment visualizing it coming up. You focus on other things and in your absence of resistance, it just happens. There's plenty in your life that operates that way.
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    I only started to have more success with money when I decided I wouldn't stop focusing until I had a certain amount. I was persistent with it, and focused on the goal every day and just knew it had to come, and it did. There was lots of momentum, and it happened quickly.
    That's great. You can certainly use your focus in that way and it can be successful. As the way you're used to feeling on the topic of money gets better an better, the gap between what you want and where you want to be shrinks. Eventually you'll have to spend less focus to get the same sorts of results.
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    I've also noticed that if I don't give focus to something, it seems to wither. Last year I had a bit of time where I couldn't focus on marketing my business much, because I was distracted by other things. As time went on, I noticed less and less activity, because I was focusing on it less.
    The key here is that you were basically relying on your action, rather than focus. It makes sense that if you believe that a certain amount of action will yield some results, then not taking that action will mean those results cease. What you didn't talk about was how you feel about your business generally when you're not taking that action. Often times we'll use action to try to make up for our lack of alignment.
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    But it was still a desire to have a successful business, so why didn't the second method above kick in when I was distracted with other things?
    First, notice the difference between not taking the action of doing marketing and not focusing on the subject of your business at all so that your alignment in other areas trains your vibration on business too. Second, are you suggesting that the distraction was by other subjects on which you were really aligned? Now I wasn't there, but I'll bet a whole dollar that the sorts of distractions you're talking about weren't the type that allowed your alignment on those subjects to dominate your vibration in the way Abraham means when they're talking about this.
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    And finally, I have experienced the non-deliberate method. I just manifested a new laptop because one day I thought, “I really need to get a new laptop soon.” I didn't even set it as an intention, but a few days later my mother called me telling me about a good sale on just the laptop I wanted.
    That's how things work when there's no gap between your desire and your belief. Contrast causes you to ask and it comes effortlessly.
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    But the role of momentum still confuses me. What's the point of it if we can just totally get off the subject and allow it to come? Is there a positive benefit to speeding up momentum on a subject?
    Because focusing deliberately on a subject and molding your vibration into place until things are the way you want them to be can be really fun and satisfying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    From my understanding, and from what I've heard from Abraham and read on these forums, there are basically two ways of manifesting something. The first way is by focusing on it regularly to line up your vibration with that thing, and releasing any resistance that gets in the way. This could be called the deliberate way. And as you focus on the thing, the momentum in regards to that goal is speeding up.
    There are two essential forms of “momentum:” Wanted momentum and Unwanted momentum. As we focus on anything (whether it's a desire or a manifested condition or a practiced thought), we are adding “momentum.” The important question you want to ask yourself is, “Is this Wanted or Unwanted momentum?” You can tell by checking in with your emotional guidance system. Unwanted momentum, which comes our focus on the Unwanted/Lack-or-Absence end of any “stick,” will bring us more Unwanted or Lack-or-Absence. In a sense, you would be “deliberately” (although Abraham use that term in a different sense that you're using it here) creating a reality that you do not want.

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    The other way is more non-deliberate. From what I understand you can just ask for something, then focus on something totally different, just feel good, never think about the subject again and it will come into your life. But in that case there's really no momentum since you're not focusing on it. Do I have that right?
    In both your presentations ,you're leaving out the important piece of your IB, the larger, vibrational portion of You which is standing in your Vortex and is ALWAYS focusing, in a non-resistant fashion, on what you want. That's a powerful source of wanted momentum. That's the momentum of the Stream of Well-Being, which is the basis of this entire universe.

    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    So I have a lot of experiences with the first method, and not so much with the second.

    I only started to have more success with money when I decided I wouldn't stop focusing until I had a certain amount. I was persistent with it, and focused on the goal every day and just knew it had to come, and it did. There was lots of momentum, and it happened quickly.

