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    Woohoo! So happy! :pt:

    Woohoo! So happy! :pt:
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    Yaay! :dancer:

    Yaay! :dancer:
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    This is truly wonderful! I couldn't contribute...

    This is truly wonderful! I couldn't contribute anything much this time, but looking forward to when I can contribute much more. I appreciate this forum so much and I am really happy to see the...
  4. Thread: We are back!

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    So good to see the forum's back! ��

    So good to see the forum's back! ��
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    I had more of an intellectual understanding that...

    I had more of an intellectual understanding that I didn't need anyone to feel fun and excitement, but I wasn't feeling it yet which made me obsess over the guy. I had gotten used to him cheering me...
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    True. I am once again focussing on getting the...

    True. I am once again focussing on getting the stuff over feeling better.
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    Thank you for this quote! I did have some...

    Thank you for this quote! I did have some negative ideas of relationships - that they could be a real hassle. But this is a such a refreshing fun way to approach them!
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    Thank you for all the responses! I followed the...

    Thank you for all the responses! I followed the advice on here and tried to focus on what I want in a relationship and why I want it - but I continued to feel confused. So I decided to go with the...
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    Clarity on relationships

    The topic of relationships is something I usually avoid because I never felt the need for one. But I keep running into really great guys who I then think I would like to have a relationship with and...
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    Thank you all for your wonderful answers! ...

    Thank you all for your wonderful answers!


    Thank you. I understand expansion and the purpose of choosing to be human better now.

    Since my last post, I was able to deal with anxiety in various...
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    In the days since my last post, I tried to just...

    In the days since my last post, I tried to just let the anxiety be and feel it and that sort of works. But generally I tend to procrastinate on reaching that stage because I don't want to feel the ...
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    I think I begin to understand. Usually when I...

    I think I begin to understand. Usually when I feel bad, I immediately try to soothe it in a frenzy to escape it or feel frustrated with myself for feeling something like hurt or blame towards someone...
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    I guess I started letting reality affect me again...

    I guess I started letting reality affect me again because I felt very uncomfortable and guilty with the ignoring the guy situation, and then I started noticing the reality of a lot of other things...
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    Ok, so here’s an example of a situation I just...

    Ok, so here’s an example of a situation I just don’t know how to feel better about. I feel a certain emotional nausea. In regular nausea, it might feel like vomiting it all out would feel better....
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    But if I accept how I feel, why would I want to...

    But if I accept how I feel, why would I want to move up the EGS? Currently I have accepted this anxiety I have and that it's not something that will ever go away. I guess I will just have to work...
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    I wasn't planning to block out all thoughts about...

    I wasn't planning to block out all thoughts about him because I didn't feel the need for that although today I feel differently since right now it is easy for me to go back to obsessing over the...
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    Ignoring/Accepting reality

    I have been getting better at not taking reality too seriously and understanding it to be the illusion of sort that it is. This is something that has been helping a lot with a Fred situation.

    I...
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    Thank you for the excerpt POE! :D

    Thank you for the excerpt POE! :D
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    Thank you for this. I used to feel like I...

    Thank you for this. I used to feel like I couldn’t meditate unless I calm myself down to a better feeling place first, but am beginning to see that is not the case.
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    I was meditating today and instead of trying to...

    I was meditating today and instead of trying to soothe this persistent anxiety I always have, I tried to accept it as a valid part of me and kind of realised that what I felt as this anxious knot in...
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    That's cool you could do it even in your sleep,...

    That's cool you could do it even in your sleep, skylark!

    I kind of lost myself to one of those trances again where I felt this constant anxiety knot in my stomach and then I tried to distract...
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    Thank you Marc, songbird and skylark. Your...

    Thank you Marc, songbird and skylark. Your responses have brought me more clarity on this.


    I observed myself when I am with other people/friends and noticed this tendency to act happier than I...
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    Being focused and 'serious', and making peace?

    I had this question on my mind for a while now that I wasn't quite sure how to word. I'll try and explain it anyway. It looks to me like people who are productive and successful tend to be very busy...
  24. Thank you Marc and Paradise-on-earth. I have been...

    Thank you Marc and Paradise-on-earth. I have been thinking about your responses (and sometimes procrastinating on doing so) during the vacations.

    I have also been thinking about the topic of...
  25. Nice example, but I'd still say time plays a...

    Nice example, but I'd still say time plays a factor in that decision. So I suppose it's okay to make a decision like that, as long as you don't do so from a place of resentment and you are happy or...
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