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    Attempting to Control Others Attracts More to Be Controlled...


    It is easy to understand how you would come to the conclusion
    that your path to feeling good is through influencing or controlling
    the behavior of others.

    But as you attempt to control them (through influence or coercion),
    you discover that not only can you not contain them -
    but your attention to them brings more like them into your experience.

    You simply cannot get to where you want to be,
    by controlling or eliminating the unwanted.


    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    Thank you, Qzi!


    Lighten up!
    Lighten up!
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    Lighten up!
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    Lighten up!

    Everything that we are talking about here, from the first subject
    to the last is about lightening up!

    It's about not making such a big, hairy deal of things that just don't matter.
    It's about getting in the Vortex and lightening up and feeling better and
    loving myself more and having more fun.

    In other words, you want your world to be
    light and free.

    You can't organize the world, and you can't organize your home.
    You just got to get into alignment with who you are.
    And then your body and your home will take shape around you,
    to match this vibrational alignment that is taking place within you.


    Philadelphia 6/11/09

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    The Thoughts I Think Determine the Relationship I Attract

    You are the thinking, Vibrating attractor of your experience;
    and the thoughts you think determine everything about the life that you live.

    As you turn your attention toward the positive aspects of the personalities
    and behaviors of others with whom you share your planet, you
    will train your point of attraction in the direction of only what you desire.

    Not only does the power of your thought determine
    which people make their way into your life,
    but the power of your thought determines
    how they behave once they get there.



    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    Our Varied Behavior Adds to the Planet's Well-Being

    When you remember that nothing can come into your experience
    without your Vibrational invitation of it, then you do the simple work
    of paying attention to your own Vibrational offering,
    and you save yourself the enormous and impossible task
    of controlling the behavior of others.

    When you remember that the varied behavior of others
    adds to the balance and the Well-Being of your planet, even if they offer
    behavior that you do not approve of; and that you do not have to
    participate in the unwanted behavior, and will not - unless you give your
    attention to it - you become more willing to allow others
    to live as they choose.



    ---Abraham
    Excerpted from: The Vortex on August 31, 2009

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    The majority of your population, in your nation of democracy, is experiencing every bit as much bondage as the majority in the other forms of government;

    because bondage is not about the form of government, it is about the individual attachment to the vibration that disallows the Well-being from flowing.

    Excerpted from San Francisco, CA on 8/18/01

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    Control, or Un-control?

    To a HS who ponders becoming a politician:

    You just get to decide, if you squander and squelch
    your wellbeing, while you are focusing on things,
    where you have only UN-CONTROL.

    ALL of your control is HERE
    (in the Vortex).
    NONE of your control is THERE
    (out of the Vortex).

    Your control isn´t in the action.
    Your control is in your ALIGNMENT!
    You see- then we must say, your control is in your LOVE,
    even when you think they don´t deserve it!

    Your control is in your alignment.
    Your control is in your optimism.
    Your control is in your appreciation.
    Your control is in your aligning with source.
    Not in your pushing against, you see!

    These are WONDERFUL times. There has never been
    more momentum, in the Vortex!
    There has NEVER BEEN more momentum in the Vortex.
    Which means, there has never been more energy,
    for you to tap into, and receive and demonstrate,
    through your thoughts.

    But you can´t push against ANYTHING,
    without dis-engaging from the very energy, that is your joy!

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    Abraham Hicks - The Possibilities Of Politics 2016 NEW

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    There are no hinderers in your world, not one.


    You continue to blame other people
    when it SEEMS that it’s their fault.
    But it’s never anybody else’s doing.

    And when you finally accept that, and you focus
    -fabulous word- you focus to match
    what’s in your vibrational escrow,
    and you begin to feel the POWER of your alignment,

    then you don’t need trust anymore-
    because you’ve got knowing.

    You don’t need faith anymore,
    because you’ve got evidence all around you.

    You feel invincible. You KNOW that there is a path
    continually unfolding before you and that you are upon it.
    And all other people, as you see them
    through your Source-like eyes, become playful components
    of your contrast, playful components of your allowing;
    they’re just players in your environment to assist you
    in creating and aligning.

    There are no hinderers in your world; not one.
    It’s YOU that makes your stream move.
    And it’s you, that goes with it or not. Period.


    -Abe 9/8/07

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    Lawsuits?

    In most lawsuits, most people just use each other as their excuse to disconnect from the Stream.

    And then they just suffer until the one who is the least disconnected wins the lawsuit. But it is still an exercise in disconnecting from Source Energy that we think is never worth the price of the reward, no matter how great the reward of a lawsuit is.


    Excerpted from Buffalo, NY on 9/27/00

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    Mirror-image

    You see... when you’ve got somebody in your life that’s showing you negative things that you don’t want- you know what that means?

    -You’re vibrating in harmony with those negative things that you don’t want!

    If you manage through your imagination or through your selective sifting, to achieve harmony with your desire, it´s not possible for them to show you those negative things!
    And if they are still showing you those negative things, it’s because you’re a match to those negative things.
    They are a reflection of what you are outputting.


    They are friends, helping you to know how you are vibrating. They are part of the manifestation that’s helping you know how to flow energy. They are part of the process that is giving you the knowledge of how to flow.
    You see how it all fits together?

    -Abe 8/3/97

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