    I've also noticed that if I don't give focus to something, it seems to wither. Last year I had a bit of time where I couldn't focus on marketing my business much, because I was distracted by other things.
    How did these other things feel as they distracted you? Were they “issues”, “challenges”, “problems” that demanded your attention? Because those labels (and your emotions) would let you know if you were doing Step 3-Allowing or if you were resisting? When we are Allowing, we are Allowing everything that we've put in our Vortex. The converse is also true. When we are resisting, we are resisting everything that we've put in our Vortex. So, it wasn't your lack of attention which caused your withering experience. It was your resistant vibration about these other things as well as your expectation that you need to focus attention on your desire which caused your “withering.”

    For example, you may have seen (or had the experience yourself) instances where someone fell in love and as they focused solely on the delicious newness of that delightful experience, a lot of their other areas of their lives improved as well. In this case, they weren't giving much attention to those other areas. However, their Allowing vibration was fomi ant,so all the stuff in their Vortex started to flow to them. The opposite of the “withering" you're expecting.

    [QUOTE=Anything Is Possible;996573] …so why didn't the second method above kick in when I was distracted with other things?[QUOTE=Anything Is Possible;996573]
    You've been leaving out of your post your attention to your emotional guidance system which is how you can tell whether your Allowing or resisting. We have to read between your lines and guess (but you could know). My guess is that you were distracted in an resistant manner by your other things which created your “withering" experience.

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    And finally, I have experienced the non-deliberate method. I just manifested a new laptop because one day I thought, “I really need to get a new laptop soon.” I didn't even set it as an intention, but a few days later my mother called me telling me about a good sale on just the laptop I wanted.
    Here's a fun question for you to ponder: Where do you think your thought of “I really need to get a new laptop soon” came from? Wasn't that thought a product of momentum, whether you were paying attention to your momentum or not? IOW,you had been observing your laptop and,in your observation of your laptop, you were Asking (capitalized to indicate Abraham's meaning of this word, which is different than your meaning) and launching your RoDs about your laptop,adding to your Vortex. Now, you don't tell us but, generally, when we identify that we need a new something to replace what we have, that's often (usually? always?) a Step 1 moment. That's all right because sometime after that, you were able to shift from Step 1 to Step 3. As a result of your shift, you were able to Allow your manifestation of your mother's announcement of the sale.

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    What's the point of it if we can just totally get off the subject and allow it to come?
    Abraham teach us about momentum so that we can work with momentum. To that end, it's helpful to understand that we can create Wanted and Unwanted momentum. It's helpful for us to be able to discern between the two. It's helpful for us to be aware of when we are creating which type of momentum. It's helpful for us to know some of the properties of momentum so that we can more effectively (i.e., more comfortably) work with the momentum that we have going on.

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    Is there a positive benefit to speeding up momentum on a subject?
    Abraham sometimes compare momentum to the engines inside our cars. We don't need to know how our engines work in order to drive our cars. However, sometimes understanding how our cars’ engines work helps us become more effective drivers and opens us up to more strategies for driving our cars. But we don't need to get inside the hood of our cars and move the pistons and belts of our engines.

    In a similar fashion, momentum is the LoA's job. We don't need to get in there and push the pistons or pull the belts of momentum. That's the LoA's business, not our own.

    We don't need to “speed up” momentum, because our desire is DONE in Step 2, in the very instant of our Asking (Step 1). If we are ever without our desire, it's only because of our own resistance. So, we don't need to speed up our momentum in order to get our stuff. We “need to” release.our resistance to get our stuff. We can either stop practicing our resistance by withdrawing our resistant attention from a topic and focusing instead on a topic that's easy for us to feel better about. Or we can deliberately and consciously soothe and shift our thoughts on that topic so that they become less resistant (AKA “feel better”) for us. This last one's helpful when the topic in question is something that we are frequently encountering (like a job, a home, a loved one, etc.).

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    here is, imo, the superquote in regards to understanding what momentum REALLY is:


    When something really matters a lot,
    it tends to get really an inordinate amount of your attention.
    And when itīs moving into the direction you donīt want it to move,
    than that inordinate attention increases the momentum.

    And the thing that is so confounding about it, to you,
    that thing that makes you feel that disgust and rage, is-
    a part of you knows, that it doesnīt have to be that way.
    A part of you knows, that you are smarter than this,
    a part of you knows that if you just could get hold of it
    and apply yourself in a different way-
    you could turn it around!

    We want you to make MOMENTUM your friend, too!

    The thing we so want to convey to you
    in a way that you can really feel it, is that sliding in opposition
    to what you want DOES NOT INDICATE BAD CREATION.

    It indicates strong determination!

    If you really want something, and you are focussed in opposition to it,
    itīs really really uncomfortable.
    If you donīt care at all,
    then your opposition-thought doesnīt hinder you, at all.

    And so, when you feel strong about something, as you do
    there is very very very good news, in that.
    And the good news is:
    There is strong, strong, strong, strong, STRONG momentum!

    Now we want to help you understand something about momentum!
    Because, so far in this conversation,
    it felt like weīr talking about momentum, thatīs taking you into the OPPOSITE direction
    of where you want to be!

    But momentum -ahhhh- momentum is NEVER EVER taking you
    into the opposite direction of where you want to be!

    HEAR THIS!

    Momentum is ALWAYS source energy,
    moving TOWARDS something you really really want!

    But in opposite vibration,
    in opposing personal thought-vibration,
    the momentum that is really leading TOWARDS where you want to go,
    feels AWFUL while you are pulling against it!
    Now, did you get that??

    THIS MOMENTUM -this is not a downward-slide, that you are upon,
    this is an onward slide,
    this is the Universe, lining everything up, to give you everything
    that you want!
    THATīS WHATīS REALLY HAPPENING!

    But where you are standing within it,
    and almost everybody would understand it-
    you are pulling in such opposition that it FEELS to you,
    that the momentum is going in the opposite direction-

    because youīr taking score of current manifestations
    instead of understanding the power of the momentum!

    It would be a little bit like,
    if you would be garnering the empathise, that you where going to
    shoot something far far far out into space- but so far,
    the rocket hasnīt been launched.
    So, itīs just sitting there- in a resistant state!

    Iow, it wants to go, but they got it all strapped down,
    and so it looks like itīs going to tear the whole launchpad up,
    if somebody wonīt cut it loose and let it GO-

    and THATīs what we want you to focus on, here!
    This momentum, that feels like downward-spiral,
    is NOT a downward-spiral.
    Itīs an upward-spiral, that you are not flowing with, yet.

    Thatīs all that it is.


    Abraham Hicks


    from the collectionMomentum


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    So here is my question then, which I think is still on topic to this thread:

    If I were to just think one day, “$1 million would really be nice,” and then I dropped that thought and didn't think about it again.

    And say my money vibration is generally pretty good.

    Would that million dollars come just because I thought of it once?

    Or would it take focus, lining up deliberately?

    When is it effective to just let go, feel good and let something come without thinking about it?

    Because at some point it seems sort of ridiculous. I could think, “I'd love a billion dollars,” and it's so far away that it doesn't feel resistant. It feels more like a daydream than a serious desire that I'm choosing to line up with.

    So it seems silly that if I just think about a million, or even a billion dollars, in a way that is easy because I don't really believe it, and then let go, that it would just come.

    So is there a difference? I feel like I'm missing some crucial aspect to this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    So here is my question then, which I think is still on topic to this thread:

    If I were to just think one day, “$1 million would really be nice,” and then I dropped that thought and didn't think about it again.

    And say my money vibration is generally pretty good.

    Would that million dollars come just because I thought of it once?
    So, let's start at the beginning.

    Step 1-You Ask. <--This is the moment of your creation.
    Step 2-It is Given.
    Step 3-You Allow/Align.

    Now, the thing is when you Ask in Step 1, you Ask vibrationally. IOW, you don't ask with words. You Ask with your vibration. And you've been Asking, all day, every day. You're so good at Asking that you're not even aware that you're doing it. The point of what I'm saying is that, by the time that you can say with your words, "I want a million dollars," you've been Asking for enough money so that you can freely and easily enjoy your video games, Asking for enough money so that you can live in a nice home, Asking for enough money to pay the bills that have been showing up in your mailbox every day, Asking for enough money to build your business, Asking for enough money to buy something nice for your wife.... IOW, all that Asking has come before (and has been Given) long before you've identified that "a million dollars" is what you want.

    With every Asking, in the moment of your Asking, it has been Given, which means it's yours. It's done! It's in your VE/VR/Vortex. My point is that, long before you can utter the words, "I want a million dollars," all that abundance has been Given to you. When you get to the point of understanding, "I want a million dollars," that's not your creation of a million dollars. That's more about you catching up and catching a glimpse of what you have been putting in your Vortex.

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    Or would it take focus, lining up deliberately?
    You have to line up with it, yes. That's Step 3. Now, you don't "have to" line up with it deliberately. After all, Allowing (Step 3) is our natural state of being. You might stumble into Step 3 and Allow what you want to flow out of your Vortex into your experience. That's what people do all the time, when they Allow plenty of free air to breathe and to Allow gravity to keep them hurtling off into space, etc. A lot of people create by default, and that's all right.

    However, Abraham teach us that we can deliberately line up with the abundance (not just of money, but of all good things) that we have already Asked for.

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    When is it effective to just let go, feel good and let something come without thinking about it?
    All the time.

    You see, many people (and judging from how you're asking these questions) have turned this material into some sort of WORK. Abraham repeatedly, in many different ways, tell us to "let go of the oars", to "feel better", to "get happy", to "Allow", to "get in the receptive mode", to "get ITV, and then....", etc. and, from that place of Alignment, Allow what we've put in the Vortex to flow out of the Vortex into our physical time-space reality.

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    Because at some point it seems sort of ridiculous. I could think, “I'd love a billion dollars,” and it's so far away that it doesn't feel resistant.
    Well, if it seems so far away, that IS resistant. IOW, "resistant" is anything which contradicts a desire that you have. If you're thinking that I'd like to be so abundant (as represented by $1 billion) whilst having thoughts which make your $1 billion seem so far away, then the thoughts which make your $1 billion seem so far away are your "resistant" thoughts because they contradict your desire.

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    It feels more like a daydream than a serious desire that I'm choosing to line up with.

    So it seems silly that if I just think about a million, or even a billion dollars, in a way that is easy because I don't really believe it,...
    All the reasons you have that you "don't really believe it" are your resistant thoughts. They are the vibrations you're offering which do not Allow your abundance which has already been Given to flow out of your Vortex into your physical time-space reality.

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    ...and then let go, that it would just come.
    Now, the story that you're telling yourself about how this seems silly to you is your collection of resistant thoughts. That's something that you'll want to soothe and shift.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    So here is my question then, which I think is still on topic to this thread:

    If I were to just think one day, “$1 million would really be nice,” and then I dropped that thought and didn't think about it again.
    thing is, that this thought is NOT the beginning of the journey. When you become aware of a desire- as realizing (!) that you think a million would be nice, this means that your desire is already pretty big in your Vortex. Meaning, it really has already momentum.

    Thatīs because you have put together the contents of your Vortex incrementally: You added to it- probably without even realizing- all your life, and you already brought a big deal in, when you came into your body to begin with, old desires from what you have lived before, that are still brewing.

    But again, the realizing that you have a desire means it got big enough ITV, so that you finally notice it. This realization is a manifestation all in itself.

    And say my money vibration is generally pretty good.
    Would that million dollars come just because I thought of it once?
    Or would it take focus, lining up deliberately?
    When you donīt contradict it, it would become a reality.
    But itīs SO MUCH MORE FUN, to line up deliberately. As Abe point out, having the hands in your clay and enjoying the gap is what you really came for, itīs the zest of life, the "sweetzone".

    When is it effective to just let go, feel good and let something come without thinking about it?
    You have to figure that out for yourself. Sometimes, itīs so joyfully calling to dig the unfolding. Sometimes it just doesnīt interest and "call" you. And on some topics you even feel negativity, which means- back off a notch, go more general about them and think about more EASY topics INSTEAD for just a while.

    Because at some point it seems sort of ridiculous. I could think, “I'd love a billion dollars,” and it's so far away that it doesn't feel resistant. It feels more like a daydream than a serious desire that I'm choosing to line up with.
    Who cares! Is it FUN?

    So it seems silly that if I just think about a million, or even a billion dollars, in a way that is easy because I don't really believe it, and then let go, that it would just come.

    So is there a difference? I feel like I'm missing some crucial aspect to this.
    You miss the fact, that life REALLY is about joy.

    -Joy is the meaning of life, itīs what we came for.



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    Often you think that you want to launch the desire and you want to get it: Boom. Boom. Boom.
    I want to know what I want, I want to want it,
    I want to launch it, I want to line up, and I want to get it.
    -We say, yes you do and we want that for you,
    we want that for you, we want that for you...
    ...but we LOVE the process of life.

    We love the process, the delicious process of choosing,
    and the delicious process of launching the rocket,
    and the delicious process of knowing
    that you're not keenly in alignment with it
    or maybe not even close to it.
    And then the process of deliberately lining up with it.
    And then the conscious awareness of following your impulses,
    that intuition,
    that feeling of flow,
    that feeling of empowerment,
    that feeling of walking on air,
    that feeling of knowing you can do no wrong,
    that feeling of all things working out for you.
    And THEN, the manifestation!

    LA, 1/26/13




    Because, ah - it’s the secret of life friends:
    To hatch a desire and keep up with it. To hatch a desire and believe in it!

    There’s just no sweeter moment in time,
    than to hatch a desire and to believe in it.


    And there’s no suckier moment in time than to hatch a desire and doubt it. And it’s your choice now. So the question is: How general are you willing to be, to catch the tail of alignment?

    That’s really the question of the day.
    How general are you willing to get in order
    to catch the tail of alignment?

    And if you are willing to catch the tail of alignment and stay there for a little bit, LOA will increase the momentum of that, until you are just flowing and blowing, until you are tuned in, tapped in, and turned on.

    San Francisco, 3/8/14



    both from the quotecollectionQuotes about "the Sweet Spot"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    So here is my question then, which I think is still on topic to this thread:

    If I were to just think one day, “$1 million would really be nice,” and then I dropped that thought and didn't think about it again.

    And say my money vibration is generally pretty good.

    Would that million dollars come just because I thought of it once?
    This may seem like an obvious question, but why do you think that $1 million would be really nice?" It seems obvious, but it's really not. That sum of money represents something to you and the answer to that question really lays out what you're reaching for. Now the other piece of the puzzle is what you're doing vibrationally otherwise, and those two answers really go hand in hand. On one hand, people often use a large sum of money as a proxy to represent freedom or empowerment. But the flip side to that is often they're doing it from a strong place of resistance to other things. Here's what I mean -- a lot of times people will say, "$1 million would be really nice..." and the unspoken part will be, "because then I wouldn't have to go to this crappy job ever again..." or "because then I can finally have the independence I've always wanted..." or "because I wouldn't have to live with my girlfriend in her parents' basement anymore ..." or "because then I could move out of this boring town..." or something similar. So can you see where even if your "money vibration is generally pretty good" and saying "$1 million would be pretty good" isn't really going to make you a match when the rest of the time you're offering resistance in the rest of your life?

    In contrast, let's imagine that you're right, your money vibration is pretty good and rather than focusing on a particular number that you don't believe, instead you're just pleased as punch with how things are going. You're noticing what's going right, not just on the topic of money but in most of your life. You're focused on how great things are going and the more you notice how much better it's getting, the better it gets. You're enjoying the FEELING of empowerment and freedom and LOA just keeps affirming that freedom and empowerment. So from that place of really practicing the feelings of empowerment and freedom until they're dominant, it's not a big leap to imagine that one of the ways LOA manifests that freedom and empowerment is through money. Now keep in mind how Abraham talks about focusing for 17 seconds and another 17 seconds, and so on until you get to 68 seconds, where you've really made a big vibrational impact. So let's imagine the vibrational impact you're making by holding the vibration of appreciation and satisfaction for those big chunks of time. From that very different place, is it hard to imagine being a match to a big pile of money even though you're not focusing on a particular sum when you're offering a consistent vibration of freedom and empowerment and things going right? Not really.

    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    Or would it take focus, lining up deliberately?
    Are you going to have to feel differently in order to be a match to something other than what you're used to experiencing? Absolutely. "Lining up deliberately" does not necessarily mean, "focusing on a particular topic in a specific way."
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    When is it effective to just let go, feel good and let something come without thinking about it?
    It's especially effective when you're able to genuinely let something go and focus on other things that feel good. When you're constantly noticing that you're living a different experience than you want, it's more challenging.
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    Because at some point it seems sort of ridiculous. I could think, “I'd love a billion dollars,” and it's so far away that it doesn't feel resistant.
    It feels more like a daydream than a serious desire that I'm choosing to line up with.
    I know you just used the phrase, "it doesn't feel resistant," but then you just describe how resistant it feels -- it feels "so far away" and "it feels more like a daydream." That's a lot of resistance, it's just a lot of resistance that's not opposed by strong desire. It also gives us some clues as to how you're vibrating generally around other topics now, doesn't it? After all, if you're focused on how right things are going, and you're used to things working out for you and you're feeling good and getting what you want, what's so "ridiculous" about your well being coming in the form of a big pile of money in addition to the other ways it's showing itself to you?
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    So it seems silly that if I just think about a million, or even a billion dollars, in a way that is easy because I don't really believe it, and then let go, that it would just come.
    Again, you just pointed out your resistance and you're simply noticing that from your place of resistance, focusing on specifics that you don't believe, it's obvious that you can't get where you want that way. But that's the point -- what you've described is not focusing on money in a way that is easy, you're focusing on it in a resistant way. There are certainly other ways to go about it. But you're right, when you're used to being in a place of feeling like things aren't coming easily, it's illogical to think that suddenly you're going to offer a thought of, "Gee, a million, billion dollars," and it's going to pop into your experience instantly.

    Quote Originally Posted by Anything Is Possible View Post
    So is there a difference? I feel like I'm missing some crucial aspect to this.
    You are. We're still getting at the same issue as before -- it's about letting go of resistance. There are lots of different ways to do that, but you're trying to stand in your place of resistance and imagine how things can operate differently, but you've never seen them operate differently. That makes perfect sense. That's why you're not going to be able to think your way to what you want, you've got to soothe yourself emotionally first, and as you're gradually able to see how the improvement in the way you feel impacts your experience, you'll gradually demonstrate to yourself how things actually work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WellBeing View Post
    Now, the thing is when you Ask in Step 1, you Ask vibrationally. IOW, you don't ask with words. You Ask with your vibration. And you've been Asking, all day, every day. You're so good at Asking that you're not even aware that you're doing it. The point of what I'm saying is that, by the time that you can say with your words, "I want a million dollars," you've been Asking for enough money so that you can freely and easily enjoy your video games, Asking for enough money so that you can live in a nice home, Asking for enough money to pay the bills that have been showing up in your mailbox every day, Asking for enough money to build your business, Asking for enough money to buy something nice for your wife.... IOW, all that Asking has come before (and has been Given) long before you've identified that "a million dollars" is what you want.

    With every Asking, in the moment of your Asking, it has been Given, which means it's yours. It's done! It's in your VE/VR/Vortex. My point is that, long before you can utter the words, "I want a million dollars," all that abundance has been Given to you. When you get to the point of understanding, "I want a million dollars," that's not your creation of a million dollars. That's more about you catching up and catching a glimpse of what you have been putting in your Vortex.
    This right here is what I was missing: the fact that a desire is vibrational, and is already in the Vortex and picking up momentum by the time the words are formed.

    That changes a lot about how I understand all this. It feels like it's more of a discovering of our desires, in a way then. Our life experience has already given birth to those desires, and we are just giving voice to them through our discovery. Would that be accurate?

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